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    One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    I am working in a government organisation. One of my colleagues has a very bad and irritating habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance. This is very bad on his part and its betters that he realises his mistake soon. What should be done with such a person?

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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Dear Friend,

    Arguing is not always bad and if it is done at the right place, right time and in the right manner then it is very good and the best thing. But as we know excess of everything is bad and it must be controlled.

    So, if he is arguing excessively and with many people then it is definitely not correct and he must be cautioned about it. You should talk to him when he is calm and relaxed and not when he is already arguing. If you express you view in convincing way then then he will surely understand about his mistakes and try to improve his behaviour.

    But if he does not improve then you should not worry about it too much and better concentrate on your own work. Try to avoid him and not get carried away in arguing with him.

    Thank you.

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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Hello sir-
    I am fully agree with that flirting with new peoples ate very serious problem which can create huge problems in official environment .
    You should talk to him/her politely and calmly and explain all the possible cause of in case of working, social respect, self moto etc.
    I hope conversation is one of the best option to represent yourself clearly against any one luke friends, relative or coworker.
    So try to teach to that particular employee to not do so again.
    thanks
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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Friend one of your colleague has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance.

    Arguing is the habit whenever a person always' try's to to get the issue for arguing, arguing has the merit demerit both.You are to see when he try's to argue
    if it is found due to his arguing you and all wasteing times unnecessarily then it is very bad.If the person when he has the time with his hand and also the listeners have the time.Then common person can understand whose arguing is relevent and has the importance to the day to day life.We know an "idle brain is the devils' workshop"hence if your colleague starts arguing with an issue you all can hear his points' of arguing definitely if you lesten such arguing daily, your
    knowledge about the good and bad will increase.But the fact is that at the time of leisure such habits should grew, never should continue arguing at the time of
    office hour as well as in front of the customers'.Then the image of the staff and company will be hampered more or less.So, argue considering, time,place,person then all right.It has no evil affect.

    Thank You,


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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Hello Friend,

    Well, argument without any sort of logic or evidence is stupidity and nothing else. In a goverment organization there are certain rules and regulations and every employees must follow those rules and regulations otherwise there will be no discipline in the organization. You should talk to your colleague and try to convince him not to argue with everyone at the work place. This behaviour is not at all acceptable in workplace. He can be punised at any time for violating the office code of conduct. If he has any logic in his argument he should put forward during launch break and can sort the issue. If this goes on continue i am afraid he will face serious trouble.

    Bye,


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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Hi,
    Different people have different type of nature, but yes its very difficult to handle these types of person who have there arguing nature. So you have two options, either just listen but don't take seriously or you can just directly say that person that your way of talking is not good. So its humble request please try to change it.
    Now it depend on that person whether he change his/her nature or not.

    Thanks

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    Re: One of my colleagues has a very bad habit of arguing with everyone whenever he gets the chance

    Hi
    The people who have this arguable habit are not at all liked by the people in the near surroundings. These are the people who are always hated, therefore you should also be the one who maintains a certain distance with these kind of people. You just don't lend your ears on whatever he says, go to the office be with the people who are in your friend circle. Why including such people in your circle, they're seriously very annoying. One should always keep this in mind that there's no worth of banging your head on to the wall, therefore just avoid him and you won't be finding any much of the problem in the near future.
    Gud luck

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