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    Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    I am working as a Senior employee in a multinational company in its HR department. The new batch of freshers had come and I am noticing that they do not give me enough respect and value to me. What should I do to gain respect from them?

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Hi, Respect can be only gained by ones deeds, it can never be commanded or demanded. You need not worry so much and give so much importance to gaining respect from your junior colleagues. Rather, be genuine, friendly and professional with your colleagues and whenever they need any sort of help, try helping them genuinely. Also, maintain your dignity and do not show that you are desperate to get respect from your colleagues. Thanks.

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    See one thing you must always keep in mind don't aspect respect from any one, because you cannot force any one to respect you. It is natural that as a senior you want respect from your juniors, but it doesn't means that they think in the same way and repect you. Also now a days due to immense competition most of people have become more selfish and respect only those from whom they need some benefits or want help in there work. If they find that you can be helpful they will automatically respect you.Due to this sort of competition and opportunities to flourish for every one, people don't look others as seniors or juniors but as competitiors. So it would be much better for you to concentrate on your career and work hard so that you can also create opportunities for yourself. Once you are a successful in getting fast career growth not only your juniors every one else will respect you.

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Hello friend
    it’s depend on your fresh employees because we never able to by respect the respect we have to earn and if your fresh batch not respect than talk to all of them in a polite way that please maintain then decorum of our office and also show some respect to your all senior after all they are the senior officers of your office and they have a more knowledge then you. So please it’s my request to you respect your serious including me also.
    Thanking you hopes you like my suggestion...

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Experiencing a tough time interacting together with your staff, you want to understand that respect isn't one thing that mechanically comes with the position, however it should be earned . this can be miscalculation that a lot of new managers or bosses create as they suppose that simply being within the position of supervisor is enough to garner the eye and respect of subordinates.

    While you want to perpetually, basically, shield your final position as a decision-maker, you must have interaction your staff the maximum amount as potential. this could typically be a delicate enterprise as you neither wish to seem to be too dominant nor too submissive, however the trail to respect lies within the middle.

    Always show that you simply ar competent, perceive your role and have an honest grasp of the business fundamentals. there's nothing worse than a ship adrift confused and before you'll get the respect of your staff you want to be able to counter their fears and show them that you simply ar clearly up to the mark of the business destiny.

    You must be able to “walk the walk” additionally as “talk the talk” and will establish yourself because the model inside the organization. Stand by your convictions and believe what you say.

    Never try to bluff your manner through any scenario. If you actually don't apprehend, admit thereto and move to future step, that is to do and notice thuslution an answer to the problem and to teach yourself fitly to try to to so. you'll be able to gain lots of respect by participating your staff to contribute their data and potential solutions to true. This goes an extended thanks to gather respect.
    Your goals and invite contributions to work out their goals. If you'll be able to establish that success may be a joint initiative between all of you which every worker has his or her vital half to play, then you'll be able to have interaction their support for your overall objectives.

    If issues arise and choices ought to be created, perceive that there’s a right manner and a wrong thanks to try this. it's typically higher to counsel instead of to dictate, as this helps to involve the worker and will wreak a additional avid approach, as opposition a mandate. This doesn't mean that you simply ought to be “a pushover,” and should be ready to create a firm call if detraction, for one reason or another, wouldn't be within the best interests of the business as an entire.

    In short, perpetually be approachable, reasonable, inclusive, appreciative however firm. you'll notice that this approach is much additional seemingly to realize employees’ respect and cause a no-hit and reciprocally satisfying relationship.

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Hello,

    There is a difference between Command respect and Demand respct. You should work in such a way that you
    will command respect and not demand respect. You are a senior professional and know very well the environment
    better than those inexperienced freshers. You have to learn to ignore them. Just concentrate on your job and duty.
    You don't have to thonk too much about them as it can hamper your work at office. With little practice you can adjust
    the present situation without any problem.

    Bye,


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    Dear sir

    It seems they have not properly come up from correct brought up. They have just finished their college studies and entered the jobs field and they normally feels in mind that they are still students in the colleges and doesn't have proper knowledge about the job culture.For this type of candidates let them call to the HR department first and clear verbal instructions to be given about the company and their attitude and behavior to be maintained in the company. Let them also be cleared the systems of the company which should be followed daily.If verbal instructions have not worked then through counseling we can make them into right way.Otherwise you may bring this matter to the HR in charge and Hr manager may arrange coordination meeting with them and warning to be given to behave themselves properly. Regards

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    sir,
    You are a senior member in the company.so you can expect some respect from the juniors.but they should give you respect you should not bother or ask them to respect you.As they are juniors they will get so many doubts while doing their job.
    so help them and explain them in a way that they can understand it and get respect from the seniors . Don't be much serious with them as they are not respecting you now.

    all the best

    thank you

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    Find the first thing you must remember tend not to facet esteem from the one particular, mainly because you can't power any kind of that you esteem you. It is pure in which to be a senior you desire esteem from your juniors, but it won't means that they believe just as in addition to respect you. As well today caused by great levels of competition almost all of people today have become a lot more selfish in addition to esteem solely those via which these people might need some rewards and also need help in there work. If they learn that you can be useful they'll automatically esteem you.Due for you to this levels of competition in addition to chances to thrive intended for everybody, individuals don't appearance other individuals since golden-agers and also juniors but since competitiors. So it would be a lot more wholesome to concentrate on your work in addition to work hard so as to furthermore produce programs intended for yourself. When you might be a effective when you get fast occupation growth not simply your own juniors everybody altogether different may esteem you.
    Encountering your difficult time communicating together with your team, you would like to recognize that esteem just isn't the first thing in which robotically has the situation, having said that it needs to be gained.this is often miscalculation that many brand-new professionals and also bosses produce as they quite simply imagine that simply remaining within just the position associated with director is sufficient win the interest in addition to esteem associated with subordinates.

    Whilst you would like to perpetually, fundamentally, shield a last situation to be a decision-maker, you need conversation your own team the ideal amount of money since potential. this will normally often be a delicate organization since you neither of them want to seem to be as well prominent not as well submissive, nevertheless the piste for you to esteem lies inside the middle.

    Continually display that you choose to ar experienced, see your own part and possess a responsible learn with the business enterprise fundamentals. absolutely nothing is worse in comparison with a vessel adrift perplexed in addition to ahead of you'll receive this esteem within your team you desire to be able to counter their anxieties in addition to demonstrate to them that you choose to are obviously as much as the objective with the business enterprise destiny.

    You will need to be capable to “go walking this walk” furthermore since “chat this talk” and can establish yourself because unit inside the organization. Uphold your own convictions in addition to believe that what you say.

    By no means aim to stone cold bluff your own manner by way of any kind of scenario. When you undoubtedly tend not to apprehend, declare thereto in addition to relocate to foreseeable future measure, that is certainly to undertake in addition to notice solution on the dilemma in addition to to instruct by yourself fitly to for you to so. you may get numerous esteem by way of partaking your own team for you to make contributions their information in addition to potential solutions to true. This goes a longer on account of collect respect.
    The desired goals and enable advantages to work out their goals. When you may identify in which achievements is often a articulation gumption involving everybody which each and every member of staff has their important one half to try out, and then you may get conversation their help intended for your overall objectives.

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Hi friend,

    I think it's depend on your fresh employees.
    Because we never able to by respect the respect we have to earn
    If your fresh batch not respect than talk to all of them in a polite way that please maintain
    Then decorum of our office and also show some respect to your all senior after all they are the senior officers of your office
    They have a more knowledge then you.
    So please it’s my request to you respect your serious including me also.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best..............

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    Hi Well this is a new batch and those people must have recently moved out of their cool college life. Dont panic please..These guys may take some time to absorbe the usual rules and regualtions of the corporate world and in this dimension you could be the best to get this in them. Just be cal but not quite anyways! Be strict as well..never get involved in any kind of gossips or enjoyment among those juniors as if you may do it any time then they may undereastimate your position and control. Alot everybody some work with the declared deadline and announce it very clear that the work must be done by that time else a strict action would be taken. Later find accuracy in their work and whereevr they lack just guide them fully and try fetch them with you experience and power to work. All this will ultimately clear your postion in their vision and the very thing that what respect you deserve being the boss! So just keep doing your work and take care of the discipline and later everything would be fine. Thank you

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working as a Senior employee in a multinational company in its HR department. The new batch of freshers had come and I am noticing that they do not give me enough respect and value to me. What should I do to gain respect from them?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is fact that the respect can not be demanded from any one.You have to create an environment in which you get the respect from all.In this connection,you have to notice your behaviour.If you are having principle of helping others,you may get more & more respect.Also you should ask directly the concerned fresher for his behaviour for which you are heart.You should ask explanation from the concerned fresher in order to learn some professional lesson which is required by almost all the employees at beginning.In fact the fresher is full of emotion & happiness at the beginning since they just join the career on their merit.Later on when they face problems in their life as to not getting leave in time,not getting enough money,they realize to great extent & come to the real point.

    It is also true that no one respects others unless one has some sort of fear from the concerned one.The individual respect others in view of getting help & in order to perform one duty.So you must be strong in writing regarding discipline,performing your duty in time,helping others in genuine case & punishing others at their fault.People should realize your power in order to get you respect from them.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    You donot need to worry about this.Giving respect to anybody is not forcable thing.One can give respect if they think that they should give them.There are some egoful people who doesn't give respect even their parents.Respect is the inner thing which is not forcable to anyone.If they behaves to you rudely than you can take some action towards them but for respect you can not do anything to them.Dear friend you can punctual and honest towards your work.You can help and motivate to your juniors for their work.You can encourage them for increasing their working capacity.This can be automatically made respect for you.

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    Sometimes as a senior employee of an company feels bad and frustrated if juniors don't respect seniors but you should understand respecting elders should be an ideal character that should be shown by an juniors..you cannot inculcate manners in people who don't believe in obeying elders i think this shows how obedient they are .. It would be our foolishness if we ask them to respect us.. You should command respect respect from them not ask for.. I think they were brought up in this culture of disrespect or they were brought by parents with over freedom and liberty and over individualism.. These are the reasons why some people don't really respect elders.. But my suggestion is to you that forget about your juniors don't think about their behavior towards you always be in position that company gives you respect like wise you should also be with same attitude with the company.. When you become important for company no one will dare to face you remind that situation.. Its not about others be fearing to you but its the command that you show up and manage the company with your work. Its important that in office you should be reserved and you should never mingle with juniors much because this behavior of your will make you vulnerable to comments from your juniors.. Generally i came across many people honestly who throw tantrums and bad comments on back of seniors or managers but they don't have the guts to face them you cannot change some people's behavior and also their nature it comes by birth..

    You should never expect any manners these days from your juniors there is also one major influence on them one is over television movie roles when you all see they feel that disrespecting seniors juniors will try to prove a point that they don't anyone 's help and think they are superior to others this self feeling will actually damage them in their future.. I don't say every junior is the same but there are some good obedient people that you need to find out.. Generally as a senior you have much more work experience ultimately juniors need to teach them or help them in the work they do.. Then comes the time where you need to show them what you are and what is the importance of seniors at work and how their experience will actually shape up their career.. You should not try to take revenge on disrespect they show to you what it matters is that you teach them their lesson.. Seriously juniors will miss out the opportunity of being social with seniors ....

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    hello guest...
    actually respect is such a thing that you can't buy or take it forcefully.
    if you are ideal or a good person then you will surely get respect from others.
    one more thing actually i am not getting the actual reason of your disrespect.
    so,if there is any fault in the juniors then you should let them go as they are going and you should go in your way.
    one day they will find that you are right and they will pay respect.
    but if you force them for respect or punish them for it or take action for it then it will reflect bad impression of yours towards them.
    so,patiently try to sustain with the situation.
    thank you !!!

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Hi Friend,
    Don't Worry,

    It is Depend on the New Commerce in Company i.e New Employees.
    The Time take to get Respect with Them you need to Maintain Good Relation ship with Them Jovial as Well As Command them You can Easily Respect from them
    Attract them with the New thing they will automatically Gives Respect to you.

    Thank you.,

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    Re: Not getting enough respect from the juniors

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working as a Senior employee in a multinational company in its HR department. The new batch of freshers had come and I am noticing that they do not give me enough respect and value to me. What should I do to gain respect from them?
    Hi, Respect can be only gained by ones deeds, it can never be commanded or demanded. You need not worry so much and give so much importance to gaining respect from your junior colleagues. Rather, be genuine, friendly and professional with your colleagues and whenever they need any sort of help, try helping them genuinely. Also, maintain your dignity and do not show that you are desperate to get respect from your colleagues. Thanks.

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