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    My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently I committed a grave mistake due to which my bossís laptop was stolen. Now my boss wants to terminate my services. But he has told me to resign on my own before he takes such a step as it will not be good for my reputation. Should I do as he says? Is there any way of getting out of this situation?

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    HELLO SIR

    Am very sorry for your situation. If your mistake is understandable or it could be something for which you can get forgiveness, then you must go and ask about it to your boss, if possible he may forgive you, If tried, then you make some reference to your boss, by whom your boss will get convinced for sure. And make sure that you will make him convince about your not doing mistake in future, at any situation. Trying in this way is the only solution.
    If you have some time to resign, then you can make him to trust on you by doing some good job, HONESTLY...!!


    HOPE YOU GOT YOUR SOLUTION...THANK YOU...!!

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    Hello..

    What a situation , you did a mistake and that now your boss is taking his anger out. Friend first thing I will suggest you that don't resign because you didn't do anything which goes against the company. If your boss is saying that he will terminate you only for his laptop , its not right don't fear so much go and meet your boss and try to reduce his anger , say sorry to him and make him realize that you didn't do it eagerly and rest depends upon your boss but I'm saying again do your work properly and don't resign. Your boss will terminate you only if you are lacking something in your work so be focused on that.

    thanks.

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    you seem to be quite worried and this is something inevitable. your job is at stake afterall !!
    to get out of this mess, you should once go and talk it out with your boss. apologize for your mistake and make sure it is never ever repeated. tell him what led to that situation and how you couldn't help out in evading it. if at all he doesn't forgive you or is not convinced and still tells you to resign, then it will be better to step down yourself. otherwise it is like adding a black dot on your professional life.
    be on a lookout for better or equal jobs. keep your options open. though try to hang on with this organisation by trying your level best in sorting out things for good.

    all the best

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    Respected sir, you are a government employee and no body can fire you or terminate your service because you have been appointed for government job that is under the Indian government and no one has right to terminate you from service until government orders for that so first of all you do not need to afraid of your boss and your boss is asking you to resign because he know it well that he can not terminate you in any condition and he also know that if he will terminate you from your services then he may also loose his job that is why he wants you to resign yourself because if you will resign then you will mention the proper cause and that will be the acceptance of your resignation that is why you should not do this mistake in your life because you are surviving because of that job so just think about your future and about your career then take a good decision but do not resign at all otherwise this will be the stupidest mistake of your life

    If your boss has lost his laptop because of you then why do you worry about this, you should go to your boss and say sorry about this and also tell them that sir please tell me what was the actual price of your laptop and if that was in service then you should provide me the bill of that laptop then I will pay you the price of laptop but do not ask me for resign and in this case he can threaten you but you do not need to afraid of him at all and if he scolds you or abuse you then also you should not take it negative and just ignore it but do not repeat this type of mistake again in your life otherwise you may really loose your job

    All the best

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Recently I committed a grave mistake due to which my bossís laptop was stolen. Now my boss wants to terminate my services. But he has told me to resign on my own before he takes such a step as it will not be good for my reputation. Should I do as he says? Is there any way of getting out of this situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is not good to hear such situation.Have patience & need not worry much,because many types of situations may have to be faced during the life period & you are required to face those situations patiencely.

    As the situation stated in your question,the question of either termination or resignation does not arise.It is true that you have committed a grave mistake,because of which your boss's laptop was stolen.In this situation,you need not worry for termination from the services,because your boss may not do it.In this connection,meet your boss in person,say sorry for your mistake & be ready to purchase a new laptop for your boss & give it to him.Your boss may be very happy with your such behaviour & you may be execused.

    There are many steps to terminate from the service in govt.organisation.First of all you will be asked showcause for your mistake.Depending upon your reply,the further action may be proceeded.So if you give a new laptop to your boss,your boss may not feel need to take any action against you.You should be very careful in your duty in future.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    Hello,

    You have committed a very serious mistake which led to the loss of your boss
    laptop. But that does not mean your boss can fire you or force you to resign. You
    should talk to your boss and tell him that your are sorry and ready to help him
    in finding of the laptop. You should also consulat the HR department of your company
    and tell them everything about the incident. In these days people don't get goverment
    jobs so you should not resign from your job.

    Bye,

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Recently I committed a grave mistake due to which my bossís laptop was stolen. Now my boss wants to terminate my services. But he has told me to resign on my own before he takes such a step as it will not be good for my reputation. Should I do as he says? Is there any way of getting out of this situation?

    Hello Aspirant,

    Mistake is a common phenomena by a human being.It usually happens by most of the persons,but it does not mean that faulty person can not be excused.Your boss behaviour shows that he is very angry man,but you should have patience & need not think to resign from the job.

    It is not so easy to terminate you from your service,because there is a procedure to terminate you.In this connection,first of all you will be given a show cause letter for which you will have to submit your reply within the time given to you.

    You should meet your boss & say sorry for the mistake committed by you.Also get the brand name of the stolen laptop from your boss & purchase it from the market & hand it over to your boss,saying that though I did not see your stolen laptop,but,being blamed I am giving a new laptop to you so that you apologize me.

    Hope your boss will accept your offer & you will be mentally free hereafter.But cautious in future.

    Good luck.

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    Re: My boss wants me to leave the job before he terminates me

    dear friend
    sorry for such a situation
    your mistake is as big as your boss is reacting you know better than us
    so try to convince him that in future you will not do mistake and beg for one chance
    or try to find some relations with your boss may be they can help you to get rid of this situation
    thnx

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