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    My boss is using my personal life to get back at me

    I am working in a software company. Recently I had an argument with my boss and now to take revenge my boss is using instances from my personal life to get back at me. I donít know from where he got this information but I am really very annoyed right now. How to deal with this situation?

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    Sai Deep Array
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    Re: My boss is using my personal life to get back at me

    Hello

    It quite unusual and wrong to use the information about someone's personal life .

    You should be straightforward and ask him not give instance of personal life.

    You should deal with this situation cleverly.

    Try not to get personal or offensive.

    Even if your boss is getting personal you should maintain your professional etticates.

    You must be calm and composed ,dont react or get aggressive.

    Do not let him get a control on you.

    be balanced.

    Thank you


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    Srishti Array
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    Re: My boss is using my personal life to get back at me

    hello,
    first of all try to avoid all those comments and focus on work. if he still doesn't stop you should complain about him to the higher authorities. dont get offensive. just be calm till then. untill there is a fault in your work he would not be able to touch you with his negative thoughts. just be focussed and do all hard work that you can do.
    for the comments the best thing is to avoid him, do not react.
    thanks

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    november rain Array
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    Re: My boss is using my personal life to get back at me

    Hii friend,
    What you can do is to ignore the comments he passes about your personal life. A person or a situation is powerless without your reaction. don't give any kind of reation to any kind of comment passed on you about your personal life. He'll eventually will see your ignorant behaviour towards his comment and will stop comenting. Replying him back and creating an issue will detoriate your image and will not give you a professional image. Maintain your conduct and let him do whatever he wants, he will get tired of doing so if you'll stop reacting. He seeks his revenge by haressing you and you show him that it is hardly affecting you. eventually he will loose. keep patience and be strong. I know its difficult but not impossible to do.

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