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    Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    I am working as an employee in a small private firm in Jaipur. My salary is very less and the demands of my family members are very exorbitant. So daily there are fights in our home in regards to this matter and I am always made the culprit. I really canít take this anymore. Please suggest me some ways to get out of this situation.

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Hi aspirant

    Your family members should rather help you in overcoming these bad times in their lives than blaming you and fighting with you for the same. You should have a peaceful talk with them and sort this matter out to end these constant fights among you. Tell them politely that you are doing your best for your family and trying to satisfy all their needs. If inspite of your best and honest efforts, their demands are not being fulfilled then you are really sorry but you can't do anything about it. You will definitely try to find a better job for you but that will take time. In the meanwhile they should also help you in earning and should lend you their support rather than fighting with you.

    I hope your family members will understand your point and thus keep their exorbitant demands under check. And friend you also keep looking for a new job which is better paying than this. Search all the newspapers and also search the internet on sites like naukri.com, monster.com. I am sure with a little more effort you will definitely find a job better than your present one.Then hopefully your family members will also be satisfied with you.

    Good luck friend. Dont be discouarged by such incidents and keep the midnight oil burning. Thanks

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Hi friend,

    Its bad to hear that you are not understood by your family members.


    First of all, all you need to do is gather the family for a dinner and talk about this issue.

    Explain them the problems that you are facing due to the low salary too.

    Explain them that you are trying hard to work it out.

    Tell them that you care for them and would do anything for them.

    Ask them to be in your position and think of it.

    If you explain them in a proper way then i think they will definitely understand you as they are your family.

    HOpe everything goes fine.

    Search for some part-time job my friend, or else go for some other job.

    Search for an alternative.

    Talk to your higher authority about your problem that you are facing at home.

    Tell them that you will definitely work hard to help the company grow, and in every aspect there will be the contribution from your side.

    Ask them to look in to your records and then decide your salary.

    Talk my friend by explaining only you can be able to solve your problem.

    HOpe i have helped you in getting relevant information.

    All the best

    Thanking you...

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Hello, Your family members are insensible,that is why they are creating pressure in one way to increase the supply of money.Since your salary is not much I cannot suggest you to shift to some other place.So you have to stay in your home and tolerate the regular fights.Make it clear to them that you simply cannot go beyond your limit to fulfil their exorbitant demand.And if they continue with their quarell you will simply restrain yourself from giving them a single penny and they can do what ever they like.I feel they need a good blow! meanwhile you can do some online data entry jobs,this will fetch you some extra money.

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working as an employee in a small private firm in Jaipur. My salary is very less and the demands of my family members are very exorbitant. So daily there are fights in our home in regards to this matter and I am always made the culprit. I really canít take this anymore. Please suggest me some ways to get out of this situation.
    Dear Aspirant,

    Really it is very difficult to see your position.You can convince your family members with your income & ask your family members to go as per income.Also you can ask others to work for income.If they agree,then it is all right otherwise you can try for another possible job to get more pay.

    See the possibilties & do accordingly.Take care of your health & be relaxed.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok..

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Dear aspirant,
    you are in such a bad situation i think you have to realizing your family that you are really not earning good money.make some drama or if possible add some one who can understand your query so both you can realize your family how tough to earn money now a days.i hope god will help you early.

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Dear friend,

    That is sad that instead of supporting you, you family is blaming you and making you the culprit. I would suggest you to talk to your family and ask them to understand your situation and tell them to adjust within the salary. If the money is properly managed and and demands of the family are prioritized, then this problem can be easily solved ensuring that all are supportive in that situation.

    If possible please ask you family members to join some part time job, that will help to add source of income to the family. side wise start looking for some better job that may get you some sal hike .

    In case all these things dont work out, I would suggest you to move out of your family for some time and let others understand your value.

    thanks

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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    Your household customers ought to alternatively assist you in overcoming most of these terrible times for their lives than blaming you and battling along for your same. You have to have the tranquil consult these folks as well as variety this specific make any difference outside to get rid of most of these constant quarrels between you. Actually tell them without sounding rude that you're performing your best to get all your family and trying in order to reach all their needs. If despite your best as well as trustworthy endeavors, their requirements usually are not attained well then, your really i am sorry however you simply can't a single thing in relation to it. You'll test to identify a improved work for anyone however that will will need time. In the in the mean time they must also assist you in gaining and should loan anyone his or her support rather than battling by using you.

    Hopefully all your family customers will certainly realize your current factor and therefore keep his or her extravagant demands less than check. And also buddy in addition, you keep trying to find a new position which in turn is best spending than this. Lookup many of the magazines and also investigation the net in web-sites just like naukri.com, monster.com. Most likely by using somewhat more work you will definitely come across a career much better than your current one.Then with any luck , all your family customers can even accept you.
    The relatives are insensible,that's why these people are creating stress with one fashion to raise the production associated with money.Since your current salary is almost no I am unable to recommend you to change so that you can several other place.So you might have to stay in your own home as well as endure the totally normal fights.Make that crystal clear to them that you just cannot go above your current minimize so that you can carry out his or her extravagant demand.And when they continue his or her quarell anyone will undoubtedly restrict yourself through offering them a single penny and so they are able to do what ever these people like.I experience these people need a beneficial strike! in the mean time that can be done many on line info admittance job opportunities,this can fetch anyone additional money.
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    Re: Not able to fulfill the demands of my family members due to inadequate salary

    good morning friend
    friend its good that your sharing your problem with us .friend you should talk to your family about the situation and tell them that your are trying hard need some time to overcome this financial problems. friend you should do some part time job along with your job and also motivate your family member to start some part time work or some part time business which also add some additional income , which help you in solving this problem.
    works like retail store, teaching tuition etc.
    you should convince your family to do some restriction in expenditure also.
    friend you should also try in other company , in which more salary is given to employe .
    ALL THE BEST
    ''GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES''

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