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    Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    I am working in a private firm. My parents , who have had one or two interactions with my boss, think that he is a very arrogant and mannerless person and thus cannot help in my professional growth. They think that I should leave this job immediately. But I am very happy here and donít want to leave it. What should be done in such a situation?

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    bhanupratap Array
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    Re: Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    Hi,
    As you mention that you don't want to leave the company and you are very happy, this indicates that your parents and your thinking are different. Because they judge your boss in negative manner and you are different impression of your boss.
    So either just talk to your parents and say that you are happy in same company and same boss. If you face some problem in future then surely you leave the company.
    But as if now you are happy and no problem so no reason to leave the company.
    And i am pretty sure that your parents will agree on above point.

    Thanks

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    Re: Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    Hello Friend,

    Well, it's your career and your job and before taking any step you should think twice about the issue. If you are happy with your present job then you should not worry too much about your parents reactions or advice. You should stay at the current company as long as you are happy with the work environment. You should tell your parents that your are happy with your current company and you don't want to take any decision of leaving. I know that this will offend your parents but sometimes you have to take decision based on your instinct. Hopefully your decision will be good in the long run.

    Bye,

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    Re: Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    According to your statement your parent did not want to continue job presently you have because your parent met with your boss and behaved with your parrent arrogantly they did not prefer your boss.So that you parant is asking you to leave the job and to join another company.

    Here you can not ignore your parent because they have gone to met with your boss in a friendly manner but your boss behaved with them unmannerly.According to your parent they did not get satisfaction with the behavior done.So that you can obey your parent talks and you should try for another job as per your merit and as soon as available you should quit.It is true according to your views you company is good and feel comfortable.That may be but you should obey your parent too. They are experienced and Guardian they are the real good wisher of your career.Accordingly you must not ignore them you should arrange another job.

    Thank you,

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    Re: Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person.


    Since your parents insists you to leave the present job immediately then think of the situation for ones and about your carrier because now a days getting a job is very difficult and that too you are happy with the job so, you try to convince your parents if you get satisfied with the job if they pay you good salary and good respect and also think of the future that whether your work experience gets useful in future is this is the case then only you need to continue with the current job other wise it is better to leave that job and search for the new one which will have good future.

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    Re: Parents want me to leave this job as they think that my boss is a very arrogant person

    Dear if your parents are saying that your boss is mannerless and arrogant then you should accept their argument because they have seen years of life and got experience that you do not have so you should understand that what they want with you and they will never think wrong about your career that is why they are suggesting some better ways for you to grow in life and mainly professional career and if you parents have analyzed your boss once then you should accept that your parents are right

    If you are happy with your current job and there is no issue at all in office and boss also behave good with you then you should go to your parents when they are free and let them know about your status in the company that you are happy with this job and do not want to leave it at any cost and you can grow more in this company so may be that your parents does not force you again for leave but remember that anytime you get any moment that your boss is accusing you for something false or treating you bad after few years then you should understand the bell of danger right there that is why you should be careful and if anything happens then keep good connections in professional life so you could get another job instantly otherwise you will get nothing in that case and if you want to leave then do not make any dispute with your boss and just leave after getting your experience certificate from the company so everything will be okay at that time

    All the best

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