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    My wife forcing me to take up a transferable job

    I am searching for a new job. My previous job was non-transferable as I prefer such kind of jobs. But now my wife is forcing me to take up a job which is transferable as she is very fond of travelling and visiting different places. But I donít want to take up such a job. How to explain this to my wife?

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    luv Array
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    Re: My wife forcing me to take up a transferable job

    hello..

    First thing I want to say that, I do not know your wife or in other words you know your wife better than me, i should cut that better too, only you know your wife. So friend if you have any problem with transferable job , and your wife wants that kind of job , then this is going to be a big issue, jokes apart , you both know each other then whats the matter talk about this and settle this issue, one should understand others problem. Talk to her and try to make her understand your thinking , your problem or whatever you think about your job. She will understand it and then everything will be good.

    Have fun
    take care.

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    aman Array
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    Re: My wife forcing me to take up a transferable job

    This is really a complex situation, first of all its more a personal issue rather that a professional one.

    Try to first find a job for yourself either transferable or non transferable, because it must a bigger issue for you right now.

    Tell your wife that you are trying to first find a job which can be either transferable or not, as it is more important for you both.

    Other thing that you must remind her that it is not that easy to shift from one place to another every now and then.

    And there might be possibilities that your next place would not good and safer.

    Also in future if they would like to settle at one place than it can be difficult to do so, this will also effect education of your children due to changing of schools time to time.

    If she like travelling tell her that you both can go for outstation holidays at fix intervals as per your job comfort, as this will both refreshing for you and will complete her wish.

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