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    My boss is treating me like a servant due to some fight with my father

    I am an accountant in a private firm. Recently my boss had some fight with my father and now he is taking his revenge on me. Yesterday, in front of some of the clients he treated me like a servant and told me to bring tea for them. I am really very depressed. How to come out of such a situation?

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    aman Array
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    Re: My boss is treating me like a servant due to some fight with my father

    By seeing the matter it seems that now it has become more of a personal issue between you and your boss rather than a professional one and in

    this situation it would be very much difficult for you to work in the company as your boss has all the powers so he can further humiliate you. It would

    be much better that you talk to your boss and discuss the matter with him before taking any decision, tell him that you are an employee of the

    company and thus doing the work with sincerity. Tell him that the fight was between him and his father and not with you than why he is taking

    revenge from you. If he doesn't responds properly than it would be better for you to leave the job as this will bring you in unnecessary pressure.

    You are a talented person and you can find a job any where else. Keeping your health at sake for job is not an intelligent decision. Also what is the

    surety that after humiliating you more he keeps you in the job. So it is better that you clear things regarding your status as an employee with the

    boss instead of taking any pressure.

    Also you should talk to your father about it, possibly he might give you some other suggestion to solve the problem as the fight was between your

    father and you boss. With it also start searching for new job as a backup from now so as that if for the slightest of the possibility that you have to

    leave the job than you don't have to waste time in searching for a new job. Also you can adjust for a while until you find a good alternative job.



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    manojbadoniya Array
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    Re: My boss is treating me like a servant due to some fight with my father

    Dear this will happen with you until you leave the job because your boss could not accept that fight with your father and he is taking revenge from you that is why you need to be careful in near future because you will not get any increment and hikes in the salary and will be treated same as present and this will be continue until your boss gets satisfied that is why you need to think about another job

    When you have been treated as servant then you may be insulted in front of any person in the office or company because first your boss did it in front of some clients and this may happen again in front of the all employees of the office premises that is why before getting insulted much more, you need to think about another job opportunity in any other company and I am sure that they will give you more salary than that of present because you are qualified and experienced person and you may work better in any company so you should prepare your resume then apply for job and do not inform to your boss because if you will do it then he will create problem again and when you get the job then resign from this company

    All the best

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    Rituja Array
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    Re: My boss is treating me like a servant due to some fight with my father

    Hello,

    It is absolutely clear from your post that your boss is showing up his anger on you.Since you are working in a private company that to under his supervision ,you have to tolerate his misbehaviour.The only thing you can do is to apologise to him for what had happened,then only I think his anger will cool down.Otherwise his anger and frustration will shower up on you and you will be victimised.At the same time,you have to point that your job is not at stake!

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