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    In what way I can persuade my colleague to not leave the company?

    I and a college mate of mine were recruited into this company. As we were from the same college we were close to each other. He is unsatisfied with work policy and unnecessary restrictions imposed by our boss. So he has decided to give up on this job but as a friend and colleague I want to persuade him but do not know how to persuade him?

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    Re: In what way I can persuade my colleague to not leave the company?

    Dear friend, as you and your collegue are the college mate friends and you both get recruited in campus placement in the same company. Dear, if your friend want s to leave this job and don't he is getting job anywhere then you have have persuade him by telling him the advantage of the company where you are working and if he getting job in some another good company with the good salary package then you don't have to persuade him because it effects on your friendship in such situation you just congrats him for his succesfull. Best of Luck.

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    Re: In what way I can persuade my colleague to not leave the company?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I and a college mate of mine were recruited into this company. As we were from the same college we were close to each other. He is unsatisfied with work policy and unnecessary restrictions imposed by our boss. So he has decided to give up on this job but as a friend and colleague I want to persuade him but do not know how to persuade him?

    Dear Aspirant,

    Friendship is very important part of life & no one can survive without the accompany of others,but you should not have parasite in nature.Develop your independency to survive with the minimum help of others.It is very difficult to be together ever with any friend/colleague.As it is time of communication,you can have your interaction with your good friend even if he stays away from you.

    However it does not mean to be alone in life.If your friend is not happy in the present employment,you should not force him to be here.If he can get better employment,let him get & do it & you should encourage him in this regard.

    You should only say him to continue this job,till he gets better job.Also you should say him that there will be some problem every where.Of course the nature of the problem may be different.We should not leave the job due to problem,but we should see what is right & what is wrong.We should struggle for truth.This way he may realize you as a good friend.

    Hope he may realize & understand you.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: In what way I can persuade my colleague to not leave the company?

    Hi, It is good that you are thoughtful about your friend but dear, please do not forget that your friend is an independent and mature individual and he has the rights to take up decisions about his life. Also, it's good that you enjoy his company but please come out of this state of dependency, rather let him decide and move on in life. But yes, if you see some good opportunities for him in the firm where you guys are currently working, then you can try convincing him to continue being associated with the same firm, if not, then please do not make his life more difficult by putting any unnecessary pressure on him. Thanks.

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    Re: In what way I can persuade my colleague to not leave the company?

    hello friend,
    As you said you both are good friends as you were from same college. So i think this reason of friendship would be enough to persuade him.
    Tell him about the problems he would face by joining some other organization. As in that organization also there would be some policies and Boss is always a Boss and he tries to dominate on his employees. And more over in that organization perhaps there would be no friend of him which could console him and help him in his work. Atleast from the starting 6 months he has to struggle all alone without a trust worthy friend. After 6-7 months also there would be no guarantee that their he gets some trust worthy friends.
    Working environment may also differ and may lead to poor performance.

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