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    One of my friends wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone

    I am working in a software company. One of my colleagues, who is a very good friend of mine, wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone. Although I want help him out but I donít know what to do in such a situation. Please give me some good suggestions on how to teach such a person a good lesson.

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: One of my friends wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone

    Hello Friend,

    Well, this is a very tricky situation my friend. You should have left your friend to decide what to do in a situation like this. It is not your problem and you should not involve in the issue. Your friend is grown man so he should know when to react and when to defend in a professional organization. You should talk to him and tell him that if you involve in the process it can affetc your professional career as well. You should be very cautios while doing anything to that person as he has no issue with you. A diplomatic approach is needed in a situation like this . Alternatively you can tell your friend to talk to the person and sort out the issue mutually.

    Bye,


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    Re: One of my friends wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a software company. One of my colleagues, who is a very good friend of mine, wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone. Although I want help him out but I donít know what to do in such a situation. Please give me some good suggestions on how to teach such a person a good lesson.
    Hello Aspirant,

    It often happens in life.Since you are a friend or known to both of them,it is your prime duty not to support one to rise the dispute further more.You should try to neutralize the matter by convincing your friend.You should say that it is better to be away from such person.It is good to ignore such person.In this case the concerned person who shouted may realize his mistake.

    If not,meet the concerned person privately & try to make him realize that he has really done mistake to shout at him before others.You can just inform him that he is preparing to lodge an FIR in the near by police station for insulting him by you.He may get fear & may ask to stop the matter here itself.Then you should say him to apologize to your colleague & if it happens,the matter will automatically be closed.

    So it is not advisable to make the situation to rise the matter more.

    Good luck.

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    Re: One of my friends wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone

    heloo freind!
    i have understand your problem i have also face such situation. i suggest you not to take the voilent way because it will damage on both side try to talk with both of them and make them understand each other and suggest them not to hurt each other's ego

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    Re: One of my friends wants me to teach a lesson to one of our colleagues, who shouted at him in front of everyone

    Hi,

    It's truly saddening to hear that there are people around who are not gifted with courtesy and good manners and love to shout at their colleagues in public. However, we should remember that we must not leave the path of ethics and morality even when we face a tough situation or when we are forced by even a close friend of ours to retaliate in a similar manner as others.

    In this situation, when your friend feels that he has been insulted by one of his colleague who has actually shouted in public at him, you should work as a pace maker and try to pacify and convince your friend not to behave similarly as that foolish colleague of his but behave more intellectually.
    Request him to leave things on time and just focus on his work but maintain distance with the colleague so that he could get a feeling that he has done a grave mistake.

    Even you should try avoiding the foolish individual and through your actions make him realise about his lowly attitude.

    Thanks.

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