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    None of my team members want to befriend me as I am in the bad books of my boss

    I am working in a software company. We are a team of 5 members working on a project. None of my team members speaks to me properly as I am in the bad books of my boss and thus they think that it will be bad for their reputation. I feel left out. How to come out of this situation?

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    chanchal Array
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    Re: None of my team members want to befriend me as I am in the bad books of my boss

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a software company. We are a team of 5 members working on a project. None of my team members speaks to me properly as I am in the bad books of my boss and thus they think that it will be bad for their reputation. I feel left out. How to come out of this situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    Your thinking is correct.Since you are not having good terms with your boss,your colleagues are preventing themselves to mingle with you.So it is difficult to be happy at your work place without having good terms with your boss.In this situation,you are required to be nearer to your boss.If you have committed any mistake with your boss,you may ask to apologize & support the direction of your boss.Don't try to ignore any words of your boss & don't criticise your boss before you.

    I mean you have to think how you can be in good book of your boss.If your boss is very bad in nature for you,you may have option to get yourself changed in another team or in another company.

    Good luck.

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    manojbadoniya Array
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    Re: None of my team members want to befriend me as I am in the bad books of my boss

    Dear this is critical tragedy but you should not worry about this because every problem has proper and right solution in the world and problem comes because problem wants to be solved itself that is why they occurs anytime for anyone and problem teaches you what is life and if you comes out of problem without loosing anything then you will learn how to keep yourself better in negative situations so first you should leave worrying about this matter and just think positive

    If no member wants to talk to you and do not talk to you well and if they think that this is the harm of their reputation then you should not worry because these types of people often found in the professional way but you should not think about their behavior with you because they shows their attitude to you and it happens in case of cast means if you belongs to any lower category as SC or ST then it may be or it may be because of being a candidate came from village but if both statements are not fact then there is any other issue behind this but this time everyone will help you in the company

    If you have been team up with those four other members then you should go to your boss and share your entire fact with them and tell everything about their behavior and your boss will definitely get a good solution for this problem and they will make them understand but you should demand to team up with any other team because they will not understand after the boss statement also so you should take yourself out of that team and request your boss to team up you with any other team and try to work better in the company because you may answer them with your work and do not try to say anything them because they are not able for your precious words that is why your work will be the right answer for them and when you will get incentives and promotion then they will understand

    All the best

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