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    Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    I am in some personal problem due to which I am unable to concentrate in office and my work. My Boss too noticed this but instead of understanding he gave me warning to be proper in work no matter what is my mental condition. Is this kind of behaviour bearable?

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    number of persons have an number of problems this is not an one important problem in your personal problems could not be considered in your office because your work only finished for you only this problem not be affect you only it can be affect your whole concern so you concentrate your work without tension

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Hello friend,

    You are in some problem not related to office and this is effecting your work. Don't worry and you don't have to be bogged down by the scolding from your boss. His telling you about it is also right at its place. It is his duty. You sort the problem out with the concerned person. As moving around with it at the back of your mind or forgetting it temporarily is no solution. Your efficiency will still be effected.
    Do some introspection and find a way out of this mess for good. It is good not only for your work but also for you, your relations with people around you. Such problems come and go. So don't get stuck up with. Instead, get rid of it by being practical and start afresh at your workplace. This will fetch you a good weightage in the eyes of your boss.

    Be positive and take it in the right stride.

    All the best

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    Dear,the behaviour of your boss is right on his behalf.He is bind to the terms and condition of the company. If he will show sympathy towards you and ask you to take your time then who is going to complete the target of the company.He can give advice to you,to solve your problem but he can't deny his duties. As the problems are of your own then please try to solve as soon as possible so as not to affect your work. Don't blame you boss for his behaviour, ask him for his help.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    This is a problem faced by many employees in organisations.

    As they just think that you are working for them for which you are paid accordingly.

    So it is of no worth to expect any thing else from them.

    Any where you will go you will find similar situation and if you not perform there are many others who can replace you.

    So if it is possible for you the best thing is that you don't think of your problems in the office and keep it to yourself.

    As even if you will think of it much you won't be able to do any thing as you are in the office.

    Keep in mind that not performing well will add to your problems and thus you will have to bear much stress.

    So it would be most appropriate for you to keep your personal and professional life's separate.

    If still you think that you are not able to perform due to huge stress than it would be much better for you to take some days leave and first try to device a

    solution of your problem.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    dear friend

    every human being having problems
    they have a lot problems, so if a problem is there in one section then
    you cant effect the other section because of the problem
    in professional level sometimes management dont want any excuse
    they just need the work to be done at any cost
    they dont bother that you have any personal problem or not
    so let it not to affect your professional life

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    Well, in corporate world, personal tension is not considered. Everyone in their personal life have some tension and the effect of which should not be seen in the quality of work. The boss is right here and he has just performed his duty because he has the responsibility to manage the work. You need to keep your personal issues at home, it will be helpful for your work. You can do the meditation, yoga to overcome this problem. You can listen the music regularly to divert your mind from personal tensions.

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    Look you are wrong here because your work place is where you have only professional issues and professional work to be conducted but they don't refer you by any chance with the personal issues.
    And you should not mind the words of your boss instead try day and night to rectify your problems . A successful person is the one who skilfullydistinguishes both the personal as well as the prfessional life and thats what you have to do.

    Do meditation and consult some doctor if required and find the best possible way to get over with this depression.
    take care

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    Hi
    Everybody has their own personal problems. Some are negligible and some are highlighted. But just keep thinking about them all the time won't provide you the solutions of your problem. Therefore, it is advisable that try to indulge yourself in your work so much that you don't even get any time to think about the problems that you have in your personal life. And talking about the professional life, your boss wants you to do your work and if you won't do it, then he won't be thinking much about it and he will suppress you to do your work. Hence you should try to divert your mind and focus on your work.
    Gud luck

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    One thing i want to say you personally even i had problems of much serious one's but i never took it to my heart and i used to always put a brave attitude and courage and unlimited power in me has brought me to a good position.. Regarding the warning given to you by your boss is concerned in this world if you tell your personal problems to others or if people has seen you suffering 95% people are happy that you have problems and they don't want to help you rest 5% don't care this was said by many great people during their experience of life.. Problems do come to us but if you succumb to your problems ultimately you will be loser in your life.. At work place you should take out personal tensions and worries out of your mind.. If your thoughts and mind is on thinking to find solution of the problem then definitely you will become winner.. Being worried will damage your motive of solving the problems.. When all doors close when your in problem some where there is door that always open to you in terms of divine intervention do prayer wherever you truly believe prayer has the power to fill your mind with positivity and patience belief in your self be cool at mind.. Don't think about the problem think about the solution for it this is what great people had ""yes you can attitude will make you win over all the problems"". Never try to let grief reach your heart never say that your not able to do anything you can do any think and you can beak all the fears...

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    You are in a few difficulty not necessarily associated with company plus that is results a person's work. Fear not plus you don't have to be bogged straight down from the scolding from a boss. Their indicating in relation to it is additionally correct at it is place. It's her duty. You type the issue available while using worried person. As moving around by it behind your thoughts or perhaps losing the item in the short term is not a solution. Your productivity it is still effected.
    Carry out some more self examination plus have the option with this chaos pertaining to good. It is always good not necessarily just for your work but in addition for an individual, a person's associations with individuals around you. These issues arrive plus go. Consequently tend not to find yourself in trouble way up with. As a substitute, eliminate the item because they are realistic and commence afresh in your workplace. This tends to fetch that you simply good weightage inside face of one's boss.
    Most people provides their unique individual problems. Some are negligible and a few are highlighted. However hold contemplating them constantly is not going to provide you with a solutions of one's problem. As a result, it is prudent this seek to indulge by yourself as part of your function a lot that you do not possibly have any time for you to consider the issues that you've got as part of your individual life. Plus referring to a skilled lifetime, your coworkers needs you to definitely do your work plus if you is not going to undertake it, then he is not going to be thinking a lot concerning this and he will certainly hold back you to definitely do a person's work. Hence you need to change your thoughts plus concentrate on a person's work.
    One thing i want to point out an individual in person possibly i'd issues a vast amount of significant people's even so never had the item to be able to my personal center plus i did before constantly set some sort of heroic frame of mind plus valor plus limitless energy in me has taken me personally to your good position.. In connection with the notice presented to an individual through your leader is anxious these days in the event you know your personal issues to be able to other individuals or maybe if folks provides observed an individual hurting 95% consumers are delighted that you've got issues and they wouldn't like to assist you to sleep 5% tend not to caution i thought this was claimed by a lot of excellent folks throughout their experience of life.. Issues purchased to be able to united states nonetheless if you falter in your issues ultimately you will end up loss as part of your life.. At place of work you should sign up for individual tensions plus doubts through your mind.. If perhaps your notions plus system is about pondering to locate alternative in the difficulty next surely an individual can become winner.. Becoming worried will certainly deterioration a person's purpose regarding dealing with a problems.. If most opportunities shut if your with difficulty some place there exists door that frequently available to an individual in terms of heavenly treatment do prayer when you undoubtedly feel prayer gets the power to populate your thoughts by using positivity plus perseverance belief with oneself be trendy at mind.. Do not consider the difficulty consider the alternative for doing this it's this that excellent folks obtained ""yes you can easily frame of mind will make you win over most problems" ".Never ever test to permit suffering reach a person's center never point out that your particular not able to a single thing that can be done almost any assume and you'll beak all of the fears.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Everyone has to face tensions in life.And it is sure to create some effect on your job,definitely reduces your efficiency.But you will have to come over it.Mind you that smoking and drinking are not the ways.Try to concentrate on your job.Try to be professionally strong.Remember that it is a bad phase which will soon pass out.So don't worry.Try to interact with other people who can listen to you.Try to discuss your problems with them.All the best.

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    Hi Dear, Life is not a bed of roses and we have to face different challenges in the form of variety of problems in our personal and professional lives. Every one born in this world is suffering and fighting with some or the other challenge. However, A true winner is the one who does not get deterred with these challenges but rises up by fighting against all odds in his/her life with great courage and patience. Likewise, you also have to prove yourself as a true winner by facing these challenges in a very mature and bold manner. Moreover, never share your personal problem with professional colleagues at work place. Try handling your personal problems at home and remain a true professional at work place because my friend we are living in an era where there is immense pressure to succeed and people around us look for opportunities when they can let you down and they could get an opportunity to forge ahead. In addition, time flies, so even this period full of troubles will pass on. Just remember to maintain your focus on work when you are at work place and forget work at home and do not let any stone unturned to sort out your personal problems. May God bless you and give you the strength to overcome this difficult phase of your life. Thanks.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    hello.

    this is the competitive word,here there is no time to discuss about your personal problem to your boss.because he itself may have the so many problem in their life and being a boss in company here also they have so many problem.

    so no need to tension with yourself.concentrate your work in office after outside the office you can think about your personal problem.if you doing like this continuously you may loose your job also and then the pressure may increased you.

    avoid such things and make work confidently.

    all the best. thank you.

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    Hello.

    This is life and every one has personal problems. It does not mean that you will not work properly. Life is full of ups and downs but you must accept the situation and face it boldly. If you keep worry about the matter then you will be at loss.

    You should not think about personal matters in office. Just concentrate in your work. Do not let your personal life ruin your professional career. Your career is as important as your personal life. You must dedicate yourself to your work even if you are in tension. Do not try to hide or run from the problem just face it and think every thing will be alright again

    If you worry about the problem then it will not decrease. Yet it will create others problem like you got one in your office. The better way is to work properly in office and just let the personal problem be personal. Be strong to let others not know about your personal problem and excel in your work. That man is the courageous man. Be courageous.

    Your boss is right. He has no point to give you excuses for some personal problems. It is your problem and you have to deal with it. Your boss is helpless in this matter. And it his duty to bring your passion back to work otherwise you will suffer. You may not get appraisals or promotion. Your job can be at stake . If your boss understands and takes the employees personal problem and excuses them, then his business will down. This is now not bearable.

    Life is very short friend. So enjoy every moment and give your best to every one. Life will thank you.

    All the best

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am in some personal problem due to which I am unable to concentrate in office and my work. My Boss too noticed this but instead of understanding he gave me warning to be proper in work no matter what is my mental condition. Is this kind of behaviour bearable?
    Hello Aspirant,

    it is noticed that the individuality varies from person to person.Some boss is very kind & social apart from being a official head,where as some is very confined to the official duty.The boss who is kind & social is naturally good & likable by most of the persons.

    You need not think much of the behaviour of your boss,otherwise it would give you anther tension.You should concentrate to be free from your mental tension.You should find the cause of the tension & find the remedy of the cause of the problem so that you have full concentration on your official works & your boss may not be in a position to say any thing to you.

    Hope you will solve your problem & will be happy for office works.

    Good luck.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am in some personal problem due to which I am unable to concentrate in office and my work. My Boss too noticed this but instead of understanding he gave me warning to be proper in work no matter what is my mental condition. Is this kind of behaviour bearable?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Man has born to face problems in this world.Happiness & problems are there,but people get more troubles to face the problems,because it disturbs the normal life style of human beings.it makes the persons dependent upon others for which the concerned persons faces many troubles.

    When you are not free of personal problems,it is quite natural to feel disturbance to work which will definitely hamper your performance & boss may warn you to be proper in work,for which you should not mind the behaviour of your boss otherwise you will face another mental problem.You should try to solve the personal problem first which ultimately make you free to work well

    So see the nature of problem & its causes with solution.Also you should remember that the person has always personal problem,but it should be confined to outside the office.You should care the importance of office work & try to concentrate on it for your progress in career.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am in some personal problem due to which I am unable to concentrate in office and my work. My Boss too noticed this but instead of understanding he gave me warning to be proper in work no matter what is my mental condition. Is this kind of behaviour bearable?
    Dear,the behaviour of your boss is right on his behalf.He is bind to the terms and condition of the company. If he will show sympathy towards you and ask you to take your time then who is going to complete the target of the company.He can give advice to you,to solve your problem but he can't deny his duties. As the problems are of your own then please try to solve as soon as possible so as not to affect your work. Don't blame you boss for his behaviour, ask him for his help.

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    >> avoid tension about your problems
    >> don't think about personal problems during office hours
    >> problems are common for every one we should over come those
    >> don't make your self weak by thinking about our problems more
    >> think about the work we can get good results


    all the best
    thank you
    >>

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    Re: Not able to concentrate on work due to personal tensions

    Dear friend,

    There is no one in this world who is not going through any problem. What is important is to maintain a proper life balance. You mentioned that you are going through some personal issues and that will definitely effect your work but it should not be visible. Be professional and be practical. Your boss is also answerable to someone. If you are facing some problem, that does not put and responsibily on your boss to bear with it.

    I request you to keep your personal and professional life different and not to expect too much from your seniuors. TRy to solve your problem as soon as possible. Else discuss your case with your boss and take a small holiday from your work. This will give you time to introspect and find a better answer to all the problem you are in.

    all the best

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