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    My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    I am working in a MNC. Our company provides each employee with a personal chauffeur. from the past few days my driver has been behaving very weirdly with me and speaking in a rude manner whenever he gets the chance. He is not even ready to tell the reason for the same. What should be done in such a situation?

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Hello,

    You should talk to the immediate authority about the incident. This should never have
    happened. The driver should be punised for his rude behaviour. In a work place no one
    has the right to speak rudely to another person. You should also talk to him about the
    incident to find out his point of view.

    Bye,

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Hello,

    This is a very behavior from your company driver.
    If he is not ready to give the reason for the same,
    then you must tell him directly and politely that he should talk politely with you.
    He should not have any personal grudge towards you.
    As a driver he must do his work and you must do yours.

    You and your driver must have friendly relation.
    A good behavior of both of the person, will be beneficiary to each of you.
    You must think of the past days if you said anything wrong to your driver.
    And he should give you a reason for such behavior.

    If he behaves the same then you can warn him that you will complain about him.
    And you should talk about it to the manager when he becomes too rude to tolerate.

    Good luck

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Such situations do arise at times; however, friend you need not worry about the rude behaviour of the driver. I would suggest you not to get into any sort of argument with the driver mentioned in your query, rather, maintain distance and talk less with him. Let him know that his duty is to drive your car and help you reach your office on time. In the meanwhile, if the drives still troubles you, report his rude and unpredictable behaviour to a supervisor in the transport team and request him to change your chauffeur.

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Dear..

    Being a senior to your driver you have to show that you are with him and also give him a feeling that you can help him if he will tell you the exact reason of his rude behaviour. Normally Chauffeur feels shyness to speak in front of the employer and they do not tell every problem in front of them employer. Its better to talk to him with care and ask him about this situation/. Ensure him that you are going to help him in his bad times. Many a times it is seen that whenever excess work comes to a person he starts behaving like this only so ensure that he work as per the company rules so that you both become safe as well as he does not feel overburdened.

    One more thing that I want you to discuss is to ask him about his family, It is also possible that he might be facing some family problem and that is why he is not concentrating on his work and become weird.

    Do one thing one day while coming from office take him to a restaurant and offer him some tea and snacks and then on that tea you can ask him and i am sure he will surely tell you the exact problems

    Also ensure that he do not get more trouble due to your office timings. Always be punctual so that he feel easy while working

    Hope it will help

    Cheers...!!!

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a MNC. Our company provides each employee with a personal chauffeur. from the past few days my driver has been behaving very weirdly with me and speaking in a rude manner whenever he gets the chance. He is not even ready to tell the reason for the same. What should be done in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is not good to hear such misbehaviour with you.The driver must follow the protocol & behave well with you.If he has any grievances with you,he should tell you in a manner.

    So in order to over come such problem,Issue a memo to him & ask a explanation to submit within three days.Also,mention in your memo letter that if"you fail to submit your reply in time,the further action will be initiated one sided.If he submits his reply,see its merits & grievances & try to solve his problems as early as possible.

    If you are still not satisfied with his behaviour,report the matter to the manager HR & your boss & request to transfer somewhere.

    Hope you will be problems free.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    You should talk to the driver first
    You should talk to him politely
    Ask him why he is behaving to you like this
    Is there any problems due to which he is behaving like that
    If it is sorted that there is no issue
    But if he still behaves badly than you can report to the transport Manager

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    Re: My company drivers is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Dear friend,

    I think you need not worry about the rude behavior of the driver.
    I would suggest you not to get into any sort of argument with the driver mentioned in your query, rather, maintain distance and talk less with him.
    Let him know that his duty is to drive your car and help you reach your office on time.
    In the meanwhile, if the drives still troubles you.
    Report his rude and unpredictable behavior to a supervisor in the transport team and request him to change your chauffeur.
    You can also complain police station also

    Thanks!!!
    all the best....................

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    driver should not behave with the employees at any cost. you just find out the reason he is speaking in a rude way with positive manner. If you doesnt satisfy with the reply, you better bring to this mater to the higher authorities in written for enquiry. so that they could make an enquiry with the concerned , if proved they will have to take appropiate action against him. so that it wont be repeated again. In my opinion before that you too behave with him like an co-employee but not like boss. Our positive attitude gets good results some times.

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Ask him that what the hell wrong with him that he is behaving like a kid, if he explain that then solve the problem but if he still not behaving like a good person then complain against him to the higher authorities that he is not behaving with the employees properly, then he will be asked from the manage ment that what is the problem.
    He may be doing this because of many reasons like he dont like the way you speak , for that you need to know that he is doing it with you only or he is behaving like this with anyone else also , because sometimes drivers take something seriously that may be you have said to him as a joke.
    So you need to find out what is wrong if it is with you then you should talk with him or if he is naturally like that then what you can do for that.
    Leave him for that if he is naturally aggressive.

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    every one should maintain their dignity and should be aware of their position in which they are a person cannot behave this way when your given driver for you its his duty to abide by his duty.. firstly you should not scold him better know what is wrong with him or whether you behaved in a wrong way.. you cannot travel every day with people who don't behave properly don't take any rude words when you haven't committed any error so its upto you to continue to work for you.. you can directly tell him if he is not happy with you so its better for him not to drive or whether he is dissatisfied with the pay which company gives him or whether he wants excess money from you as a tip.. so you should find it from.. change your driver if he doesn't say anything...

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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Hello*******
    Friend*******
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    Re: My company driver is speaking very rudely with me and behaving very weirdly for the past few days

    Dear this is the dare of that driver who is trying to face off you in weird manner that can not be accepted because may be that he forgot his position and trying to be like an officer of that company because company gave him facility that can not be misused by any person and your driver is being out of his limits that is absolutely unavoidable by the authorities because rules are rules that should be followed by every employee of the company and if anyone does not follow them he/she may be loose job but before that you have to take it your own problem and seriously

    When your driver misbehave with you then you should wait for the leaving time of the company and when he comes in your car and start going to your home then you should request him to take the car outside of that town and instruct him to come with you in a hotel where you have to keep him with yourself and order two coffees in that hotel and sit with your driver

    When you sit then you may give your driver choices to take anything whatever he like and if he say no then get coffees and when you start having coffee then you should frankly ask that dear what is your problem because I am not seeing you in well mood from the past few days then he will say everything because you are the officer and you are offering him coffee so he will take everything positive and if make excuses then you should not force him because he will definitely leave doing this with you after seeing your behavior to him and if tell you exact reason then you should handle that according to your capability

    Also tell him at that time that I can complain on your behavior to the boss but I did not because I respect you more than others because you are hard working person so I hope you will easily understand the situation and will not do it again and if I had complained about your behavior then you would have lost your job before this time but I do not want you go anywhere and leave this company so keep your performance well and I will commend for you to the boss to increase your salary but you just have to leave this attitude and forget everything whatever happened so you will definitely change the behavior of your driver and he will respect you more than others

    All the best

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