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    What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    I am working in a software company. I want my boss to give me a transfer as I donít think there are much growth opportunities in this area. So I want to get a transfer to Delhi. But my parents are not supporting my decision as they donít me to leave them and live alone. How to make them realise the importance of this?

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    hi friend
    friend you should tell your parents about whole suitation and what are the benefits of tranfer to your carrer . you should tell them that after sometime , you also take them along with you , this will gave them a relef . friend , you should also tell this thing to your relatives , so that they will help you in convincing your parents .
    after all parents always want to see there childern happy and after complete satisfaction , they will surely allow you
    ALL THE BEST

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    Hello Friend,

    Well, if there is no scopre for frowth in your place then it is much better to shift your base to Delhi. Many people like your are working in different cities such as Delihi, Bangalore, Mumbai, Chennai etc. A software company is a place for professionals and there is no room for sily sentiment. I think your parents are afraid of your departure. After you there will be none to look after them. These days old people need somebody to take care of them. You have to sort this issue first and then you can handle your transfer to Delhi. As a only child it is your sacred duty to look after your parents. You can do that a little bit of multi-tasking will help you overcome the situation.

    Bye,

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    The decision you have taken is good for your future,but you have to think about your parents also,parents always think of our safety and health.so they will refuse us to go to long distance.As you have mentioned you don't have good job opportunities you have to take a transfer.if you have settled with good job in Delhi then you have to take your parents to the Delhi.so,that they can stay with you.They can see your safety and health.
    all the best
    thank you

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    dear friend
    friend parents love there children and at this age they want there children to be with them. as they feel bad when they are alone . friend you should talk to your parents about the benefits of transfer to Delhi. and there is many growth opportunities in Delhi. friend you should assure your parents that you would take them along with you as soon , you got a accommodation .
    this will show your love , care and responsibility towards your parents.
    also take help of your relatives to convince them.
    ''after all parents only happy when there children's are happy''
    ALL THE BEST

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    hello friend
    let me tell you that parents are never think wrong for you and they don't want that their children are not with them so that why they think that it is good for you that you are working in the delhi but what you have to do is that talk to your father and mother that after all it is the matter of my career so that why i will chose to work in the different area because the growth rate is very good as compare to the current area and they will give me promotion in very short time so that's the only way for which i have to work different place.
    thanking you hopes you will like my suggestion.

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?


    • If you don't find any kind of growth opportunity in your present area, then it always good to take the transfer.
    • Parents generally have their objective as think about their child's health.
    • Convincing your parents is utmost important here.
    • For that, you can tell your parents about your friends who has taken the transfer and experienced the growth.
    • You must also tell them it is very necessary for your carrier to get a transfer.
    • Initially they may object and as the time passes they will support you.

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    Re: What should be done when my parents are not supporting my decision of getting a transfer?

    Well, in case there isn't a scope intended for growth in your place it's superior in order to switch your foundation in order to Delhi. Some people as if your are operating in various locations just like Delhi, Bangalore, Mumbai, Chennai etc. An application company is is the space pros and there is no area intended for silly sentiment. There's no doubt that your parents that terrifies them your departure. When you it will have nothing to tend to them. Today previous individuals need somebody to deal with them. You need to organize this problem initial and you can handle your shift in order to Delhi. To be a simply kid it is your holy accountability to tend to your parents. You can do that a little bit of multi-tasking just might help you overcome this situation.

    Your decision you took is useful for your potential,but it's important to take into consideration your parents also,mothers and fathers often consider your protection in addition to health.so they are going to not allow people to visit to lengthy distance.As you might have pointed out you don't have beneficial job opportunities it's important to go on a transfer.if you might have paid out using beneficial work within Delhi then you have to look at your parents to the Delhi.so,that they can keep with you.They may visit your protection in addition to health.

    let me tell you this mothers and fathers aren't consider wrong intended for you together with they just don't wish that their youngsters are steer clear all of them so that the reason many people imagine that it is great for yourself you're performing inside delhi but just what exactly you want to do is the fact speak to your father and mother that after all it does not take question of our job so that the reason i'm going to decided to operate within the several place as the rate of growth is superb because assess to the present place and they're going to produce advertising and marketing within quite shorter time hence that is the only way that i need to work unique place.

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