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    Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    I am working in a government organisation. I have heard that we need to maintain good relations with our colleagues in order to prosper at our workplace. So I was thinking that to maintain good relations with them, I should give them gifts on their birthdays. Is this a good idea? Please guide me in the right direction.

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    Hello,

    Yes, you can give to your collegues at work place. It is not at all a bad idea. In this way
    you can make good relationship with them. This relationship will be very handy during
    your hour of need. You should gift gits to you colleagueson their birthdays.

    Bye,

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    Depends on your relation with your colleagues! Of course you should give presents to your nearest cubicle members, and if you try a bit, giving presents may even befriend your resentful colleagues!

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. I have heard that we need to maintain good relations with our colleagues in order to prosper at our workplace. So I was thinking that to maintain good relations with them, I should give them gifts on their birthdays. Is this a good idea? Please guide me in the right direction.

    Dear Aspirant,

    It is your good thinking,but you can give presentation on the occasion of birth day of your colleagues when you are invited on such occasion.It is not only the way to maintain a good relation at your work place.In order to maintain a good relation in your work place,you should have understanding with your colleagues,which can be developed by not criticising them in their absence,by cooperating & helping them in need,by sharing happiness & sorrow etc.

    If you give presentation on the occasion of birth day & if you don't work together in supportive way,there won't be any prosper in your work place.If you don't give the presentation on the said occasion,but if you work in supportive & cooperative way,there will be a good prosper in your work place.Giving presentation is directly proportional to what the relation you have with your colleagues.

    Good luck.

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    Hello,

    It is true that one should have good connections with his/her colleagues.Now whether you should give them gifts on their birthdays or not will solely depend on how much bond you share with that person.If you have good rappot with that person then you can definitely gift him a present on his birthday.Or else you can always send birthday wishes through sms or email.Its not necessary to give presents to everyone on their birthdays.Giving a box of sweets will also be a good gesture!

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    Its not necessary to present gifts.your relationship depends on your daily contacts with them,how you help the person if he is in problems and make him to feel friendly.

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    hello,
    its a good idea of giving presents for your colleagues.it helps you in maintaining a good relationship between you and your colleague.it maintains a good friendly nature between you and your friend.and the gift you present may be even though small but the care and affection will be more than that gift.here affection is always greater than perfection.whether the other person may be rich than you but dont hesitate to give your gift even though it is small.
    relationship holds good if you are in a good contact with him and be a caring and advisable person and supporting him in all the way in all critical situations.and the best friend is one who helps you in-return when you are in need.

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    hello friend it is good to give a present to your colleagues.Be aware that it should be professional not personally or casual.Gift should be contain some knowledgeable thought, inspiration or some other valuable thought which indicate to right to path of success.If your colleagues is organizing any party then it can be take formally of gift otherwise it should some pleasures gift of nature or family based.thanks

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    This will be a great idea if you give presents and gifts to your colleagues on their birthdays because you know that better relations are always better and relation helps you somewhere there is demand so you have thought right about it and if there is birthday of any of your colleague then you must bring something according to your choice and suitable for that person according to attitude and mainly you should bring writing diary for personal database and you may also give hand watch to that candidate but everything depends on you and if do not want to present then you all employees may keep a small party in the office premises so this will be a right and everyone of your office will enjoy in that party including the head and then you may bring sweets and other things for small dinner etc. so this will create a positive atmosphere in office and your head will also think about that what a good relation between you all employees and you all will be able to make good relations and share person experiences at that moment so this must be done in office whenever you see events

    All the best

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    Hi friend,

    Now whether you should give them gifts on their birthdays or not will solely depend on how much bond you share with that person.
    If you have good rapport with that person then you can definitely gift him a present on his birthday.
    Or else you can always send birthday wishes through sms or email.
    Its not necessary to give presents to everyone on their birthdays.
    Giving a box of sweets will also be a good gesture.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best...........

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. I have heard that we need to maintain good relations with our colleagues in order to prosper at our workplace. So I was thinking that to maintain good relations with them, I should give them gifts on their birthdays. Is this a good idea? Please guide me in the right direction.
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is your good thinking to give some gift to near & dear on some good occasion.It brings closiness between two.But in order to be close with others,presenting gifts to your colleagues & seniors or juniors are not sufficient.Your nature & behaviour are more important to have good relation with others.

    You should have fair dealing with your colleagues.You should not cheat,critcise & deceive your colleagues & co-employees.Also you should maintain your good characters such as not beings accustomed to drugs,tobacco,alcohol etc.Also you should not be weak in sex.

    Having the above positive characters,if you present gifts to your colleagues,definitely it will bring closeness to others.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    It is not at all necessary to give gifts on the birthdays for maintaining good relations with your collegaues, if you are good to them you will automatically respect you and you will have good relations with them. You can help them in there needs if you can, just giving gifts on birthdays can never help you in maintaining good relations. If you think that making them feel good by giving gifts it is your choice, but them you have to keep one thing in mind that than you must always give some gifts to them on there birthdays, it is much better to wish them on there birthdays. Just keep one thing in mind that if you want to maintain good relations be good to them and give them respect. Don't try to do something extra.

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    Dear Friend,

    Yes, of course you can offer gifts to your colleagues on their birthdays it makes your friend very happy and special. Its also a sign of great connection with your colleague in future. You can also plan for a party for your friend in a restaurant will make your friend more special. You can gift many things but some of the ideas to gift are :-

    =>Flowers

    =>Cake

    =>Cards

    =>Chocolates

    =>Sweets/Cookies

    =>Dresses

    Get one of these things wrapped properly and gift it to your colleague will surely leave a good impact.

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    Re: Should we give presents to our colleagues on their birthdays?

    It is your beneficial thinking,and you gives display about the situation of labor and birth evening of the fellow workers if you find yourself welcomed for these occasion.It is not only the right way to have a beneficial relative pictures deliver the results place.In obtain to have a beneficial relative in your work place,you'll have realizing together with your fellow workers,that is manufactured by not criticizing all of them into their loss,by means of cooperating & assisting all of them in need of funds,by means of revealing happiness & sadness etc.

    In the event that allowing display about the situation of labor and birth evening & unless you work together in supporting manner,finito, no more be successful in your deliver the results place.If you do not offer the display about the explained situation,but for those who operate in supporting & cooperative manner,there has to be beneficial be successful in your deliver the results place.Giving display can be straight proportional about what a relative you could have together with your colleagues.
    it's a good option of allowing offers for the colleagues.it assists you to in maintaining a great romantic relationship between you and the colleague.it maintains a beneficial helpful character between you and the friend.and a gift idea anyone found may very well be despite the fact that small but the concern plus devotion are often more compared to of which gift.here devotion is definitely in excess of perfection.whether the other may very well be wealthy compared to anyone but don't wait to supply your current gift idea this small.
    romantic relationship keeps beneficial when you have a beneficial connection with him or her and also be any caring plus wise man or women plus promoting him or her in all the way in just about all vital situations.and the most effective pal is but one who seem to assists you to in-return as soon as movie need.

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