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    Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    I am working in a private firm. I have always been hard working from the beginning of my job but in the past few days have received severe criticism from my boss regarding my work. This is giving me nightmares as I am afraid of losing my job. How to resolve this matter?

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Criticism is everywhere no matter whatever you do.It only differs in the publicity of it.Some criticism are done at your back and you are not familiar with it while some are done publicly to allow the entire locality or a state or a nation or the entire world to know about it.Although it is a negative thing to criticize,however,it has various positive aspects.

    It is a common scenario daily in the newspaper that there is criticism of something or the other.It ranges from the field of sports to the field of politics and many more.This criticism are publicly done to make the public acknowledged with it.However,there are criticism done at one's back by the neighbours,friends,etc.Thus it also exists from door to door.

    There are many people who get depressed and feared because of criticism.Some even over-pressurize themselves.This ultimately leads to failure.So,it is important to extract the positive points or aspects from criticism.It is often seen that many famous personalities try to ignore the criticism.This is also a way of treating it and leading a life of comfort and with less pressure.

    Criticism of yours from your boss reveals that there have been some mistakes committed on your part in the professional arena.Hence there is no point is fearing the criticism and getting nightmares.Rather you should fight with this situation and get determined to win back the confidence of the boss and turn this criticism into admiration.

    -Try to analyze the mistakes done by you which resulted into this criticism.
    -Try to know the weak points within you which you have to improve.
    -Criticism can be handy in this process as it can make you well acquainted with the flaws in you.
    -Work upon the weak areas and try to improve on them.
    -Leave no stone unturned to achieve perfection in your work.
    -Strive hard to achieve success and that too at a consistent basis.
    -Soon you will see that the criticism has turned into admiration.

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    hi
    this is a normal routine if you have a stubborn boss. the only reason to skip it up is that you should work according to the need of your boss and if you are not sure about the things that your boss wants from you, then one fine day when he is in good mood, you should approach to him and ask him out that what exactly he wants from you and then maybe you can have a nice talk and solve the things out between you.

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Hello, Taking unnecessary pressure or tension wont help you to get out of this problem.Criticism is good for self improvement.You should not take it otherwise.Rather you should take it in a positive way.You have to analyse your work process.If you do so you will be able to find out your fault.Once this is done,things will be easier for you to proceed with.You have to come out of this depression,and move forward.

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Criticism is everywhere no matter whatever you do.It only differs in the publicity of it.Some criticism are done at your back and you are not familiar with it while some are done publicly to allow the entire locality or a state or a nation or the entire world to know about it.Although it is a negative thing to criticize,however,it has various positive aspects.


    It is a common scenario daily in the newspaper that there is criticism of something or the other.It ranges from the field of sports to the field of politics and many more.This criticism are publicly done to make the public acknowledged with it.However,there are criticism done at one's back by the neighbours,friends,etc.Thus it also exists from door to door.


    There are many people who get depressed and feared because of criticism.Some even over-pressurize themselves.This ultimately leads to failure.So,it is important to extract the positive points or aspects from criticism.It is often seen that many famous personalities try to ignore the criticism.This is also a way of treating it and leading a life of comfort and with less pressure.


    Criticism of yours from your boss reveals that there have been some mistakes committed on your part in the professional arena.Hence there is no point is fearing the criticism and getting nightmares.Rather you should fight with this situation and get determined to win back the confidence of the boss and turn this criticism into admiration.

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Self deprecation is actually everywhere despite what you may do.It just varies from the coverage regarding it.Some judgments are performed at the back again and you simply do not know the item while some are performed publicly allowing the whole locality or a state or simply a nation or the globe to learn about it.Although it is just a adverse matter for you to criticize,nonetheless,it has many constructive aspects.

    Them is a kind of situation day-to-day from the newspapers there is judgments regarding a thing or maybe the other.It ranges via the concept of sporting activities for you to the concept of nation-wide politics and plenty of more.This judgments will be publicly carried out help make people known by using it.However,there are actually judgments executed in an individual's back again because of the neighbours,buddies,etc.Thus additionally, it is available via door for you to door.

    There are several people who obtain stressed out and also scary because of criticism.Some possibly over-pressurize themselves.This ultimately causes failure.So,you should create the particular constructive factors or facets via criticism.It is normally witnessed that many well-known person's make an effort to forget about the criticism.This is a technique of treating the item and also top a life of relaxation along with much less pressure.

    Self deprecation regarding the one you have from your boss reveals which there have been a number of blunders dedicated by you from the skilled arena.Hence there isn't any position is actually dreading the particular judgments and having nightmares.Rather you need to deal with using this type of circumstances and have going to get back the particular self-confidence of the boss and also flip the following judgments straight into admiration.

    This is a typical program when you have some sort of tenacious boss. the one cause for you to by pass this is actually that you should do the job according to the will need of one's boss and if you are not sure with regards to stuff your employer prefers from you, and another good morning when he was in good disposition, you need to way of them and also ask him out there which just what he / she prefers via you together with then perhaps you may have a nice speak and also resolve the items out there in between youTaking avoidable stress or pressure don't assist you to emerge from the following problem.Criticism is designed for self applied improvement.

    You must not take the item otherwise.Rather you need to absorb it a positive way.You ought to examine your job process.If one does and that means you should be able to discover out of the fault.Once this can be done,items will be easier for you to continue with.You have to recover from the following depressive disorders,and also transfer forward..

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Hi Dear,

    A true performer is one who faces both criticism and praises with a similar attitude. However, it's human nature to get affected when we are criticised but we should try to get least affected and just keep on working on our weaknesses.

    When your boss criticises you, try to know the reason for his unhappiness and make a note of those reasons. Then make a conscious and sincere effort to improve on those areas which annoys your boss. You will find that very soon you will start enjoying working on your areas of improvements and in fact in no time, you will gain perfection in your work resulting in your and your boss's satisfaction.

    So, start from now onwards and change the reason for your boss's criticism to his pleasure and satisfaction.

    Wish you luck!
    Thanks

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    hello friend
    i can understand you problem because we all have to face these types of problem in our life and my suggestion is to you on your problem that firstly don't underestimate yourself and just concentrated on your work and when the result of your work is come them i am sure that your boss will never critics on you at all but if you are unable to concentrate on your work then you have to start the yoga practice once in a day because they will definitely help you to concentrate on your work.
    all the best.

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    Re: Severe criticism from my boss, regarding my work, is giving me nightmares

    Hello friend...,If you believe you are a hard working person then you are are satisfied with your work. See, you will face such types of situations in your professional life but that doesn't mean you will get distracted. If you boss criticizes you about your work, then there must be some problem. Try to find the reason for such criticism and act accordingly. Don't lose your confidence and have faith on your hardships. You look into the matter and try to improve upon yourself . Keep working harder and harder. Thank You

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