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    One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    I have completed my graduation and am now looking for a job. Just a few days back I gave a group discussion. During that one of the candidates shouted at me in front of everybody as I said something about his religion which offended him. I had been down in the dumps because of that . How to react in such a situation?

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Hello,

    Firstly let me tell you,you have committed a big mistake the moment you have attracked the other guy personally.Whereever you go,or what ever you do,you have no right to say anything offensive against one's religion.If you do so then it will be violation of fundamental right of the other person,which is not at all acceptable by our constitution.So you have to make sure that you refrain yourself from making personal attacks or speak out anything that you feel like on such debatable issues.You have to be very rational before you speak out anything.Otherwise you will be facing same type of behaviour resulting in your rejection.My suggestion to you will be,dont pass any leud comment on anybody whether you are in an interview or not,use your rational mind and speak up that everyone would appreciate!

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Hello friend
    Please doesn’t comment on the religious of any people because of that he/she will be shouted on you? Now what you have to do if you are in that type of situation first of all just cool down your mind and never think about of this type of stupidity because this is the part of your life once if you are in that type of situation then always be try to convince to all of them that you are right and if any person behave like that then immediately complaint to your group in charge I am sure they would definitely take a necessary step on this type of situation
    Thanking you

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Well if his shouting on you for something what you abused him on pretext of his religion the same way that person would have felt!
    so instead of considering that as your insult just calm down and concentrate more on your recruitment session. As you must be in the final year of your graduation then the chance of confronting with that particular student may be hard but here the need of the hour is to control yourself at the personal level and think more wisely.
    Ignore this and spend more enthusiasm on improving your interview cracking skills and qualitative aptitude skills.
    Remember , bring fire in you for stepping into better and higher but not for the revenge.
    Once you get a good job in hand that would be enough to show to that student your abilities etc..
    try be calm and look for the better side .
    good luck!

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    hello,
    dont get tensed up and leave that matter there itself and you are going into future and those past things should be erased off from your present one.it happens sometimes and the situation there it mattered and he shouted at you.
    but be carefull in this type of situations so that it will not repeat it again.
    as you are a new one as you just completed your graduation so first experience should be considered and you should not repeat it again.
    every one do mistakes and see that it wont repeat it again.
    good luck for the next time.
    thank you..............

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Dear Friend,
    The candidate shouted at you in front of everyone was due to your own fault.

    In India every religion is treated in the same way and you are not allowed to pass any type of comment on anybody's religion in public.

    In future you should not attack anyone even if you do not like that person personally at public.

    The company have rejected you since according to them you may repeat the same thing in your work place and this thing will definitely stress the environment of your work place.

    Think rationally and then speak. The wisdom lies in thinking first and then speaking specially in case of your professional life.

    You should be rational and calm yourself down even if any such think comes to your mind in future.



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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    During group discussions one should avoid controversy this is the main drawback that students take up during the gd sessions.. The other part is you should never offend anybody and create disturbance during the discussions because this will nullify your good points.. Gd is not debate its the views and knowledge that students should express it without any hesitation.. The candidate who shouted is totally mad and ignorant about what gd is all about you should behave your self be like candidate express you disappointment in terms of strong feeling that nullify the other persons words.. 100 punches of fights can be shown in terms of words that penetrate into others hearts not by harsh words... In this situation interviewers will see your body actions both are at fault but if you also shout at him this will turn out to be fight then two of you will be shown the door that it the end of your way to get job thank you...

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Hello,


    you committed a big mistake on commenting on any religion personally.

    You should handle the situation bravely.First of all,cool down yourself and realize your mistake.

    Try to convince all the people from the brighter side taking it positively and not to hurt any people personally on their religion.

    If the situation is not getting managed anyhow,then complain your group leader.they will take frequent steps to handle the situation definitely.


    Thankyou!!!

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Hi Friend,

    First of all, you should keep in your mind that religion is a very sensitive topic of discussion. So you need to handle such topics with great seriousness and maintain certain limits when putting your points in fron of other candidates. Now that a heated discussion has already taken place, You cannot do much about it. Just remain calm and composed and if you get an opportunity, put across your points in a cool manner and tell the candidate that you had no intention to offend or hurt any one's feelings. Being aggressive is never a solution to any problem, so do not be aggressive and talk ill will. You have to become successful in life and success can be achieved only with great patience.

    Thanks,
    Ritz

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    See in group discussions due to excitement there is possiblity that one might shout, but this is not good for him if he shouts as it shows the lack of tolerance in the person and lack of way in which he handles thing. You should not have reacted to this as you have reacted you have lost your point there because your weakness also came out there. You know that you had commited a mistake now, but you have lost the opportunity so leave this and move on for other interviews. One thing you can be benefited from this discussion is that you have to know how to control yourself. Group discussions is not about showing your power of voice but the power of thinking and logic behind whatever you say. So next time whenever you have a GD be calm and don't speak unnecessarily, and whenever you speak you must have weight of logics and datas behind it. You don't have to shut others mouth by shouting but you have to shut it by your reasoning ability.

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    dear first of all whenever you are going for interview or group discussion control yourself and try to be cool for a moment. in that moment if you feel angry please dont show it and control it dear becas it is a matter of you carrier second thing in discussion few candidate try to irritate others purposefully to down them so try to avoid it and control yourself. thirdly religious matter is very serious matter is try to not involve in this matter otherwise you will be the looser.

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    Hello,

    Friend you have made the cardinal mistake during the group discussion process. Whenever you participate
    in a group discussion you should follow certain rules and regulations. Firstly you should listen what other's
    have to say and then present your opinion. You should not say anything about religion, race, skin colour or
    political belieef. You are here to present your opinion and not to convince other's about what do your belief
    personaly. During the conversation process please don't shout as it is considered very vulgar. You will learn
    from your mistake so don't worry and prepare well for the future.

    Bye,



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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    hi dear guest!!!
    actually he was against the rules of group discussion.
    group discussion is not a fight .it is just like a discussion where you have to put your views and ideas.
    also there are invigilator who deduct the marks of these type of candidates.
    in that situation,you should react with very much calm and in right way.
    by doing so,you can impress others.
    because actually they are in search of patience and calm.
    they search that how much temper you can bear.
    so keep patience at that moment.
    all the best!!
    professional queries

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    Re: One of the group discussion candidates shouted at me in front of everybody

    To start with let me tell you,you could have dedicated a large slip-up the moment you could have attracked additional guy personally.Wherever you're going,as well as which ever you do,you don't have any directly to point out anything at all questionable next to someone's religion.If a person do this after that it will likely be ticket with standard right with each other,which in turn is not very acceptable by means of your constitution.So it's important to just remember to refrain on your own from generating individual strikes as well as discuss away anything at all that you simply sense that on these debatable issues.You must be very realistic prior to deciding to discuss away anything.Otherwise you will end up going through identical variety of behaviour causing as part of your rejection.My tip to be able to you will end up,never pass just about any leud touch upon any person regardless of whether you are in a job interview you aren't,make use of your realistic thoughts as well as discuss upwards that anybody might get pleasure from
    During team discussion posts you should stay clear of debate here is the key negative aspect which pupils occupy over the gd sessions.. The particular far wall will be don't ever affront any person and prepare disturbance over the discussion posts since this can nullify the beneficial points.. Gd seriously isn't debate is vistas and knowledge which pupils really should voice them with no hesitation.. The particular choice whom shouted is utterly angry as well as uninformed as to what gd is all about you should conduct themselves all by yourself be like choice voice a person frustration regarding powerful sensation which nullify additional persons words.. 100 blows with spats is usually demonstrated regarding words which penetrate straight into others hearts never by means of severe words. In cases like this hiring managers can see your system activities they are in the wrong but if you also raise your voice with them it will turn into deal with after that two of you will end up demonstrated the threshold who's no more the way to get job.
    View with team discussion posts due to enjoyment there exists possiblity any particular one could possibly raise your voice, but that is law them if perhaps he / she shouts because it demonstrates the possible lack of building up a tolerance with anyone as well as absence of way in which he / she deals with thing. You must not have reacted to the on your own reacted you could have shed the point there when your weak point also became available there. You will understand that you had commited an error at this point, nevertheless, you have mislaid the ability and so leave that as well as get over it pertaining to additional interviews. One thing fully benefited from that dialogue is you need to understand the best way to control yourself. Class discussion posts seriously isn't in relation to exhibiting the electricity with speech but the power of pondering as well as common sense driving whatever you say. Thus the very next time anytime you've got a GD be calm and discuss hopelessly, as well as once you discuss you'll want fat with logics as well as datas driving it. It's not necessary to near others lips by means of screaming but it's important to near them by your reason ability.

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