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    One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    I am working in a government school. From the past few days I have noticed that one of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy. But I am very sad and shocked at this attitude of hers as I have never wronged her in any way whatsoever. I donít know what is happening. What to do in such a situation?

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    hello.

    without doing any thing she will not behave like this to you..

    because you may unknowingly did something and it will create problem to her.but you don't know this..

    so that better you can directly ask her to what is the problem,why you behave like this.etc..

    if she is not speaking to you directly means better you can find that matter by some other colleague.

    thank you.

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    I think the way she is thinking because any person who do not like you might have said bad about you which thinks she is not good for her.
    So, she this might be one of the reason for her strange attitude by her towards you.
    So, as per the details you have mentioned this is only possible happening so try to convince her before the matter gets serious because if in future anything happens then you will get blamed.
    So, don't neglect the issue it may become into big if don't take it seriously.
    So, as far as possible try to convince and become a friend.
    Good luck.

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    good morning
    sir , its a really a diffcult situation and occur many times in life when someone or your friends start hating you or thinking you as your enemy without any reason . sir , i think that you should go and talk to that person about the matter . hope so, the matter will be clarifed . this type of problems occurs when peoples start framing ideas and views from the other people view of your self. without knowing the true nature of person .
    sir , think talking to that person is the only solution to this issue .

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    Hi, It's always advised to lead our lives in a very light manner. Thinking too much or worrying too much about issues taking place around us only burden us with extra loads. So, my dear friend, stop worrying about the teacher so much and you just behave with her in a pleasant manner. In case, she does not give positive response to your greetings, then avoid talking to her. May be she is facing some other troubles in her life or even if she considers you as her enemy, you cannot change her thoughts as she might have her own reasons for that. So, try keeping yourself away from such thoughts and enjoy the company of other teachers in your school. There are many people around us who either do not like us or we do not like them. But time still passes and we still move on in our lives. This is one of the laws of nature. You never know, very soon the perception of the teacher might undergo a sea-change and she might try to befriend you. So, go on in your life and leave few things on time. Thanks.

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government school. From the past few days I have noticed that one of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy. But I am very sad and shocked at this attitude of hers as I have never wronged her in any way whatsoever. I donít know what is happening. What to do in such a situation?

    Hello Aspirant,

    See,the nature of a person is variable.Action of a person depends upon many factors & situations.Though you have not wronged with your friend,she might have been misguided by some of your friends/colleagues & because of which,she might have believed her.This could have changed her behaviour.

    Need not worry.Instead,you should talk to her freely & discussed for change in her behaviour & suspicion to harm her in any matter.You can ask her proof for the same.Also try to convince her that she has not done any thing wrong with her.If she agrees,it is alright ,otherwise be free & happy in your works.Whenever,any one talks about her,just say every thing is normal.Whenever you feel need to help her,you should help her & don't criticize her before any one.After some time every thing may be alright.

    Hope you will manage the situation.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    You are a newcomer in professional area and I hope that until you will give about 1 year with dedication you will not know the exact atmosphere of government and private offices that what happens inside of the organization because you will see the competition everywhere in the office, market, society etc. and try to notice one thing in the world that everyone wants to be ahead in the world that is why they are running behind money and some of them think that they have more knowledge than that of others and so care about these things before entering in professional area

    When the teacher is behaving badly with you and taking you as enemy in school then you should let this information know by principals because you are the new teacher and working according to the instructions and never disrespected anyone in the past days of service and given enough and deserving respect to all teachers then you also deserve for the same from other teachers and employees working in school and if you will not get the same then you are allowed to complain about this to the principals and they will handle this situation

    When that teacher behave you wrong and rudely then you should take some time when the principal is free and no body is around the principal then you should go to the principal with respect and ask them that respected sir tell me about my attitude, behavior and performance in this school and if I have done something wrong with anyone then I am really sorry so principal will ask you the reason that why you are being like this then you can explain your problem that one of the teachers is not ready to give me respect and I do not care about my own respect but she should be similar to all and I have not done anything with her and against her even after she treat me as enemy in the school so this is creating a lot of disturbance in school and I am finding myself unable to work hard and improve the school and request your principal that sir please take a solution and make her understand so your principal will make you believe and allow you to leave and surely you will get the solution

    All the best

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    Re: One of the teachers thinks me to be her enemy when I havenít done anything wrong with her

    she will not behave like that without any mistake done by you.you may unknowingly create some problem to her.If you want to know why she is treating as an enemy you have to talk to her directly and should ask the reason about this to her.then you can know what problem you have create for her.
    all the best
    thank you

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