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    Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently one of my colleagues made rude comments against my family in front of everyone. I lost control and tightly slapped him. Now I am afraid that he will inform the boss regarding this. What should be done in such a situation to safeguard my future?

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    You did the right thing with that person and this was also infront of the employees so everyone has seen that you had just slapped a guy whoo was making a rude comment for your family so you should not worry for the same because your boss will also do the same if he was also in your position so just chill as he will say you sorry for the same and make the compromise. If he go to boss then boss also try to know the truth as he will not beleive him blindly because he is just a helpless guy . If any one makes any comments against your family members then automatically you will loose control and then you will make him feel the pain for the same and that exactly you Did , so just remove that person from your mind and go ahead as there are lots of works for you waiting inside. If your boss asks you that why you did the same then you need to say directly that what you will do if some one says your mom is a slut, then he will react like a danger man and he can slap you so for making the person understand the pain you need to make them feel that.

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Hi,
    In today's world patience/chill mind is very important, because in this world there are different person's of different nature. As you mention that you "Tightly slapped" him because he made some rude comments against your family, this is just because of lack of patience. But on other hand that employee should definitely get some permission from your senior/boss .As in your case both parties have equal mistake, so don't worry just relax .....
    If your boss say something to you then explain complete condition which you face due to which you loose your temper.

    Thanks

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Physical violence due to any reason is not acceptable at any cost. Losing control and slapping somebody is quite easy, but keeping your claim yet taking stern action of anything done or said against you is something an intelligent person should do. Now, the news that you have slapped him will definitely reach to your boss. What ever you have done is already done, now you have to think what you can do next so that you can save your own reputation. If your boss calls you, then make sure you speak nothing but the truth. If you are true, then your boss will believe in your words. In order to save yourself, don't hesitate to apologise in order to put an end to the entire controversy and to bring back peace. It is very important that you make sure that you don't get into physical violence. Violence doesnot solve anything, rather it leads to more troubles. Avoid such colleague in future!

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Hello,
    1.According to me you have did the right thing that person really deserve that you should not be worry about that.
    2.You should have cool attitude so that you can face any problem in life cheerfully.
    3.Just forget that movement and move a head in your life .
    thanks............

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    Smile Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Even if he done unnecessary comments on your family it is not correct to beat that person.It creates a lot of problem to you.No one can control them self if any wrong words about our family.So,it is not a mistake of You to beat that person.But if your boss asked you about the issue then you have to tell the truth.save your self without loosing your reputation.If necessary apologize him.Then the problem will come to an end.
    all the best
    thank you

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Recently one of my colleagues made rude comments against my family in front of everyone. I lost control and tightly slapped him. Now I am afraid that he will inform the boss regarding this. What should be done in such a situation to safeguard my future?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is very bad habit to comment against family of others before some body.Also you did a blunder mistake to slap the related person.Now you should try to neutralise the matter by talking to the concerned person.If he agrees,it is alright otherwise in case of complaint to your boss,you should not accept your mistake.Of course,you can say that he was criticizing my family before others for which I asked him not to do so & convinced him logically for the same.If you don't have witness for the incident,then nothing to worry.In case of witness against you,you should also have witness in favour of you so that your point may not be weak before your boss.

    So nothing to worry & face the situation boldly.Nothing wrong may happen with you.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    Good morning sir
    Sir, sir you should talk to your manager about the whole scene earlier from your colleague as if he talk earlier him may can make false accuse on you and it became difficult for you to justify your self. sir, you should tell your boss about his bad behavior and the situation which forced you to do physical acts.
    and also ask boss for his help in solving the problem. i am sure your boss will ask for your apology for your misbehave .
    sir , this will surely solve your problem.
    thank you

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    Re: Rude comments regarding my family made me slap one of the employees

    hello sir
    it is a very serious matter i think what you have to do is that go to your boss roam and told each and every thing which is happen with you because we all know that if someone will accept his mistake then all will give him/her to a second chance so my suggestion is to you is that talk to your boss on this matter and also said that i am also gulity sir on my behaviour but the time was not right so i am unable to control on my temper.
    thanking you

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