I am working in a government organisation. One of my colleagues always keeps on cribbing that he never gets a promotion or an increment. On the other hand he never gives importance to his work. Till now I haven’t been able to understand his psyche. How to make him realise his mistake?
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Hello Friend,
You are not his gurdian angel so it is better for you to concentrate on your own work. There are many like him who tend to give less importance to their work and in the end get get nothing in return. Promotion is given to those who work hard and maintain a professional approach in their work. Until and unless that colleague of yours realizes his mistake no one is going to tell him what to do in a situation like this. But still if you get the opportunity to talk to him you should try to point out his mistakes so that he can rectify them in qucik time. Human psychology is very difficult to understand so you better not indulge in them as a amature.
Bye,
Dear Aspirant,Originally Posted by Unregistered
You can make him understand his fault by discussing the matter with him.You can say him that promotion is given to those employees who is taking very much pain for the works.Now you are getting the salary for which you are posted,You will higher salary for the post which you will get after promotion.When you are not working for the present post,you may be demoted instead of getting promotion.
Promotion is given on the basis of seniority,efficiency & character.It will be given to you automatically when you come in your position comes up in seniority.So it is not wise not to work for want of promotion.
So be on working well.Though the govt.has made provision of ACP i.e increase in pay after 10,20 & 30 years of service provided your character & efficiency is maintained in your service.So nothing to worry & work well & be happy.
Thanks & good luck.
Hello.....,
You should tell your colleague that hard work is the key to success. One should not depend on luck for everything. Its only your own hardship that pays you for your success. No body can abide by the fact that if one has to reach a certain height , one should lay himself down on the path of struggle .But one should never hesitate or feel fallen of. When you put efforts it is found to be tiresome but when you get the fruitful results , it gives you immense pleasure.
Tell him to keep doing the work in a proper way within time limit.
Give examples of those who have reached a height just due to their hard work.
"Give your best and give the rest to god" , should be made very clear to him.
Thank You.
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