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    No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    I am working in a private firm. A few days back I was one of the employees selected for increment. But recently I had a fight with one of my colleagues and due to that I was ticked off by manager . He told me that I would not be getting any increment now. I am very depressed right now. How to deal with this ?

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    velocity Array
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    Re: No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    Fight may be a common thing for you.

    But the company will not tolerate such thing among the employees of the organization.

    Because, what the management feels is,

    -It will decrease the productivity from the employees.
    -It will decrease the confidence levels of the employees.
    -It will reduce the smartness in the employees.

    So, there is nothing wrong with the manager who stopped increment.

    So, the only thing that you can do is to meet the manager personally and convince him that you will not repeat this thing again.

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    abbebo Array
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    Re: No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    Hi friend

    I do understand your situation and that how hard it is for you to handle such kind of agony. You should definitely do something in this regard and not let your increment slip away so easily from your hands.AS it is your fault , so you cannot blame someone else for it but ofcourse it does not mean that you should sit quietly and not do anything for it. So you should go and have a talk regarding this matter.

    Tell your manager that you are really sorry for what you have done and assure him that you won't ever repeat such a thing in future. You are really ashamed of yourself for indulging in a fight with your colleague and thus request him to give you another chance. You are sure that you won't disappoint him again. So you request him not to punish you by not giving you your increment. You assure him that if he gives you another chance you will not give him any chance of complaint against you and that he will never regret his decision. You hope he will accept your request.

    So friend hope for the best and hopefully your manager will help you out in this matter. Good luck and Thanks

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    kshitiswari Array
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    Re: No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    Dear,
    The fight has eaten up you increment.
    So in future always avoid fights directly or indirectly.
    When you feel or smell a fight just put effort to cool down and control your emotions in future.
    Do not be depressed.
    You may still have the chance of getting the increment if you admit your mistakes before the manager
    And yes do not forget to say sorry to the person with whom you fought.
    Deal relationships professionally in the office atmosphere.
    Remember it is not home, it is an office.
    So learn to control emotions.
    Bye take care.

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    Smile Re: No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. A few days back I was one of the employees selected for increment. But recently I had a fight with one of my colleagues and due to that I was ticked off by manager . He told me that I would not be getting any increment now. I am very depressed right now. How to deal with this ?
    Hi friends......................
    I just give some words for that it will help you a lot.
    your topic is
    " No increment due to fight between me and my colleague"
    I just only say something regarding this
    That is firstly as it is your falt you should meet to your manager personally and tell him the truth freely and farely he may also slap you but you have to obey this as you are an employee.
    As you are working in that company for few years your problem should hear.
    Then you have to tell out that as you are an employee this things never be happened in future and also work hard for this.
    Just this is from me i hope that the problem should be finished quickly.

    If you post any question you can post it at pramatha
    All the best for your future.
    Thank you.

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    yogesh Array
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    Re: No increment due to fight between me and my colleague

    hello dearit is very common things in offices that fight or mis understanding among the colleagues.You should maintain a touch behavior in the office by co operating with employees.You should attend your work carefully and touch to given target successive in time.An employee who regulate his/her activities only in working relatedofficial business or management.Fight born when any misunderstood comes under the way.try to eliminate all upset things from official environment.thanks

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