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    Unable to solve some personal problem of one of my colleagues who is relying on me for the same

    I am working in a software company. Recently one of my colleagues wanted me to help him in one of his personal matters. I promised him that I will surely help him out but now after trying my best, I havenít been able to find a solution for the same. He is relying on me for the same and I am very sad now. What can I do to make everything right?

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    Ritz Array
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    Re: Unable to solve some personal problem of one of my colleagues who is relying on me for the same

    Hi Dear,

    It's good that you tried your best to help your friend in his personal problem but as we are not gifted with the powers of the Almighty, we cannot guarantee of providing solutions to all problems. Now, I would suggest you to talk to your friend and explain him that you are always with him and as it's his life, he needs to decide on his personal matters and take more charge of his life.

    Tell him that at times, we do lack the strength to face and resolve our problems but whether or not our problems are our fault, solving them is entirely our responsibility.

    You just need to assure him that you are standing by his side in his rough phase of life and will provide all sorts of required help.

    Thanks.

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    manojbadoniya Array
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    Re: Unable to solve some personal problem of one of my colleagues who is relying on me for the same

    Dear if you have promised him to help in problem then you should meet your friend and know the status that either you are eligible for helping him or not and if you find yourself ineligible to solve his problem and help him out then also you should try your best again and again because if you will try and work more to get proper solution then your friend will see you that you are doing your best to take him out of this problem even after you are not able to solve that problem then you will get your favor by your friend because if you will try to solve his problem then he should see you that you are too good at your promise and finally if he and you could not find any solution then your friend would say to you that you have done too much for him but could not get the success then he will say that you should stop it and just care for your work and that would be the plus point for you

    If he does not say then you should say to him that dear listen to me and I am really sorry to say that I am unable to help you now because I have tried all my reach despite I could not find a proper solution that is why I am sorry that I can not help you further so he will understand your situation that you also have so many work in life and if you will get involve in the personal issues of others then what about your personal life that is why surely he will allow you to go but if you have something that could really help him then you should share without any hesitation and help him at every single stage

    All the best

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