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    Unable to digest my bossís remarks on me

    I am working in a private firm. Just few days back my boss called me to his office for some work. But when I went there, I found that he has called me to discuss regarding my personality and behaviour. He made some nasty remarks about my personality which I found hard to digest. How to clear my position in front of my boss?

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    john215 Array
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    Re: Unable to digest my bossís remarks on me

    Re: Unable to digest my boss's remarks on me

    Hi friends,

    I think you can check your personality and behavior.
    Any thing wrong and you can correct the mistakes.
    You can ask the your remarks whats the problem you can resolved them.
    You can rectifies this things.
    You should improve your attitude.
    Next time zero remarks to you and find out the zero remakes your boss.

    So be careful your behavior.

    Thanks!!!

    ALL THE BEST............

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    srinivasa Array
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    Re: Unable to digest my bossís remarks on me

    hii friend take it as a challenge rather being feeling bad and depressed its very sad that your boss made nasty remarks on you.. you should learn to give it take with your performance take an promise with your self that boss should appreciate you and your attitude,behavior.. i think its the time to correct your self i cannot say your boss is wrong take it in positive way he has observed some negative point of your that you need to correct..

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    Re: Unable to digest my bossís remarks on me

    It is quite a weird situation that you had to face.It had been really difficult situation for you to handle the remarks of your boss.However you should definitely get over it and work hard so that no such remarks are made to you in the future.

    There is nothing to get depressed by the remarks of your boss.This is because it can hamper your work.It can bring drastic change in your work which in turn can be reflected in your performance level.And if this sort of situation occurs,it will be more problematic for you.This is because it will not only lead to your criticism but also you will get more negative remarks from your boss.This can hamper your professional career to a great extent.

    Hence,depression should be avoided in this sort of cases.You should first analyze what could be the reasons which might have compelled your boss to behave in such a way.Try to eradicate those reasons.Thus you have to work upon your weaknesses and should modify yourself in such a way so that you do not receive such type of comments in future.

    Try to be focused towards your job.Work on your personality and try to improve the points highlighted by your boss.This will help you to handle such situation in future.If the same situation occurs again and you are right in your position,you can openly directly tell your boss about your stand and the mistake that he is committing.This will give him a self realization and hence he can improve.

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    Srishti Array
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    Re: Unable to digest my bossís remarks on me

    Hiii, well you should not judge him so quickly. Keep yourself calm. You can go through the points once again he has mentioned .. You should grab all those points you need to improve and you should leave rest of them. Try to avoid other points. Just be calm and focused for your work.Thanks

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