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    Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    I am working in a private firm. From the past few days one of my colleagues had been behaving badly with me passing rude remarks whenever we met. So as a result i went to my boss to complain against him. But i could not convince my boss about his bad behaviour. He is one of boss’s favourite and thus my boss is not listening to me. How to deal with such unfairness?

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    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    Adjustment is a key factor in a professional world.If a person cannot adjust in a professional world and handle various tensions,pressure and work load,he is sure to face problem to sustain in this professional world.The problem depicted by you is similar and you need to adjust and not get affected with these kind of problems.

    These kind of problems are common in the professional sector and one needs to adjust with these.Otherwise these can have a great impact on your work.If given preference to these kind of problems,it can not only create great disturbance in your work,performance and professional life but also can affect your personal life as well.Hence,you need to deal this kind of problems in a professional manner.

    Your boss might have not been convinced by your complaint because of many reasons.Your boss is correct in his position.He cannot take a step against a complaint of an employee about another one unless there is genuine evidence against him.Since you did not provide any proof,so it is natural that he will not look into the matter seriously.
    So you should aim at gathering evidence to this cause of yours against the concerned employee.

    It will be better for you if you try to solve your problem at your personal level.Have a take with the concerned colleague.Ask him the reasons of such kind of acts by him and what kind of problem he is having with you.Try to solve all kinds of problems and misunderstandings and come to a mutual understanding.Request him to stop these kind of acts highlighting the negative aspects of it.

    If he still continues,then ignore him and his acts.You should behave in such a way that you are not affected by his comments.You should focus at your work and uplifting your performance level.Try to gather some genuine evidences against him and then approach your boss.Then your boss will surely look into the matter.

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    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    Hi aspirant

    Your boss should definitely not indulge in such bias and should try to see the faults of his favourite employees also and punish them for that. He is doing the wrong thing by hiding their faults as this is not good for their future as well as their progress. You should not withstand such injustice and should try to again to talk to your boss reagrding this. Keep on trying until he is ready to listen to you.

    Tell him that one of your colleague has been very badly with you from the past few days passing rude remarks. You have told him previously too but he hasn't done anything in this regard. You understand that he is one of his favourite employees but he should try to make him realise his mistakes and not hide his faults in such a way. You hope that he will not spoil his future by not showing him his drawbacks and telling him to improve them. You hope that justice will be done in your case.

    I hope that justice will be done in your case. Good luck friend

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    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague's bad behavior with me

    Hi friends,

    I think this is the bad thing because you are friend with your colleague.
    These kind of problems are common in the professional sector and one needs to adjust with these.
    Otherwise these can have a great impact on your work.
    If given preference to these kind of problems,it can not only create great disturbance in your work,performance and professional life but also can affect your personal life as well.
    Hence,you need to deal this kind of problems in a professional manner.

    So you can suggest your opinions and you can not take seriously.

    Thanks!!!

    ALL THE BEST..........

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    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    Adjustment may be a key think about knowledgeable world.If someone cannot modify during a skilled world and handle varied tensions,pressure and work load,he is guaranteed to face drawback to sustain during this skilled world.The problem delineated by you is comparable and you would like to regulate and not get affected with these reasonably issues.

    These reasonably issues ar common within the skilled sector and one must modify with these.Otherwise these will have an excellent impact on your work.If given preference to those reasonably issues,it cannot solely produce nice disturbance in your work,performance and vocation however can also have an effect on your personal life still.Hence,you need to deal this type of issues during a skilled manner.

    Your boss might need not been convinced by your grievance owing to several reasons.Your boss is correct in his position.He cannot take a step against a grievance of AN worker regarding another one unless there's real proof against him.Since you probably did not give any proof,so it's natural that he won't explore the matter seriously.
    therefore you ought to aim at gathering proof to the present explanation for yours against the involved worker.

    It'll be higher for you if you are attempting to unravel your drawback at your personal level.Have a take with the involved colleague.Ask him the explanations of such reasonably acts by him and what reasonably drawback he's having with you.Try to solve all types of issues and misunderstandings and are available to a mutual affection.Request him to prevent these reasonably acts highlight the negative aspects of it.

    If he still continues,then ignore him and his acts.You should behave in such the simplest way that you simply aren't stricken by his comments.You should focus at your work and rising your performance level.Try to gather some real evidences against him and so approach your boss.Then your boss can sure as shooting explore the matter.

    Your boss ought to positively not take pleasure in such bias and will attempt to see the faults of his favorite staff additionally and penalize them for that. he's doing the incorrect factor by concealment their faults as this is often not smart for his or her future still as their progress. you ought to not stand up to such injustice and will attempt to once more to speak to your boss reagrding this. carry on attempting till he's able to hear you.

    Tell him that one in all your colleague has been terribly badly with you from the past few days passing rude remarks. you've got told him antecedently too however he hasn't done something during this regard. You perceive that he's one in all his favorite staff however he ought to attempt to create him realise his mistakes and not hide his faults in such the simplest way. You hope that he won't spoil his future by not showing him his drawbacks and telling him to enhance them. You hope that justice are drained your case.

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    Re: Unable to convince my boss about my colleague’s bad behaviour with me

    Hi,This happens when some employees are favorites of the boss.But you should take evidence or some one with you to complain to boss.Tell him that why will you complain falsely about that colleague.He should tell him atleast once that his attitude towards you is wrong.He should behave properly with you.It is ok if he does not talk with you but should not give remarks while on the way.You yourself should avoid talking to him.Start ignoring him do not even look at him.Once you start ignoring him then he will after some days forget giving remarks.Just enjoy your life and ignore such unnecessary weird people.Do not notice them or give them indication that you know they are their.Just act as if they do not exist.Every thing then will seem perfect.All the best

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