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    One of my colleagues is annoyed with me as I spoke badly with his siblings

    I am working in a government organisation. A few days back two people came to our company and started making a lot of noise. I scolded them for disturbing the decorum of our office. I didn’t know that they were one of my colleague’s siblings. Now he is annoyed with me and not talking properly with me. What to do in such a situation?

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    Ashok Array
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    Re: One of my colleagues is annoyed with me as I spoke badly with his siblings

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    I am working in a government organisation. A few days back two people came to our company and started making a lot of noise. I scolded them for disturbing the decorum of our office. I didn’t know that they were one of my colleague’s siblings. Now he is annoyed with me and not talking properly with me. What to do in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Yes,it usually happens in your work place or in home when you are in mood of doing something & some body disturbs you.You have done nothing wrong with them.Of course,you should have told them rather politely instead of shouting.

    Now nothing to worry.you should talk to the related person that unknowingly spoke some what rude for which I feel very sorry & apologize to you.It is nothing wrong to accept fault,if it happened unknowingly.This step will neutralize the anger developed due to the incident & you both will feel happy.

    So try & see the result.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: One of my colleagues is annoyed with me as I spoke badly with his siblings

    Hello..,

    It was very correct on your part that you scolded the two for making noise. This is a common sense that one has to behave in such and such ways according to the place. So if you stood against them, it was not wrong. And as for your colleague is related to it , I think you should politely make hi understand that everyone should abide by the rules and you had not intentionally scolded his siblings. And if he thinks you were too rude, you can apologize. Its not a big deal.If you again meet the two, you talk to them politely so that even if there remain some grudge , it gets removed.

    Thank you

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    Re: One of my colleagues is annoyed with me as I spoke badly with his siblings

    Good morning sir
    sir, disturbing others while working is a bad habit but some time the disturbance make our self annoyed that we over react to the situation. sir , you should talk to your colleagues and tell him the truth , the reason behind the whole act. may be he will understand your views and feel it right. and if he don't understand your views you should make apology to him and try to make your relation easy.
    Thank You

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