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    Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    I am working in a private firm. Our manager is a very kind hearted person but he is going through a very bad time in his personal life. Most of the employees feel sorry for him and want to help him in some way or the other. What can we do to change his mood?

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Hi aspirant

    Its good to see you and the other employees being so concerned for your manager. It is good to see that humanity still exists in today's times also when no one has the time for others in this life of stress. You should definitely do something to elevate the mood of your manager and to ensure that he doesn't remain depressed and disheartened. You should try to help him out in solving his problems if possible.

    Firstly you all can go , in groups of 2 or 3, to his office and talk sympathetically with him. Tell him that you are really sorry for all that he has to bear in his personal life and that are here to help him. So if there's anything that you can do to relieve his grief, then you would gladly accept to do the same. He should not be shy or hesitate in asking them for help as they are always there for him. You hope that he will consider them as friends and would discuss his problems with them to lighten his mood.

    I am sure that your manager will be very happy with this gesture of yours and would hopefully tell you if there is something you can do. This will certainly lighten his mood. Good luck

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    If there is a problem in your bossís personal life then you must not treat the relation with a boss and employee tag on it, instead just treat him as your friend and keep helping in whatever means you can. Spend some time with him, go on for a movie or lunch so that you can divert his mind. Plan some surprises to keep the smile on his fAce

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    sympathy is not what your manager wants from you but a little warmness and love that you all employees give it to your manager.. you should encourage your boss in way that you should give some positive mindset surrounding that helps in giving the boss the strength and courage that helps him deal with personal problems and also gives a steel nature that helps him develop a great fightback in dealing problems in life...

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Hi friend,

    I think your bossís personal life then you must not treat the relation with a boss and employee tag on it.
    Instead just treat him as your friend and keep helping in whatever means you can.
    Spend some time with him.
    Go on for a movie or lunch so that you can divert his mind.
    So you can suggested for your manager

    Thanks!!!
    all the best............

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Hello,
    1.Talk sympathetically with him.
    2.Just treat him as your friend just tell him that you are always their to help her and keep helping her in whatever means you can.
    3.You can also spend some time with him he will feel better with you listen her view and advice him this will help him a lot.
    thanks.......

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Hi Dear,

    Life is not a bed of roses and we are born to face challenges in our life
    . You boss will also have to believe on this saying and be brave and bold enough to face this rough patch of life.

    Now, all you can do is be with him at this difficult phase of his life and let him feel the same through your attitude and gestures. Be caring towards him and most importantly, shoulder him in his professional responsibilities. In fact, talk to the entire team and try managing work on your own so that your boss could not get stressed at this moment.

    Moreover, plan an outing and take him out sometime so that he could get out of the depressing mode of his life and could get diverted.

    Talk to him on light topics and try getting him involved in your discussions. I am sure if you and the entire team love him so much and are trying so hard to help him out, he will come out of this situation very soon.

    Thanks.

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life


    • It's good that every employee cares about their manager and his problem.
    • Try to divert the mind of your's manager from personal problem and get him involved in work.
    • You must have to make sure that your manager faces less pressure of work and get it handled by other employees together.
    • Behave with your manager in friendly manner and assure him that all are with him.
    • All the employees with manager can go together for lunch or for movie, so that your manager feel better.

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. Our manager is a very kind hearted person but he is going through a very bad time in his personal life. Most of the employees feel sorry for him and want to help him in some way or the other. What can we do to change his mood?
    Hello Aspirant,

    The time is the most powerful factor to affect the life of any human being.It is variable & not constant & good always.It may be bad or good for which there are many factors.What a man/person can do to face the situation patiently & peacefully.

    It is good to learn that you all are counting the goodness of your manager & want to help him in all possible means.you should go him & courage & ask for any help without any hesitation.He may not accept your offer,but you should convince him that we won't accept any thing in return.Now he may accept your offer.

    So try & help him in all possible way.

    Thanks.

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Hello,

    I can understand the situation. Firstly make him understand that all of you are with him. If he finds that all of you are with him, then it will give him some moral boost up. You should make him feel comfortable, so that he can share his problems with you. Don't pass any comment on his problems, rather make him feel that you are beside him. If he seeks any help from you, try your best so help him out in your own possible way. Make sure he can stay cheerful at least during the time while he is in office.

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    Re: Our manager going through a very bad time in his personal life

    Dear Friend

    Yes ,its true that you may have lots of ups and down in your life .Since your boss is in some problem and it is personal .First of all take assurance that is he ready to take help or some other person can interfere in it or not because some people do not like that others interfere in their personal problems.

    If he agrees ,kindly discuss it and try to solve it .Treat him as your friend as help as much as possible because helping others in problem is the best service to mankind .

    It is also said that grief is reduced twice if it is shared with close friends



    Hope the information helps you as much as you expect .For any other assistance please do not forget to leave a message here .We will get back to you as soon as possible.


    Enjoy your life and all the best for your career.


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