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    Unable to deal with the fickle-mindedness of my boss

    I am working in a software company. Our boss is a very kind hearted person but he has a very bad habit that he is fickle minded.He does not stick to one thing and thus keeps on changing his view about everything. This causes a lot of trouble to the employees. How to deal with such fickle-mindedness of the boss?

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    Madhu M Array
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    Re: Unable to deal with the fickle-mindedness of my boss

    Hi friend

    I can definitely understand your trouble but the thing is that you cannot change someone's habits so fast. And some habits don't fade at all as they are a part of a person's personality and thus are almost impossible to take away from him. I think the same is the case with your boss. So you should learn to deal with his habits as he is your boss and thus you can't do anything about it. I hope you understand my point.

    The second thing that you can do is to show some guts and tell your boss about this habit his. Then maybe he will realise that what he is doing is wrong and maybe try to improve his habit. sometimes it happens that we do somethings subconsciously without knowing that we are actually doing those things. These become our habits. Maybe this is the case with your boss and that he does not realise that this fickle mindedness is not good for his personality.

    So you should go to your boss and speak to him personally. Tell him that you have noticed from the past few years that he is a very kind hearted person but he has some very bad habit which according to you is not good for his future. You are telling him this as a well wisher and have no malice or harm in this. You hope that he will understand you. The bad habit is that he is very fickle minded and does not stick to one thing and thus keeps on changing his views about everything. You hope that he will look into this and thus try to get rid of this habit to become an improved person. you really wish him the best for his life.

    I am sure that your boss will definitely listen to you and hopefully will take this in a positive manner. If he is able to get rid of this mistake, then I am sure he will be always be greatful to you for daring to give you this advice and thus will always be loyal to you. Then your problem will also be solved and your image will further enhance in his eyes.

    Good luck friend

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    Re: Unable to deal with the fickle-mindedness of my boss

    I will positively perceive your bother however the issue is that you just cannot modification the reformer one's habits so quick. and a few habits do not fade in the least as are personality and so are nearly not possible to require removed from him.I believe a similar is that the case along with your boss.

    So you must learn to upset his habits as he's your boss and so you cannot do something regarding it. I hope you perceive my purpose.

    The second issue that you just will do is to indicate some guts and tell your boss regarding this habit his.

    Then perhaps he can realize that what he's doing is wrong and perhaps attempt to improve his habit.

    Typically it happens that we tend to do somethings subconsciously while not knowing that we tend to are literally doing those things.

    These become our habits. perhaps this is often the case along with your boss which he doesn't realise that this fickle mindedness isn't smart for his temperament.

    Therefore you must move to your boss and speak to him in person. Tell him that you just have detected from the past few years that he's kind hearted person however he has some very unhealthy habit that in line with you isn't smart for his future. you're telling him this as a well wisher and haven't any malice or hurt during this.

    You hope that he can perceive you. The unhealthy habit is that he's terribly fickle minded and doesn't follow one issue and so keeps on ever-changing his views regarding everything. You hope that he can consider this ANd so attempt to get obviate this habit to become an improved person. you actually would like him the most effective for his life.

    I'm positive that your boss will certainly hear you and hopefully can take this during a positive manner. If he's able to get obviate this error, then i'm positive he are invariably be greatful to you for daring to grant you this recommendation and so can invariably be loyal to you.

    Then your drawback be resolved and your image will any enhance in his eyes.

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