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    My best friend is not talking to me for the past few days as he thinks that I have misinformed the boss about him

    I am working in a government organisation. One of my colleagues, who is also my best friend has not been talking to me for the past few days. I have come to know that he thinks that I was the one who misinformed the boss regarding his bad behaviour towards one of the employees. But this is not true at all. How to come out of such a situation?

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    Rituja Array
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    Re: My best friend is not talking to me for the past few days as he thinks that I have misinformed the boss about him

    Hello

    This situation has cropped up simply due to misunderstanding.He has misunderstood you as there is huge chance that somebody else have intentionally projected you in a wrong way to him.Since he is not talking to you,I think you have to take the initiative to clear his doubts.Talk to him personally and make everything clear to him so that he can have all his doubts cleared.If he a real friend then he will understand your point.

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    Re: My best friend is not talking to me for the past few days as he thinks that I have misinformed the boss about him

    To break a good relation it takes second but to make a relation it takes many years.. For an friendship to withstand its the belief on each other that makes it strong and healthy.. When you have come to know the exact reason why your friend is not talking to you then you need to clear the misunderstanding first go to him speak frankly be the first to save an good relation,be the first to clear all the obstructs in your friend never try to break your friendship even your friend is on verge of breaking it.. Make him understand that you have not made an allegation against you to boss make him know the facts and prove it to him..

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    Re: My best friend is not talking to me for the past few days as he thinks that I have misinformed the boss about him

    As you said that he thinks that you have misinformed of his bad behaviour to the boss, so you need to speak to him regarding this as if the problem is solved in the begining then it will not hurt you everyday, so you need to take your step ahead and speak to him regarding the same, if possible take him to the boss and also make the point clear that who is the person who has misinformed about him as bos will definitely know that. And also convince him to confess him in front of the boss that whatever mistakes he did just forgive him as that he will not repeat again in the life. This will help him a lot and also make him confident, also you will find your lost friend again.

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    Re: My best friend is not talking to me for the past few days as he thinks that I have misinformed the boss about him

    hello,

    you must talk to your boss about it and get it confirmed to your friend with the boss that you haven't misinformed about your friend.

    This will help you surely.

    First you talk about it to your boss and convince him to tell the correct information about the matter.

    then let your friend have a meeting with the boss.

    If your friend his convinced he will surely be friendly with you again

    Good luck

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