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    Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    I am working in a software company. Our boss is a very nice person and always helps his employees. Many of my colleagues have been behaving rudely with me for the past few days. But I am not able to gather the courage to complain against them to my boss. What should be done in such a case?

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    Hi,

    Your boss is a good person so he will help.You must immediately complain about the colleagues who are behaving rudely with with you.You must have good and friendly atmosphere in your office so that you can work efficiently.If they behave rudely with you then they are doing wrong. Every one should be respected and should behave politely with other.

    Explain your boss why they are behaving rudely with you.If you do not know the reason then also tell your boss in which manner and how they lower down your self respect.Tell him that you do not like the way they behave with you.If they dislike you then they must not talk to you at all or even look at you.

    This will surely help.There is nothing wrong in complaining about something when you right and suffering.So be fearless and act wisely.Do not worry about anything and just go to your boss.

    And if those colleagues are behaving rudely then you must just ignore them.You just do your work and do not call them if you need help then find some other colleague who are good towards you.

    In life you will come across such people many times.So you must be bold enough to handle such people.If need be complain about them without any hesitation.It is not wrong to complain about someone who is not good to you in office.

    You should learn the ways of life as you pass through it.
    All the best

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    hello sir
    it's a very serious problem because due to that behaviour of you colleagues on you will disturbed you to from your job. so my suggestion is to you that talk to your colleagues in that way that please talk to me in a good manner and if they will be change they behaviour against you that it will OK otherwise file a complaint application against to your colleagues and send it to your boss and said that sir due to this types of behaviour against me i am unable to concentrate on my work.
    thanking you

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    Hi Dear,

    Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength. So, I would suggest you not to take such behaviour of your colleagues too seriously rather avoid such people who are in the habit of making such irrational and insensitive remarks. In fact, do not take matters which can be handled by you to your boss. Only, when those colleagues of yours cross the limits and trouble you too a great extent, then take this matter to your manager. So, first try avoiding their jibes, then try avoiding their company, then talk to them frankly and lastly, take the matter to your manager. But, I am sure, you would yourself be able to handle this situation overcome this problem of yours in no time.

    Thanks,
    Ritz


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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    Hi friend,

    >>>This cannot be done in work place and you must report about it

    >>>If you are not willing to face you boss then indirectly convey your message to him

    >>>Take the help of SMS service or send E-mail to him

    >>>This is the best way to report

    >>>Otherwise call your boss your the dinner then discuss about the situation

    >>>Hope so this information helps you

    Thank You

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    hey
    sir , its the nature of many peoples. now a days, many people feel jealous by the success of others and they start behaving rude in order cause him harm mentally. you should stay cam and ignor them. if there behavior is rude it show there disturbed state and you should help them, by ignoring them . if you would make complaint of them is your not feel there behavior is justice-able.

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    Your employer is an excellent man or woman consequently he will help.You need to promptly criticize with regards to the peers who will be behaving rudely having with you.You must have excellent in addition to helpful environment around your work to be able to perform efficiently.If they conduct themselves rudely having afterward you they are doing wrong. Every person really should be highly regarded and will conduct themselves with good grace having other.
    Reveal your supervisor precisely why they may be behaving rudely having you.If a person have no idea the reason why in that case furthermore educate your supervisor wherein manner and exactly how they lower down all by yourself respect.Tell them which you don't such as where did they conduct themselves having you.If they dislike afterward you they cannot converse to you on all or perhaps have a look at you.
    There is absolutely nothing wrong around moaning with regards to a little something whenever you proper in addition to suffering.So often be fearless in addition to react wisely.Do never be worried about whatever and simply go to your boss.
    And if people peers are generally behaving rudely then you need to just simply neglect them.You do work and don't give them a call if you want aid then look for several other associate that are great in the direction of you.
    In everyday life you will come across they quite a few times.So it's essential to often be vivid more than enough to manage like people.If you want to criticize about them without hesitation.It seriously isn't wrong so that you can criticize with regards to a person who is not excellent to you around office.
    Disrespect may be the poor guy's replica connected with strength. And so, Provides you with take a look at to take like habits of the peers way too really somewhat stay away from like people who find themselves in the practice of doing like nonrational in addition to insensitive remarks. The truth is, don't take makes a difference that may be addressed on your part on your boss. Simply, when people peers connected with your own cross a restricts in addition to trouble you too any degree, in that case take the following matter on your manager. And so, try staying away from his or her jibes, in that case look at staying away from his or her business, in that case converse for them honestly and finally, take the situation on your manager. Although, More than likely, you should oneself often be capable of handling it prevail over this condition connected with your own around no time.

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    Well,i would suggest you to gather some courage and talk to your colleagues first and try to resolve the matter.If things don't go well then you have no options but to talk to your boss.Your boss being a good person as you said would definitely help you.My advice to you would be that never let them feel that you don't have courage to talk to your boss because that would make you an underdog and they would continue acting rude.Therefore have faith and confidence and talk to them first and if things don't go well never hesitate to talk to your boss,its his responsibility to solve your issues at your workplace.Best of luck !!

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    Re: Not being able to tall my boss regarding the rude behavior of my colleagues

    Dear friend,

    This cannot be done in work place and you must report about it
    If you are not willing to face you boss then indirectly convey your message to him
    Take the help of SMS service or send E-mail to him
    This is the best way to reportOtherwise call your boss your the dinner then discuss about the situation.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best..............

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    Re: Not being able to tell my boss regarding the rude behaviour of my colleagues

    In office and work places negativity and people with rude behavior exits in this is a world filled with jealous rivalry rudeness and also making criticism will prevail .. you cannot ignore or control them but to deal with courage and brave nature.. if you cannot take criticism then you are at receiving end all in admist of making fun of yourself its you to deal with rudeness expecting others to help you in dealing with rude people will prove that your weak to comments and rude people.. there are some stupid arrogant people within the office they are found with irrational and vulgar behavior .. you should ignore them and concentrate on your work be independent and mature you have a good boss use and take his guidance if you find work related problems with in your professional life career.. be mature and be strong and never complain to your boss regarding the issue of rudeness that you get from other employees.. by doing this he might find to be weak and less strong in dealing with problems and troubles.. even in risk management studies experts find that troubles office politics and dealing rude employees ,clients is a deciding factor to an employee in making him strong enough to achieve a target he should have the courage in taking decisions and doing a risk in making some tough decisions.. all these rudeness and negative resistance will make you strong mentally this will make you a steel in character.. when ever any person abuses you feel like they are not at you dont think about them dont even react to their comments.. the plus thing about you should be a minus to their behavior.. do you know the fact if you dont react to abuse or rudeness of others then the other person will loose his mental balance his health will deteriorated will all the abuse he gives he will frustrated with angry and thus he will lose control over him so if you do react on him then he only want to make your performance low and want to damage your reputation he will make you victim of fight that you will have after he being so rude to you so its important that you make people notice the rude employee create a propaganda and an impression on them by staying silent and once your co-workers notice their stupid rudeness then its high time you should write an official letter to your boss regarding the issue and complete details with an support should be furnished in the letter..

    Importance of verbal Warning to be issued to colleagues who have been rude to you in case there is no problem from your side should be a must before you issue a complaint letter.. be confident and courage at moment of crisis is what you should have in you always .. the importance of issuing a verbal warning to rude employees is that they cannot behave against the spirit of friendly nature among the employees this is a must to take the drawbacks in you accept if your behavior is bad and if they do give out some reason be the one to correct yourself and also give your view on how badly they are behaving with you in a arrogant manner so its not about fighting it out in the boos room its about the face to face interview in dealing with the employee who are irrational at others.. this is really a common problem in the office some tend to suffer from crisis of man management and office politics so its not only you its a universal problem of bullying nature of irresponsible employees. So after your personal face to face talk make a tough statement to mend their ways then only you carry forward the letter to your boss.

    A set of rude employees do disrupt your work productivity your approach of work and sometimes you should also find bad ways to fabricate them with the same behavior its not about being good each and every time and I am no way interested in saying you that to follow satyagraha movement of being silent every time even lord Krishna didn't want war but finally circumstances made him to support Arjuna to follow the path of dharma and fight war.. so you need to gather support before you lodge an official complainant have some people behind you only after doing as said above in my first course of action by making your colleagues know how rude they are and expose their ruthless behavior..

    Write a letter without the knowledge of that ruthless people and document their behavior like what the issue is all about and you need to take signatures of people witnessed your troubles and facing bad behavior from that set of employee who have been rude to you generally.. you should review the company disciplinary rules like if employee is found violating the rules and making spirit among the employee a hit and damaging the environment of workmanship.. so you can put an strong case on them..all the best

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