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    Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    I was recently looking for a new job and was selected by the same company which I had to leave 2 years ago due to some personal problems. Now I have been selected at a higher post than before. Many employees and officials here are the same as before. I am really confused as to how to communicate with them. I am having mixed feelings right now. How to get over this problem?

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hi aspirant

    I can definitely understand what you are feeling right now and completely understand your emotions at this time.But I think you should try and forget about your past and try to behave normally as you would behave if you had joined any other new company. You should behave with them as if they are your friends and forget about what happened in the past. Just make a new beginning and you will see that things will only get better for you.

    As for the previous employees, you should talk to them about all these years and what had they been upto. communicate with them as you would with your friends when you meet them after a long time. Then I am sure you would have no problem in dealing with anybody and thus you will be comfortable working in this company as before. So now you should not worry much and start afresh. Just take it as a new step into the future and you surely are going to have a great time. I hope your friends will also greet you with enthusiasm and will treat you properly.

    Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hi Aspirant,
    Your feelings are understandable.
    It is rightly said that time is a big healer and with that you forget bad things about your past and turn over a new leaf.
    in this situation, You must think positive and remember that after 2 years there definitely must have been some change in the behaviour and attitude of your colleagues and that it is for the good. You should not be hesitant in communicating with them if there is nothing bad in your heart about them because what you feel shows up on your face and tells a lot about you to the other person.
    If your intentions are good, no one can cause you any harm and you should not be afraid.
    Moreover, being selected at a higher post definitely should boost your morale and this should help you forget about what happened 2 years ago . So you should aim at making a fresh start and do all that you can for your organisation. This feeling will help you concentrate on your work help you remain focussed in your work which is good for your career graph . A little intelligent dealing with your co workers and officials will definitely help you be in their good books.
    Good Luck:-)

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    Hey!
    The problem that you are facing right now is absolutely understandable. I am sure that with time you will get over the confusion that you are going through at the moment. You should maintain your calm and go through this phase of your life very confidently. You have to believe in yourself and feel that you can reach greater heights now that you have an opportunity at your doorstep. You have to make the most of it.

    The reason that you should not feel reluctant in joining the company is that two years back you left the company because of your own personal problem. You were not asked to resign from the company. Personal hardships are a part and parcel of one's life. One has sail through such situations by the virtue of perseverance. You should not think about the past and remember your situation two years ago. I feel that your leaving the job at that time was unavoidable. Now it is a new beginning.

    The good thing is that the company has approached you now after two years and has offered you a better position in their organization. This is truly in your favour. The reaosn that they have offered you this post is that they consider you worthy of it. Also you have an upper hand because it is the organization that has approached you and not vice versa. this hsould give a boost to your self confidence. Also the company trusts your capabilities and that is the reason that they have approached you the second time.

    You should feel proud of the fact that the company has shown its confidence in you. You need to just go and work and give it your best shot. You should put in your maximum efforts for the same. You should be able to deliver to the best of your capacity. As far as the people you already know are concerned you should behave normally with them. You should maintain an equation that you already shared. You should not let your apprehensions of joining the organization again be evident. I am sure that you have a bright future ahead. All the best!

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    hii i think you should definitely approach them have a word with them... because company came to you and you have been selected for higher post... its very important that company recognizes your talent and gives you a good higher position... i think goo for it.. you will be more comfortable with the company also because you worked with company before ... be positive and accept the job...

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hello there !!!

    please don't make your mind on the previous things and the happening which has happened with you previously.
    so, do forget all the things and try to make a new start.
    also if some of the persons are knowing you before than what is wrong in this..??
    since you have been appointed to the post than before so, you have no any excuse to make yourself hidden from the
    person knowing you.
    so, do continue your work with new power and potential.

    hope you are satisfied.
    thanks for posting in EALP.
    pushp ranjan singh

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I was recently looking for a new job and was selected by the same company which I had to leave 2 years ago due to some personal problems. Now I have been selected at a higher post than before. Many employees and officials here are the same as before. I am really confused as to how to communicate with them. I am having mixed feelings right now. How to get over this problem?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Congratulations for being selected in the same company for higher post.Don't be confused & join happily.You can convey your message to your previous senior officers & others stating that''I am happy & obliged to the management for giving me senior post in the same company where I worked previously.I would try my level best forgetting all the negative points of the past & without doing any injustice to any one.Also I would expect the same from all of you.I expect full cooperation from all the employees in order to discharge my duties in the interest of the company & employees''.

    Hope for bright future.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok..

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hello,

    You will have this problem for some initial weeks.But you will easily get over it after a month only.This is because you are known to this company and to the other staffs working here.Most importantly you have worked with them.Your present designation may be higher than your previous one,but it wont matter much.Soon you will find yourself accustomed with this atmosphere.Dont worry about it.Try to make fresh start by making friendship with them again.

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    Dear it is very good news for you that again you have been appointed in the same company for a higher post and you have left the job in the company before 2 years so that you should take it positively i mean to say company knows about your work and your performance in the company and also what you have contributed for the company and company appointed you again because the authorities knows the profit & loss means what are the profits of your company to keep you in the job and that's why your company does not wants to get loss in the competitive atmosphere that's why your company reappointed you for the higher post than before so that you should not think according to you personal way, now see about your future and presently you have not job so that something is better than nothing and when you are going to pay highly on higher post then you must go back to that company and meet with the director of your company start your work again and this is a golden opportunity for you to ask for anything you wish in your company means if you have any positive condition for work in that so you may keep it in front of the manager and tell them that if they do so then i will come for work here again

    All the best


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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hi friends,

    I think you decided but my opinion you can join for this job.
    Because You can selected at a higher post in your company.
    so present situation jobs opportunities are very poor.
    You can communicate with your choice but you can better feeling for higher post in your company.
    So you can join and this company already you work them and you can not a fresher in your company.
    Mainly you can easily communicate with your staff.

    So I think join for your company.

    Thanks!!!

    Good Luck.................

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    Hi.................,

    You must act as if you are new to company.
    Your old feelings and relation with employee is not required.
    They can not claim you as you are appointed by company.
    Make sure that you should not answer to previous thoughts.
    Make new relation and work hard in company.

    Thanks

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Dear friend you have appointed to your old company which you left earlier now you have joined toward a higher post with better packages hence there is no odd all are ok.Now your problem how you will behave with your old colleagues.This is the matter of feelings you must not worry about this you always feel cool if the behaviour of old colleague is not after your heart.Next you never show your superiority complex with your old friends due to your appointment in higher posts behave normally with your all friends and often due to bad luck if you are the pre of odd situation you have to overcome with your self skill & expertise without noticing anybody.

    At an emergency you can consult with your higher officials to mitigate problems which you can not manage.For this you must not go to your unwanted colleagues which may the cause of heartenng in future so avoid to meet with the old employees in unlimited way control yourself and behave normally.In one ward you must not show your superiority and inferiosity you should go ahead with your self skill/knowledge in the old office.

    Thank you,

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hello friend

    You should not worry about the past as you have to leave your job then due to some personal problems and not due to any mistake on your part. So you should better take this as a new beginning to a bigger and better future and should follow the following steps to have a good time and to be successful in your future.
    . Follow all the rules and regulations of your company.
    . Behave cordially with all the employees whether you know them or not.
    . Do your duties properly and complete all your tasks on time .
    . Now as you are at a higher post , so you have more responsibilities right now on your shoulders.
    . Communicate with them as you would with anyone else. Don't hesitate to reveal your feelings.
    . Be yourself and don't try to be someone else.

    Congrats for your new job and best of luck

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    2 years is a long time.
    When you join the company you should think that it a new beginning
    you should not think about how you used to work earlier and how you used to interact with your old collegues

    Also you are into a senior position now.
    You should do the daily work as assigned to your new role and take things as it comes.
    Dont worry much about it

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hi friend,

    You are saying that you have left that company because of some personal problems.

    Personal in the sense if they are not related to company then you can join the company clearly.

    But if it is related to that company then you must move on with your decision.

    Because my friend time keeps on changing and you need to move on.

    Just look at the job man, you have got the position higher than the one in which you were once into.

    People keep on changing so as their thoughts and preferences, so donot think about the past and concentrate on your future.

    Future is the thing which will decide your future but not the past.

    SO forget everything and look after yourself and your future.


    Hope i have helped you in getting relevant information.

    ALl the best

    Thanking you...

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Can undoubtedly perceive what you're feeling at once and fully perceive your emotions at now.But i feel you ought to attempt to dump your past and check out to behave ordinarily as you'd behave if you had joined the other new company. you ought to behave with them as if they're your friends and dump what happened within the past. simply build a replacement starting and can|you'll|you may see that things will solely bounce back for you.

    As for the previous staff, you ought to confer with them concerning of these years and what had they been upto. communicate with them as you'd along with your friends after you meet them when a protracted time. Then i'm certain you'd don't have any drawback in coping with anybody and therefore you'll be comfy operating during this company as before. therefore currently you ought to not worry abundant and begin anew. simply take it as a replacement step into the long run and you for certain are getting to have a good time. I hope your friends also will greet you with enthusiasm and can treat you properly.

    The reason that you just shouldn't feel reluctant in connection the corporate is that 2 years back you left the corporate attributable to your own personal drawback. You weren't asked to resign from the corporate. Personal hardships are a district and parcel of one's life. One has breeze through such things by the virtue of perseverance. you ought to not suppose the past and bear in mind your scenario 2 years gone. I feel that your effort the task at that point was ineluctable. currently it's a replacement starting.

    The nice factor is that the corporate has approached you currently when 2 years and has offered you a higher position in their organization. this can be really in your favor. the explanation that they need offered you this post is that they think about you deserve it. conjointly you have got associate degree whip hand as a result of it's the organization that has approached you and not the other way around. this could provides a boost to your self esteem. conjointly the corporate trusts your capabilities which is that the reason that they need approached you the second time.

    You ought to feel pleased with the very fact that the corporate has shown its confidence in you. you wish to merely go and work and provides it your best shot. you ought to place in your most efforts for a similar. you ought to be able to deliver to the most effective of your capability. As so much because the individuals you already recognize are involved you ought to behave ordinarily with them. you ought to maintain associate degree equation that you just already shared. you ought to not let your apprehensions of connection the organization once more be evident. I'm certain that you just have a bright future ahead.

    At associate degree emergency you'll be able to talk over with your higher officers to mitigate issues that you'll be able to not manage.For this you want to not move to your unwanted colleagues which can the reason for encouraging in future therefore avoid to fulfill with the recent staff in unlimited means management yourself and behave ordinarily.In one ward you want to not show your superiority and inferiority you ought to plow ahead along with your self skill/knowledge within the recent workplace.

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I was recently looking for a new job and was selected by the same company which I had to leave 2 years ago due to some personal problems. Now I have been selected at a higher post than before. Many employees and officials here are the same as before. I am really confused as to how to communicate with them. I am having mixed feelings right now. How to get over this problem?
    Hello Friend.......


    The problem that you are facing right now is absolutely understandable. I am sure that with time you will get over the confusion that you are going through at the moment. You should maintain your calm and go through this phase of your life very confidently. You have to believe in yourself and feel that you can reach greater heights now that you have an opportunity at your doorstep. You have to make the most of it.

    The reason that you should not feel reluctant in joining the company is that two years back you left the company because of your own personal problem. You were not asked to resign from the company. Personal hardships are a part and parcel of one's life. One has sail through such situations by the virtue of perseverance. You should not think about the past and remember your situation two years ago. I feel that your leaving the job at that time was unavoidable. Now it is a new beginning.

    The good thing is that the company has approached you now after two years and has offered you a better position in their organization. This is truly in your favour. The reaosn that they have offered you this post is that they consider you worthy of it. Also you have an upper hand because it is the organization that has approached you and not vice versa. this hsould give a boost to your self confidence. Also the company trusts your capabilities and that is the reason that they have approached you the second time.

    Thank you friends...
    ......With regards from you@,........

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    Hi
    The condition which you mentioned clearly says that you are offered with a good and high position job. Therefore there should be no more doubts in your mind to join that company again. The same company wants to take you back, thatís more than enough for you to take a step ahead and grab the opportunity for a better future and career

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    Re: Selected by the same company which I left 2 years ago

    It must not be a big problem for you, instead it will make your job much easier as most of the employees of the companies now you.

    The important thing in the professional life is that you need to have a good career growth from time to time, which you are getting.

    Just be professional at work and after work you can treat than as you used to treat them before.

    This will not bring any sort of negative thoughts in there minds.

    In this competitive world if you want to grow you will have to face such situations.

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