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    My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    I am working in a pharmaceutical company. Recently I received an appraisal from my manager for my performance . But according to my manager , my performace has gone down after that and today he insulted me in front of my colleagues for a mistake in my work. How should I deal with such a situation?

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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    Hi friend

    Even if your performance has gone down recently, but still your manager has no right to insult you in front of your colleagues and humiliate you publicly. You should certainly not take it lightly and make it a point to not let such a thing happen the next time. Now as you have said that you got an appraisal recently from your manager for your good work which means you certainly have the calibre. Recent decline in your performance may be due to lack of your concentration on your work due to some personal problem or other distractions. So the best thing you can do is to remove that thing which is becoming a hurdle in your success. Once you get rid of that problem then I am sure that your manager would have no reason to deal with you in such a manner.

    So friend instead of going to your manager's office and complaining against him it is best for you to let your work speak for you. If you work harder from now on and give your full dedication and effort to your work, then I am sure your manager will only appreciate you and not insult you like he did this time.

    So friend believe in yourself and your calibre and I am sure you have a very bright future ahead.

    Good luck and Thanks

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    Hi,

    This was bound to happen.
    If you'll make mistake,the manger has every right to scold you up so that you don't make such mistakes in the future.
    It's not that he has any issues with you.
    He even praised you when you did good work.
    Hence this is the way the manager works.
    If you perform,then you'll receive the appraisal and if you don't,then you get scolding from him.

    The only way by which you can get his appraisal is by performing well at the work that you are doing.
    Work hard.

    Bye

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    Hi.......,

    Be calm and quite now...
    You must recognize the mistake you did.
    You must not ignore this issue.
    If your boss has insulted you then find its reason
    He must not have a personal contrast with you.
    So be calm and quite and find the answers.
    Boss has a right to praise you and to punish you...

    He do just for your future benefit .......like scolding of parents to child

    Thanks

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    Hi Dear,

    To err is human
    . It's actually not acceptable to scold any professional in public. An intelligent manager is one who knows how to handle his team members without any force in a very effective manner.

    I can understand your situation really well but you would have to be very patient in this situation. Do not react or show any aversion towards your manager but be very normal towards him. But do not even forget this incident, be strong headed and have a strong will to prove yourself and show your worth. Try to be extraordinarily good in your work and boost up your performance so that you could rise un the eyes of your manager again and he could feel that you are not an individual to insulted in public but you deserve respect from him.

    Remember that our actions speak louder than our words and our hard work and commitment should get reflected in our work.

    Thanks.

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    Even if your agility possesses gone down lately, however the director doesn't have a directly to offend an individual facing the friends and humiliate an individual publicly. You must not necessarily accept it gently and make sure never to permit this transpire the subsequent time. At this point on your own declared you still have a great value determination lately from your director for the great this means you surely possess the calibre. Recent fall in your agility are closely related for you to absence of the focus on your work caused by a few private problem or any other distractions. So the most effective thing you can do will be to clear away that will factor and that is learning to be a difficulty in the success. When you finally eliminate that dilemna after that More than likely that your chosen director can have no reason to face an individual in their normal manner.

    So companion in lieu of going to your manager's workplace and complaining in opposition to your pet it's a good idea so that you can permit your work speak pertaining to you. If you keep working harder sometime soon and give the complete perseverance and for you to your work, after that More than likely the director will undoubtedly enjoy you and also definitely not offend that suits you your dog does this specific time.
    That it is definitely not acceptable for you to scold virtually any specialized in public. A sensible director is whom is able to tackle their business friends with virtually no compel in an exceedingly efficient manner.

    I could recognize your situation really well but you should become quite affected individual during this situation. Don't answer and also display virtually any aversion towards the director but become quite standard towards him. But do not also forget this specific event, become powerful went where you can powerful will certainly for you to establish yourself and display the worth. Be immensely very good in the do the job and accelerate your agility so that you can could possibly surge not your eyes of one's director just as before and the man could possibly feel that you're not somebody for you to insulted in public areas however you are entitled to admiration through him.

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    sir,
    Don't take this issue to heart.Manager should not scold you before your colleagues but he scolded you this is not good from his part.
    You have mentioned that your performance is going down,And you have done a mistake in presence of manager.so,he got anger and scolded you.try to improve your work,work hard then he wont scold you any more.Always think positively as your manager scolded you.you will try to improve your performance.it is good for you.
    so,don't keep all this in your mind.Work hard then your boss will praise you before your colleagues.
    all the best
    thank you

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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a pharmaceutical company. Recently I received an appraisal from my manager for my performance . But according to my manager , my performace has gone down after that and today he insulted me in front of my colleagues for a mistake in my work. How should I deal with such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is possible for an employee to be down in performance for which there are many reasons.There are different situations which one employee has to face at a time.The performance may also come down due to over confidence.If an employee is having an over confidence,the employee care least for the work & performance ultimately come down.

    I think your manager is your immediate boss who is like your guardian.You might have learnt many things which you might be using in your daily & in professional life.So you should not take serious for your manager's words.You should examine your position whether you are really down in your performance.If so the manager has not done wrong thing with you.In fact he seems your well wisher.

    So work honestly,efficiently,promptly in order to maintain your performance.When you are said any thing by your friend,you can say that he has not done wrong thing with me,because he is after all seniors & superiors to me & he has right to shout at me in mistake.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Dear if there is any mistake in your work committed by you in any project or task then first duty of the manager is that he check the status carefully then take right decision over that issue because mistake can be committed by anyone and your manager has also done big mistakes in past but he forgot after becoming manager of the company and secondly manager should tell you the fact and right thing to apply in any task because duty of the manager is to guide employees before start working over any important work and task and give motivation to the employees that they have to work according to the instructions and can take the help of manager but your manager didn't do such things and just scolded you in front of all other employees working in the office

    This is ridiculous that manager insulted you in front of all workers but do not worry because he insulted you that is enough for him and before that you should see that why your manager insulted you then you should think further and you will find out that due to your one mistake your manager scolded and insulted you badly in office so first of all you should remove that mistake from your work and do not repeat in future so you will never get the same time as you are on now and then you need to make good relations with your manager and that can only be done by the performance so you should try to work more and accurate for the company and you will see that behavior of your manager has been changed towards you and you will never be insulted so everything is because of work and mistake that couldn't be removed by you so think about it

    If there are any other higher authorities in your company as Boss or Owner of the company or General Manager etc. then you should write a complain against that manager and submit to the higher authorities and mention entire sorrow so they could take right action on time and surely you will get the reply and your manager will never behave rudely with you because employees are the respect of the company and each owner want that employees should be happy at this way where they are

    All the best

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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    To err is human. It's actually not acceptable to scold any professional in public.

    Intelligent manager is one who knows how to handle his team members without any force in a very effective manner.

    I can understand your situation really well but you would have to be very patient in this situation.

    Do not react or show any aversion towards your manager but be very normal towards him.

    But do not even forget this incident, be strong headed and have a strong will to prove yourself and show your worth.

    Try to be extraordinarily good in your work and boost up your performance so that you could rise un the eyes of your manager again and he could feel that you are not an individual to insulted in public but you deserve respect from him.

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    well friend as you said that your boss praised you when you done good work and now as you have made a mistake then he has every right to scold you now you should understand your mistake and try not to make the mistake again and do your work sincearly.if you work well then any person can not do anything.if boss is insulting in front of colleagues then try to tell this with the director.
    thank you

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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    Hello,
    1. Keep your expression completely neutral, and just shake your head.
    2.Accept responsibility for your actions.
    3.Be aware that anger, hurt and insecurity are the root of most insults.
    4.Respond with humor.
    5.
    If you've tried to figure out why this person is targeting you, and can find no reason, and you've tried to joke with him or her to no avail, and he or she is still bent on humiliating and insulting you, just leave.
    THANKS............


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    • When you are happy to accept the appraisal for good work then you must have to be ready for insult when you commits any mistake.
    • Instead of taking it in negative way, you must have to react in positive way and try to work on your mistake and overcome from it.
    • Don't react when the manager scolds you in front of everyone, it's good for future prospective.
    • Every employee goes through this kind of situation, so there is question of feeling insulted.
    • You must have to work hard to reagain the faith which the manager has in you.

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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a pharmaceutical company. Recently I received an appraisal from my manager for my performance . But according to my manager , my performace has gone down after that and today he insulted me in front of my colleagues for a mistake in my work. How should I deal with such a situation?
    Hallo friends...

    ...I understand your problem it is really a embarrassing situation for you.. You must not necessarily accept it gently and make sure never to permit this transpire the subsequent time. At this point on your own declared you still have a great value determination lately from your director for the great this means you surely possess the calibre. Recent fall in your agility are closely related for you to absence of the focus on your work caused by a few private problem or any other distractions. So the most effective thing you can do will be to clear away that will factor and that is learning to be a difficulty in the success.so first of all you should remove that mistake from your work and do not repeat in future so you will never get the same time as you are on now and then you need to make good relations with your manager and that can only be done by the performance so you should try to work more.you should not take serious for your manager's words.You should examine your position whether you are really down in your performance,If you perform,then you'll receive the appraisal and if you don't,then you get scolding from him.

    Hope this information will helps you in future.
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    Re: My manager is insulting me in front of my colleagues

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a pharmaceutical company. Recently I received an appraisal from my manager for my performance . But according to my manager , my performace has gone down after that and today he insulted me in front of my colleagues for a mistake in my work. How should I deal with such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    See boss is always right,you might have heard this slogan.Your manager is like your guardian who might have shared may experience which you might be using in your professional career.When the manager has scolded you in front of other colleague,he has not insulted you,because you are not his superior so that you fee insult.You get good job appraisal,it is the manager who gave you his guidance.So junior employee should not take serious for senior words in professional career in order to rise in life.If he does not point your mistake,you may not be sincere for works which may hamper your career.

    So be happy & work well.

    Thanks.

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