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    Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues , who is bossís favourite employee, is always at loggerheads with me due to some reason or the other. Thus I have never been able to maintain good relations with him. As a result my boss also doesnít like me that much. What to do in such a situation?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Hello,

    You don't have to make friendship with that person. Just do your
    work in a professional manner and evrything will be fine. You just
    can not change your office colleague and have to know that. You
    need to adjust your behaviour according to the situation. If you
    work hard with precision then there is nothing can stop you.

    Bye,

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues , who is bossís favourite employee, is always at loggerheads with me due to some reason or the other. Thus I have never been able to maintain good relations with him. As a result my boss also doesnít like me that much. What to do in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    By nature each & every person is different form other.Some people believes & likes in flattering superiors.Others believe in knowledge & working well.The person who is keen in flattering are liked by almost all the superiors.So you have the same situations.

    Now you have two ways.Firstly not bother for the situation.Believe in your good work & have minimum good relation with your boss.Secondly,if you are so afraid,then see that there should be loggerhead with the colleague who is your boss's favourite.Just start not opposing his words & actions.Appreciate him even for wrong things,because as per the demand of nature a person wants support for their words,behaviour & actions.You may observe a drastic change in his attitude towards you.

    Choose any of the ways /options mentioned above.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Hi,

    This issue is very common in the private sector...Don't be nurvous....Do your work passionately with whole heart....

    Never step out due to fear in mind for those situations.....

    The suggession will be to focus on the following:

    [1] Try to convience the employee, your boss like by giving proper attention.....
    [2] Spend more time with him... for example ... try to hear his advice....
    [3] Be intaractive with your bosses and try to impress by providing best work, timely work etc....
    [4] Get suggession from them....

    All of the above does not mean to lean before them... but to overcome your frusted situation... Be positive on your attitude... Don't allow some one to overcome you...

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. One of my colleagues , who is bossís favourite employee, is always at loggerheads with me due to some reason or the other. Thus I have never been able to maintain good relations with him. As a result my boss also doesnít like me that much. What to do in such a situation?

    Hello Aspirant,

    Congratulations for being an employee in a pvt.company.You may have to come across many types of people during service period & in general life.Individuals differ in nature from each other,human being being a social animal,we have to be among all sorts of people.

    Some people like to flatters senior & powerful man while others believe in their work & labour.The second class of people too have relationship with the human beings,but instead of flattering powerful man,they treat more or less equal to all.

    You are required not to worry much for the said relationship with your colleague who is favourite to your boss,but believe in your fulfilling the official responsibilities.Also see that you should not have un-necessary loggerheads with the said colleagues as you know he can spoil your boss's ear against you for himself.It is nothing wrong to give verbal support to such type of persons.


    Good luck.

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Re: Not having good relations which boss's favorite employee

    Hi friend,

    I think this is the bad thing.
    Just do your work in a professional manner and everything will be fine.
    You just can not change your office colleague and have to know that.
    You need to adjust your behavior according to the situation.
    If you work hard with precision then there is nothing can stop you.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST............

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    dear friend

    dont worry about this. the only
    thing you can do in such a situation
    is that you have to work hard and
    have to perform every task given
    by boss. work in a professional way.
    dont do silly mistakes while working.
    dont argue with your boss. always
    enjoy every moment.

    hope this will help you

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    hii friend many time we have to face these types of problem in our job profile life in which . what you have to do is that if your boss think that there is a any type of relation is created in your life with her then youíll just clearly to the boss that sir I am just a normal employee I am here not for making any type of relation . Only for the job purpose we are just a good. So doesnít mean that there is a any type of relation is created between us. Just clarify the whole thing with your boss.
    Hope you like my suggestion.

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    Re: Not having good relations with bossís favourite employee

    Hiii friend as you said that you not having good relation with bossís favorite employee. It is not a big problem this type of problems are always come in private sector what you have to do is that make a good relation with that person who is best friend of your bossís favorite employee then finally if you successfully in making good relation with that person then finally your problem is solved


    Thank you hopes you like my suggestionÖÖÖÖ



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