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    My family is pressurizing me to go on a vacation but I already have taken many leaves in the last few weeks

    I am working in a government organisation. My family has been telling me for a long time to take them for a vacation and now they pressurizing me for the same. But I have already taken a lot of leaves in the past few weeks and am afraid that if I ask for some more, my boss will be angry with me. How to explain this to my family who are not ready to listen to me?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: My family is pressurizing me to go on a vacation but I already have taken many leaves in the last few weeks

    Hello Friend,


    Well, it seems to me your parents are more concerned about their vacation rather than your career. In a goverment organization or any organization leaves are not easy to get. You have to use your leaves wisely all the time otherwise you have to face the consequences. So, you should talk to your parents and tell them the exact situation so that they can understand your problem. You should try to convince them that you will take them to the vacation of their dreams once you have managed the situation at office. They will understand your point. Sometimes it is not possible to give time to parents due to work pressure. in India this trend is spreading like wild fire.

    Bye,

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    Re: My family is pressurizing me to go on a vacation but I already have taken many leaves in the last few weeks

    Hi,
    As you mention that you already take "lot" of leaves in past few weeks, then dear its really difficult for you to take some more leaves for vacation. But on other hand you have your family, there own feelings. So i am suggest you that please discuss this matter with your family members that you have already take lot of leaves( and i think you take previous leaves for your family works) so they knew about your leaves.
    So tell them that this time is very crucial for you because for family you already take leaves(because you care about them)....so this time is for office. Because you have some duties in office also as you have in family.
    I think your family members understand your feeling if you explain them in above manner in polite way.
    Thanks

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    Re: My family is pressurizing me to go on a vacation but I already have taken many leaves in the last few weeks

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. My family has been telling me for a long time to take them for a vacation and now they pressurizing me for the same. But I have already taken a lot of leaves in the past few weeks and am afraid that if I ask for some more, my boss will be angry with me. How to explain this to my family who are not ready to listen to me?

    Dear Aspirant,


    It is generally seen that some of the life partner does not worry of the husbands problem& is very much interested for tour.They enjoy seeing different new things.But an employee has to see many things.

    It is nothing wrong to say the same things to the both sides.First of all see your leave credit.If you have in it,you can talk to your boss or you can apply for it stating some personal works.When you have leave in your credit,you can avail it as per your requirement,but when if you dont have it,you can not apply for leave.

    If you dont have leave in your credit,you can say the same thing to your wife that we can not go on tour now since I dont have leave in my credit.If I move without sanction of leave,salary will be cut & service may be discontinued which will affect my seniority & promotion on later.

    Hope you will manage your situation.

    Thanks & good luck.

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