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    Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    I am a teacher working in a private school. My husband is an engineer working with a private firm. He hasnít got any salary hike for a long time and thus he takes a lot of stress and tension due to that. He is already suffering from hypertension and thus I am really very worried for him and his health. How to deal with such a situation?

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    First of all tell him that taking much stress won't help him in any sense and will also effect his future career.

    As you are saying that he is working for a long time in a company which means that by now he is quite experienced.

    It is possible that the company in which he is working is not capable to give much salary to him, so tell him to start applying to other companies as which have

    higher salary packages, there are many job opportunities both in India and outside India with handsome salary packages for engineers. You can find relevant jobs

    for him through internet on various job portal sites, also tell him to find companies that suits him now a days most of the good companies do have there

    webpages he can find opportunities on there website. English news papers can also be a good source for finding recent job openings.

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Hello mam,

    As you are saying that due to this reason , your husband is taking so much stress. But this is the point that why is getting delay to have a salary hike , because if a man if getting so much worried and taking so much tension then how can focus on his work. So mam, your the who can make him understand that , he will get a salary hike only when he will concentrate upon his work. Because a man cannot focus on his work, if he is in any kind of tension.

    Hope you got my point.
    Thanks.

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    Hi aspirant

    I think that you should ask your husband to take care of his health and not to take so much stress. He should not be so disheartened that will affect his health in such a bad manner. If he stays healthy , then only he will be able to progress further in life. Otherwise it will be very troublesome for him. You should try to motivate him to move forward in life and to forget about the past. Let bygones be bygones.

    Help him to think positive and to develop self confidence. He should start searching for new jobs through newspapers, magazines, television etc. Also the internet is one of the most powerful resource today for finding a job like naukri.com, monster.com. If he puts adequate efforts and believes in himself, then i am sure he will be able to find a suitable job for himself . In this way he will be able to forget all his depression and woes.

    I hope you are able to encourage your husband and get him back on track. Good luck

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    hello..

    the salary will be hiked based on these three factors

    1)Performance

    2)attitude

    3)behavior

    if you satisfy these factors then your eligible for asking the salary hike

    may the company will expecting more thing from you

    so first of improve your performance

    then the company will provides the Salary hike

    all the best

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Dear friend,

    First of all tell him that taking much stress won't help him in any sense and will also effect his future career.
    As you are saying that he is working for a long time in a company which means that by now he is quite experienced.
    It is possible that the company in which he is working is not capable to give much salary to him.
    so tell him to start applying to other companies as which have
    higher salary packages, there are many job opportunities both in India and outside India with handsome salary packages for engineers.
    You can find relevant jobs for him through internet on various job portal sites.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best..............

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Hello,

    Stress is a silent killer. You should talk to your husband and tell him not to take undue stree at work. If he is not getting the
    desired amount as salary then it is much better to look for work elsewhere. There are many good companies in India who are
    ready to pay for the right candidates. You are a teacher and your husband is an engineering and both of you are earning at the
    moment. Then there is no need to take extra stress at work. There are many cnsultancy firms and online job portals such as
    TimeJobs, Shine, Naukri, Monster etc he can take their professional help at any time. Best of luck.

    Bye,

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    Why isnt he getting any increament? in every company there is 10 % increament with the begining of next year and this rule follows both in provate as well as the public sector. So must be your husband getting it and if he is not then for sure he has right to ask the authorities that handle it! Next , your husband must see to his performance if its lacking any where or it may not be able to cater the needs of the employer well. Ask him to talk to his boss very humbly and in very decent manner regarding this issue and just ask the possible work and activites he needs to do more so that he gets the success.. Price hike takes place all around every now and then and to subtle the expenses one needs to have a pay growth as well. So just try put all points in front of the boss and convince him. Moreover take your husband to some psycologist so that he overcomes this stress. Thank you

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Hello,
    Money is not everything in life.
    Health is wealth and you should understand that we need money to live not live to earn money.
    These two statements should be thought deeply.
    Try to spend judiciously.
    Save more and deposit in bank which gives insurance.
    Don't take unnecessary tension because it can make the situation more worst.
    Enjoy the life.
    thank you.

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    I believe that you ought to request your own man to manage her health and to not ever bring so much stress. He should not be therefore disheartened that should have an effect on her wellbeing in that undesirable manner. In the event he stays balanced , and then only he should be able to advancement further in life. If not it'll be really difficult for him. You need to motivate him or her for you to make progress in your life and forget about the past. Enable bygones become bygones.

    Aid him or her to think favourable and grow do-it-yourself confidence. He must commence hunting for brand new employment by means of magazines, newspapers, tv set etc. Likewise the web can be the single most impressive source of information these days for locating a position similar to naukri.com, monster.com. In the event he places satisfactory initiatives and also is convinced in himself, and then almost certainly he should be able to discover a good project for himself.In this manner he should be able to ignore almost all her despression symptoms and also woes.
    First of all tell him that will using very much tension is not going to support him or her in for good business and will result her future career.
    Because you are expressing that he's working for many years in a business consequently by now he is pretty experienced.
    It is also possible how the company in which he is working isn't capable of supply very much pay for you to him.
    therefore tell him to get started applying to other companies since that are fitted with
    greater pay offers, there are lots of opportunities in the China and also exterior China having good looking pay offers for engineers.
    Because you are saying that for this reason reason , your own man is taking so much stress. Nonetheless that is the matter that the key reason why is receiving hold up to possess a pay increase , just like a man if getting so much worried and also using so much stress and then how can consentrate on her work. Hence mam, your own this who can cause him to know that , he will receive a pay increase only when he will certainly focus about her work. Simply because a man won't be able to consentrate on her perform, if he is in any kind of tension.

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    hi,
    first thing our husband should do is to calm his mind.you can go for a holiday or some function ,party..
    than he needs to think where is the problem actually.
    if his performance is the problem then he needs to focus and enhance his performance and if the problem is with the senior authorities than he should immediately think of switching to some other firm because staying in the same firm with less hike will certainly degrade his career graph.
    searching a solution is better than just taking stress and tension.
    good-luck.

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Dear Aspirant,


    Nothing is coming first than health.First of all,tell your husband not to take too much stress as it will not help in any sense in this case.Getting salary hike is based on the following things:-

    1)attitude
    2)performance
    3)behavior

    Your husband is an experienced employ as you said that he has not got the salary hike from the long time.It is also possible that in the company he is working is not able to cope him with good salary.
    There is no other option behind searching for the new job.There are many job opportunities in India for the good engineers.There are also many job searching sites available on the internet for getting the job.


    Thanks and good Luck

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    Re: Worried about my husband as he is not getting any salary hike

    Hi, A wife is an epitome of love, care and compassion. When our husbands and children let down their spirits and start feeling low, then it's our duty and nature to support them and give them immense strength to stand again and fight back all the odds of life. So, dear friend, you have to prove yourself as the strength of your husband in this testing time. First of all, take good care of your husband and tell him to stop thinking about hikes and promotions. These are transitory in life but the company that you guys enjoy together will last till the end. Explain him that you are happy with what god has given you so far and nothing is more important than his health for you. You can never compromise on his health. Also, assure him that even you are an earning member in the family and will always support your family but you trust his abilities and you are sure that he would get what he desires and deserves in life. He just needs to be patient and calm at the moment. Wish you luck and loads of happiness, dear. Thanks.

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