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    Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    I am working in a government organisation. One of our official parties is coming up tomorrow. I have always been advised to attend all the official parties to create good impression on my boss. But I wonít be able to attend this as my daughter is not well and I want to be by her side in such a time. What to do in such a situation?

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    aman Array
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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    As you want to be with your daughter at this time is a good decision on your part, it is obvious and genuine reason that you don't want to attend the

    party because your daughter is not well. Till now as per the advice you were attending those parties regularly. You can inform your boss that due to

    the reason which you mentioned you are not able to attend the party.

    IF you are thinking that it is necessary to attend the same and your daughter is has somewhat recovered and feeling better than before than you

    can go for short time like for an hour and mark your attendance over there. You can leave the party early by saying that your daughter is not well so

    you won't be able to continue the party.

    So don't get confused and according to the situation and your comfort you can take the decision, as your daughter must be your priority in any

    such situation. Depending on her state you should take the decision.

    But most importantly if you have to be there if your boss has said it than you must communicate with him and tell him your inability to attend the

    party due to the illness of your daughter.

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    Hello Sir,

    I can understand its a very critical situation to make a decision...

    One thing is most important Sir...There can be several official parties further, but the time you need to spend with your daughter cannot be back...!!

    Spending time is different from the time you spend when she is ill..!!

    But another suggestion is, if you think the party is much important then let your daughter know about the situation you are in..And see to it that you don't leave her alone...

    ThanQ...

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    Hello,

    Whether you should go to attend tomorrow's party will depend completely on your daughter's health condition.If her health condition doesnot remain stable then there is no question of leaving her and attending the party,as she might be needing your assistance any time.But if you find that she stays better than before,then you can think of attending the party.In case you fail to attend the party,dont worry about what your boss will think about you,as your daughter's health is more important than your boss's party! In that case,tell him the truth and he will definitely understand the situation.

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    hello,
    as a parent you should be on your daughter side as she is not well.you are doing this job for your sake of your daughter and your duty is not important than her sickness.call to your boss and say your problem and i assure you that he will understand your problem and he definitely give permission for this.
    every parent is bothered about their child and every should to be cared and loved.

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    If you have everything fine with your company then there is no problem.

    If you have attended arlier parties regularly and have good company with other staff members then you should not attend party till your daughter recover.

    They will never mind for your not attending parties.

    Now the most necessary work for you is to remain with your daughter.

    They also are human beings.

    They understand the situation very well.

    Your daughter is more more important for you rather than parties.

    She need your company now so you have to give her.

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    Re: Unable to attend on official party as my daughter is not well

    Hi friend..............

    I think Whether you should go to attend tomorrow's party will depend completely on your daughter's health condition.
    If her health condition doesn't remain stable then there is no question of leaving her and attending the party,as she might be needing your assistance any time.
    But if you find that she stays better than before,then you can think of attending the party.
    In case you fail to attend the party,don't worry about what your boss will think about you,as your daughter's health is more important than your boss's party!
    In that case,tell him the truth and he will definitely understand the situation.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST...........

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    Hi friend

    You should definitely be by your daughter's side in such a time when she needs your attention and care the most. I am quite sure that your reason for not attending your official party is very genuine and your boss will definitely accept your request if you tell him about your daughter. He too is a father and thus will surely understand you. You should just go and talk to your boss once and I am sure your problem will be solved.

    You should tell him that you really wanted to attend the official party this time but sadly you won't be able to as your daughter is not well and you want to be by her side at this time. You hope that he will understand your condition and your responsibility as a father and thus will excuse you from attending this official party.

    I am sure that your boss will definitely understand your reason and will have no grudge against you in this case. Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: Unable to attend an official party as my daughter is not well

    your daughter is important to after all your earning for the well being of your child and also to make her future bright.. i think your daughter needs you in this situation.. there is no problem in not attending the official party... remember its only party not official meeting, so its better you skip this party.. don't forget to put a message to your boos stating the reasons behind the your absence in the party ...

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