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    What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    I am into sales department and my seniors usually visit my place to check whether everything is fine or not. They ask me to arrange some outing and liquor at their every visit. I have to bear all the expenses as the company doesnít reimburse this amount. What should I do when I cannot say no to them.

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    Cool Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hi ,

    Arranging for a week end party is common in all work places . But the expenses incurred can be shared by everyone .

    I suggest you to drop a mail or tell them about the expenses involved in arranging this and place it as a request and collect the needed amount as Party Fund for those expenses .

    Drop a mail in the Following Format :

    Hurrah !! It's Time for relax . So Let's enjoy the Fun through outing and Parties

    <<<<< Add some Points >>>>>

    Party Fund Collection :

    Juniors - Rs . XXX
    Seniors - Rs . YYY

    Because this is the way followed majorly in IT sectors . Money is collected from all team members in the name of Project Fund and spent for the parties , outing.


    Note : If this doesn't work out, place this as a request to Higher Management Level to help you on this issue.

    Thanks !!!!!!!!!! :-)

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Escape by telling with patience that you are having some financial problems and you are the only person who should take care of your family and it's becoming difficult for you to bear the expenses.Many of the families which look good rich outside also have many financial problems.If they behave rudely even after this complain to your superiors about their behaviour.

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    You need to be close with your seniors . You need to make them friends . Don't worry at the starting this is common in any company.

    Take them out and spend some amount of money and at the same time ask them for few amount . If you have money problems then explain to them .

    Because the senior are the most important for you because you are new to that company if you get any problem definitely you need to ask your seniors so try to make them friends.

    Thank you

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    HI,

    Well its pretty common at the workplace

    There are some or the other party organised

    There are various contributions made

    If this is the thing with you you need to tell them that you dont have money and all

    if still it doesnt work for you , you still need to report to higher level

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    this is obviously not professional serving there personal requests. If its for once a time then its fine, but if its a habit, you should definitely do something. Well the best way is to make rule of having team outing every month or every week and ask everyone in you team to participate. For this you can collect equal funds from everyone evry month and give a schedule of activities planned for the team for the month. IN this way you seniors will definitely will pay for their share.

    In case they abruptly come to your home in a small group and demand any organsiation, no worries even then , do everything they want, next day drop a mail to all of them telling them their share of amount to be paid to you. Dont be shy. Its not a small thing, u need to stop it at the very initial stage before it hits you hard.

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    Smile Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    >Hi<



    _Please Try Out The Following_



    _You Can't Avoid Week End Parties But Manage The Expenses By Following Ways_




    • Text a Group Mail To Your Team about Week End Party with Expense Details,
    • Just Include that We Do Share Our Expenses for the Entire Enjoyment,
    • Don't Place a Command Mail,
    • Your Mail Should be like a Request Model,
    • If the Seniors won't agree Just Get Rid From The Party By Stating any Reason of your In-Convenience,
    • If they Troubles You a Lot Just Take Up This Issue To Your Higher Official.




    :-) Thanks (-:


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    Unhappy Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    ## HI ##



    # Drag out the tips below #



    #_# Nowadays the weekend party hits in most of the organizations and you can't avoid it too since you are an junior #_##_# Just make a plan with your junior and senior colleagues and have a equal sharing of money #_##_# You can also make this conversation in your company site chat so that you can bring all you need #_##_# Being a employee,you need to feel relaxed,so go for the party and feel it so that you will be free from tension had in past 5 days #_##_# But it not must that the juniors should spend money than seniors #_##_# If you are not interested then you can go away from the party too #_##_# If the problem arises then you can go for the senior official to solve it #_#




    ## Thank you ##

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    It has become very common in companies to arrange a party on weekend in order to celebrate.It's totally unfair that you are only the one who have to bear all expenses of party everytime.You must speak to your senior officials about this matter. If you can't able to tell them directly who may send it through mail about your money problem and tell them to contribute equally in parties by everyone. They will surely listen to you. Even after requesting they are not contributing, you must talk to higher authorities of the company in this regard. Thanx

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    when seniorsask for liquor and outing during official tour at any place,,you cannot say no for that. The only think you can do is you can make a humble request about the expenses of the outdoor party. And you can collect money for that party in the name of party expense from the head of the office.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hi,

    when you are in a party,these things generally happens.
    In the initial days , you should bear the expenses.
    Well the best way is to make rule of having team outing every month or every week and ask everyone in you team to participate.
    If you do like this you would be able to get the amount.
    If you have money problems then explain to them .
    I think you should send a mail and ask to pay the amonts required to pay.


    Good Luck!!!!

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Dear Friend,

    Your seniors visit your working place regularly in order to check your records.

    They asked to arrange parties.

    Because you have been arranging it regularly without involving them financially,they ask you to do so. Now if you are not able to manage it ,send them a mail stating to arrange week end parties and its expected cost to be shared by all members. You should show that it is common enjoyment parties. If you get positive response,you proceed further otherwise you be away. You should be perfect in your work otherwise they will start giving you troubles.


    # thanks #

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    The Following Ways_


    Text a Group Mail To Your Team about Week End Party with Expense Details,
    Just Include that We Do Share Our Expenses for the Entire Enjoyment,
    Don't Place a Command Mail,
    Your Mail Should be like a Request Model,
    If the Seniors won't agree Just Get Rid From The Party By Stating any Reason of your In-Convenience,

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Dear friend,
    It is often possible to arrange a party on weekends but it is quite not fair that you have bear all the expenses of the party each time. I will suggest you to share this to your most seniors because if you will manage all this again and again will raise financial problem before you. Said all of your seniors to contribute the money, if they don't then give them the answer sorry then I am unable to arrange the party. Discuss the issue with your seniors otherwise you will be engaged in to a problem some day. Also share the problem with your guardians because they will resolve the matter very best.

    Thanks.

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    Escape to have patience they are having some financial problems as all have these problems which are common mans and you're the only person who should take care of his family and it is increasingly difficult for you to take expenses.Many of families who are rich beyond good also have many financial problems. If you behave rudely, even after this complaint to his superiors of Behavior. You need to be close to their elders. You need to be friends. Do not worry about the implementation that is common in any business.
    Them out and spend a certain amount of money and also wonder how much the few. If you have money problems then explain them.
    Due to high are most important to you because you are new to this company if you have any problems certainly need to ask the elderly to try to make them friendsthis obviously not professional, serving there personal requests. If for once his turn, then fine, but if it's a habit he ought to do something. Well, the best way is to make the rule take out equipment every month or every week and ask everyone to participate in the team. For it can raise funds from the month of equality for all and evry give a calendar of activities planned for the team for the month. Thus, the elderly will undoubtedly pay for their participation.
    If suddenly at home in a small group and demand of any organsiation, do not worry, however, do everything you want, drop an email the next day all of them telling them that their participation in the amount to be paid to you. Do not be shy. It is not something small, or need to stop at a very early stage, before it hits you hard .. It has become very common for companies to organize a party this weekend to celebrate.It's totally unfair that you only have to bear all those costs everytime.You party should talk with their senior officials on this matter. If you can not tell them directly that you can mail about your problem and tell them to contribute money equal to at parties around the world. Probably hear you. Even after applying that are not contributing, you should speak with the authorities over the company in this respect.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    HELLO SIR....

    common in companies to arrange a party on weekend in order to celebrate.It's totally unfair that you are only the one who have to bear all expenses of party everytime.You must speak to your senior officials about this matter. If you can't able to tell them directly who may send it through mail about your money problem and tell them to contribute equally in parties by everyone.If its for once a time then its fine, but if its a habit, you should definitely do something. Well the best way is to make rule of having team outing every month or every week and ask everyone in you team to participate. For this you can collect equal funds from everyone evry month and give a schedule of activities planned for the team for the month. IN this way you seniors will definitely will pay for their share.

    ALL THE BEST.......

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    HELLO SIR......

    You need to make them friends . Don't worry at the starting this is common in any company.

    Take them out and spend some amount of money and at the same time ask them for few amount . If you have money problems then explain to them .

    Because the senior are the most important for you because you are new to that company if you get any problem definitely you need to ask your seniors so try to make them friends.


    ALL THE BEST......

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    this is obviously not professional serving there personal requests. If its for once a time then its fine, but if its a habit, you should definitely do something. Well the best way is to make rule of having team outing every month or every week and ask everyone in you team to participate. For this you can collect equal funds from everyone evry month and give a schedule of activities planned for the team for the month. IN this way you seniors will definitely will pay for their share.

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    HELLO SIR ....................

    If its for once a time then its fine, but if its a habit, you should definitely do something. Well the best way is to make rule of having team outing every month or every week and ask everyone in you team to participate. For this you can collect equal funds from everyone evry month and give a schedule of activities planned for the team for the month.I will suggest you to share this to your most seniors because if you will manage all this again and again will raise financial problem before you. Said all of your seniors to contribute the money, if they don't then give them the answer sorry then I am unable to arrange the party. Discuss the issue with your seniors otherwise you will be engaged in to a problem some day. Also share the problem with your guardians because they will resolve the matter very best.



    ALL THE BEST ........................

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    The seniors ask for liquor and outing during official Escape to have patience they are having some financial problems which are common mans and you're the only person his family and increasingly difficult, financial problems .Many of families who are rich beyond good also have many financial problems are most important to you because you are new to this company if you have any problems certainly need to ask the elderly ..
    the best way is to make the rule take out equipment every month or every week and ask everyone to participate in the team. For it can raise funds from the month of equality for all and companies to organize a party this weekend to celebrate,,It's totally unfair that you only have to bear all those costs everytime. party should talk with their senior officials on this applying that are not contributing,you should speak with the authorities over the company in this respect,,,,,,

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    It has become very common in companies to arrange a party on weekend in order to celebrate.It's totally unfair that you are only the one who have to bear all expenses of party everytime.You must speak to your senior officials about this matter.you have been arranging it regularly without involving them financially,they ask you to do so. Now if you are not able to manage it ,send them a mail stating to arrange week end parties and its expected cost to be shared by all members. You should show that it is common enjoyment parties. If you get positive response,you proceed further otherwise you be away. You should be perfect in your work otherwise they will start giving you troubles.

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    It is the common feature of companies to celebrate party at the week end.And here as per statement you are trying to convince us it is implicit injustice as I am a junior member income is not high that I can bear the party related cost alone gladly.In this respect you must be frank and discuss the matter with the all staff and resolve to share the cost equelly."unity is strength"

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    HI FRIEND...

    Many of families who are rich beyond good also have many financial problems. If you behave rudely, even after this complaint to his superiors of Behavior. You need to be close to their elders. You need to be friends. Do not worry about the implementation that is common in any business. Them out and spend a certain amount of money and also wonder how much the few. If you have money problems then explain them.The only think you can do is you can make a humble request about the expenses of the outdoor party. And you can collect money for that party in the name of party expense from the head of the office.

    GOOD LUCK....

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    This is the common issue whiich can only be solved by understanding each other. You can tell your seniors that you have some financial problem and you are desperately in need of money, you are trying to save money and cannot bear the expenses any further, be clear about your concern to them. If they have understanding power, then they will surely try to understand your problem and help you or contribute in party expenses. But if they did'nt understand you and try to put pressure on you then I suggest you to please forward this complain(with proof if possible) to your superviso rand if he also doesn't listen you then you can reach the higher authority in the company and demand for your rights.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Parties are the most common thing now a days but this is not rite to pay some else forvother one parties. so next time wen they asking for a party change the topic or try to avoide or give some excuses. but it still not working then directly asking them for a contribution if they say no then u can say no to them. or talk to ur manegers.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    HI,

    Make funds from junior side.

    Collect the funds and say that this is what we juniors have collected from our side.

    Make the full estimation and show the list to seniors and ask them to pay the rest.

    Surely they will agree and definitely pay the rest amount.

    Make smart moves and keep good relation with seniors.


    HOPE THIS IS HELPFUL!!!!!
    GOOD LUCK!!

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    need to be close with your seniors . You need to make them friends . Don't worry at the starting this is common in any company.

    Take them out and spend some amount of money and at the same time ask them for few amount . If you have money problems then explain to them .

    Because the senior are the most important for you because you are new to that company if you get any problem definitely you need to ask your seniors so try to make them friends.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hi. Ya i can surely understand your problem. This happens almost everywhere that seniors take undue advantage of their junior staff.

    I think you should not give in to their whims and fancies and take a firm stand against them. If they call you and come then you can make an excuse that you are outside and will not be able to entertain then at that time.

    If they come to your house without you knowing then you can make an excuse that the shop is closed or that you dont have enough money. Or you can say that you are not feeling well and want some rest.

    So you have to be clever and wise to avoid such situations. Best of luck. Thanks

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    hello dear.... just chill out .... parties , outing will always take place in IT companys you can't stop.... if your seniors ask you to arrange go over it... and if they ask about the liquor and all... just say ok and talk them about the money.... and say that you dont have the money give some reason .... just don't scare while talking them about money .... tell them the truth.... if they do anything or harm you than you will take a legal action and make an issue in front of manager.... don't worry... do well take care

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hello,

    It is very important to have a good bonding with your seniors.
    But you cant bear all the expenses every time just to please them.
    You should not do this first.
    So you have to mention them about the expenses and you can also provide the bills giving all the details of the expenses.

    Thank you

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    hey

    This is seriously a issue. May be the seniors are just using you.

    Anyways you should say no directly to your seniors . A one time party is fine you cant do it always.

    Just talk with them frankly about this and if they are really good they would understand else just report your company about this.

    Next time either ask them politely to pay individually else no party. You are a employee as they are ans to serve you and your company not them.

    Thank you

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    Dear Friend

    Enjoyment is very necessary in the official tour or this may be very boring without this..

    But there should be an equality in term of money in the parties..

    You can decide the budget before the party with your seniors and also the share they have too pay in the party..

    So just make it clear to them that they are Seniors so they are like their elder brother and they should not be dependent on them for money..

    SO they should teach good things to them..

    So politely request them to do so..

    After you all earn with your hard work..

    ALL THE BEST

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Dear, asker it is an important point which have to be put forward when all the expenses of a meeting is put on the single person. Dear you can write a letter or send a mail to the senoir about the cost of arranging the meeting pls don't feel shy if you really aware of your expense. I hope you get a reply soon. Even if they are not ready with this you can tell them that all the employees will made contribution toward the expenses.

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hi..You certainly cant say no to your seniors in any field as they are of a lot of help to you whenever you require it plus one cannot blatantly refuse them as you have to work in the same workplace for so many years and you cant certainly afford to be on their wrong side..But on the other hand you certainly should not let them take undue advantage of you and your junior position..

    Once in a while its certainly ok to fulfill the whims and fancies of your seniors but they should also be a little responsible and not get too far away with it..So its better you wait for sometime and maybe they will mend their ways but if they continue to take advantage of you then you go and speak politely to them regarding this matter that you dont have enough money as you are financially not well off ..Use diplomacy in your talk and persuade them so that they dont repeat such things in future..Or tel them your parents dont approve of such things and so you always get reprimande by them when you do such things..

    I hope you convince them in one way or other..Good luck

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    Re: What to do when seniors ask for liquor and outing during official tour at my place and donít pay for it?

    Hello friend,

    First of all know this thing in corporate life there is no concept of senior and junior so you are free to put your opinion and disagree to do any thing you dont want to do.second thing if you dont want to make a negative relationship then mix with them and then deniey to pay in a friendly manner such that they wont mind but if it does not work then put this issue with higher authority they will take action against them.
    company have many policies like WHISTLE BLOWING police so you can raise these issue such that they will take strong action but do it only if you think the issue very unbearable.

    Thank You.

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