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    Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    I am working in a private firm. Actually I belong to a rich family but whatever I have achieved in my life has been due to my own hard work. My colleagues never see this aspect of me and some of them always feel jealous of me just because I belong to a rich family. I think that this is completely unfair. What should be done in such a situation?

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Hello,

    Let them be jealous about you. There are certain type of people in our society
    who tend to get jealous to other people without any reason. They are not at all
    happy about their situation. You should not listen to then just do your job in the
    work place. The best possible way would be to ignore their opinions. You just
    can't change them or their opinions.

    Bye,

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Dear Friend,

    It is really unfair if your colleagues are jealous of you only because you belong to a rich family. These things should never come in the professional career and should not matter to any of your colleagues.

    All those who are being jealous only because of this are idiots. I think you should not show off that you are rich.

    The best way will be to ignore these people and concentrate on your work. Try to do your work nicely, don't show off things, be punctual, try to speak to everyone in a nice manner and try to maintain healthy relationship with everyone.

    As the time passes, things will get better. So, give it some time without wasting your time thinking about this.

    All the best.
    Thank you.

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    hello,
    1)Identify the situation that's triggering your feelings of jealousy.
    2)Build your self-confidence.
    3)
    Avoid comparing yourself to other people.
    4)Understand the emotion of jealousy.
    5)
    Take a good look at the effect your jealous behavior has on other people.
    thanks..

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. Actually I belong to a rich family but whatever I have achieved in my life has been due to my own hard work. My colleagues never see this aspect of me and some of them always feel jealous of me just because I belong to a rich family. I think that this is completely unfair. What should be done in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is human nature to be jealous after seeing the success in life of others.You should not worry for such thing,because you can not paste the mouth of others.It is not going to affect you in any way.What you should do that you should prove your efficiency in your career.Be perfect in your life & least bother for others statement.

    If you be alright,others can not have much to do with you.They may bocomne your followers.Man has nature to talk about others & find the shortcomings of others .They populaise the short comings of others for themselves.By act of this means,they hide their own short comings.

    So need not worry & be happy.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Hi,

    It is bad that your colleagues do not understand and see your hard work.
    Sometimes, there are also disadvantages of being rich.
    You must face this situation and do not worry about it.
    Just thank god that you belong to a rich family, and richness is also a result of hard work of your family members.
    So do not feel guilty or unfair about the people behave with you.
    And you are also lucky to be rich.

    And just ignore the colleagues who are jealous of you.
    Jealousy is wrong and no one should have against any body.
    They should behave with you in a friendly manner but if they are jealous then stay away from them.
    People who are jealous of you can some times harm you.

    You must stay relaxed and focus on your work also do not think about the unfair behavior.
    You should not mind those peoples word.

    Thankyou

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    You may feel this unfair, but you cannot make these people understand this. Had they being not your colleague, some other set of people would have done the same behaviour. This is human behaviour to crave for more and sulk for not having those desired things. You cannot change their mind set up. Actually, no one is happy with what they have. This creates jealousy within themselves. Jealousy is the result of the crave for more and more. I think ignorance to their words is the only possible solution for them. Be clear to yourself, that your hard work have lead you to success. Other than this, give a damn to what your colleagues say to you.

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    Hi Dear,

    Always remember to keep your professional life away from personal life and never discuss personal issues amongst your colleagues in the professional world. Yet, if your colleagues have already come to know about your family and family wealth, take it easy and be very cool when you feel the negative vibes of your friends or colleagues due to the riches that your family possesses. Do not react to their sarcasm, rather keep your focus on your work.

    Also, I would suggest you to be a bit introspective and ask your self a simple question if you have ever talked about your family riches with your colleagues (may be unintentionally) because of which they might have felt inferior to you, then please check your self while talking to them and never show off your wealth at a professional place and just talk work or get into a general discussion avoiding personal talk.

    Thanks,
    Ritz

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Let them jelous of you what they will get being jelous of you, its their problem they are not rich, its not your mistake that you are born in a rich family and it is also not a crime to be born in a rich family, they should know how your family has earned that amount of money by hard work, if they think like that then they will understand that, you should not worry for the same as they will always be like that as their thinking is very defferent for the rich people they always think that rich people are criminal, and they are not rich so they are worried that what will happen if they get that much of money, they are jealous because your lifestyle is very different and they cant afford that. If they are good people then they will never think like that. Try to concentrate on work because this is the situation that occurs in everybodies life so you better to avoid such things, let them burn from inside someday that will end.

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Dear Friend,

    You are rich that's not your fault its a god gift but to maintain its dignity and status its your duty. So try to mix up with your colleagues as you need to work with him.
    Make a plan for outing with your colleagues. Always do things according to the situation. Don't ever try to take do which you want only. Works as a team mix up with them have and share lunch with them. Invite them to your family occasions.

    Also try to make them understand that you are at this place only because of your own. There is no relation with the family background to your hard work. Slowly slowly they will came to know that you have that talent to take your family to new heights, not your family status lead you to there where you are.

    Be polite and caring with them . Don't ever share your family matters or your matters related to money with them. Don't even show them any kind of attitude or rude behavior. Combining all these you will be able to overcome the problem you are having with your colleagues.

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    Dear friend,

    Thats perfectly fine if they are jealous of you until unless this is not impacting your career. If they play politics and try to create trouble for you then you should be smart enough to handle such situation.

    you cannot force anyone to think your way. you can just keep on working hard and keep their mouths shut. The best way is to give answer from your work not your words..

    Thanks

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. Actually I belong to a rich family but whatever I have achieved in my life has been due to my own hard work. My colleagues never see this aspect of me and some of them always feel jealous of me just because I belong to a rich family. I think that this is completely unfair. What should be done in such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It is the human nature to be jealous,seeing the progress & happiness of others.You should not bother for such things.you should concentrate on your works & try to work honestly,efficiently,promptly.It is in practice to help others to those who are in strong positions by means of wealth,wisdom & force.So it is applicable to you to hear from your colleagues that what ever you are to day due to the influence of your family which may or may not be true.

    Now it is time to you to prove your intelligency & efficiency.Be perfect in your work so that others don't comments upon you.

    Good Luck.

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    when you believe in hard work and dedication towards work then you should be very proud and happy.. never try to prove a point to others that your right at your behavior its important that you always follow righteous path.. so when you know what has bring you to a position right now then keep it to yourself and share your happiness with yourself and fiends who know you better.. people who always believe that you have talent and money has always put in your effort never try to explain your hardwork because they never witnessed your work so they don't know the importance of work.. so don't feel bad for it be yourself always maintain the good work..

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    hello,
    arrange a good party and invite all your colleagues and ask directly what is the problem from him side? ask them is their any problem your side and if so ask them what are they and ask them to give some suggestions regarding it so that you can change according to that.
    secondly attend for every small party if your colleagues invites you and be a member in their activities so that it may decrese the difference.
    help every colleague in every aspect whether it may be financial or other aspect.
    thank you............

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    Re: Some of my colleagues are jealous of me just because I belong to a very rich family

    It really is unfounded if the peers usually are jealous people only since you are part of an excellent family. This stuff shouldn't arrive inside skilled job and should not make any difference so that you can many colleagues.

    Anyone who is currently being jealous only because of this usually are idiots. I'm sure you should not showcase you're rich.

    The easiest way could be to dismiss they while keeping your focus on your own work. Attempt to perform your hard work very well, will not showcase things, possibly be prompt, consider to speak to all people within a nice method and try to retain wholesome marriage by using everyone.

    For the reason that i am going, things will get better. And so, give it a bit of time without wasting your time and energy contemplating this.
    It really is human nature to be jealous after looking at the achievement within lifetime of others.You should not get worried with regard to these kinds of point,since not necessarily insert the oral cavity associated with others.It certainly won't impact you in every way.What for you to do that you ought to establish a person's effectiveness inside your career.Be ideal inside your life & minimum hassle for other individuals statement.

    For those who possibly be okay,other people will not have much about you.They might bocomne a person's followers.Man has characteristics to talk about other people & get the faults associated with other people .They populaise the small comings associated with other people with regard to themselves.By work associated with this means,that they obscure his or her small comings.
    This is not good that your chosen peers hardly understand and view your hard work.
    Often, there are shortcomings being rich.
    You need to facial area this situation and don't trouble yourself in relation to it.
    Just simply thank god that you simply are part of an excellent family, and wealth is another reaction of effort of your family members.
    More efficiently not necessarily think remorseful or unfounded around the men and women react by using you.
    And you're furthermore fortunate to be rich.

    And merely disregard the peers who definitely are jealous associated with you.
    Are jealous of will be drastically wrong without you need to include towards almost any body.
    They have to react to you within a friendly method nevertheless if they're jealous next try to avoid them.
    People who find themselves jealous people might some times damage you.

    You need to keep relaxed and give attention to your hard work furthermore don't think around the unfounded behavior.
    You shouldn't brain all those peoples word.

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