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    My boss is not allowing me to bring my 5 year old boy to my workplace, just for a few days

    I am working in a government organisation. Our maid , with whom I usually leave my boy, has taken leave for a week. Thus I requested my boss to bring my 5 year old boy to the office just for a week but he is not allowing me. This is not fair as I don’t have any other option. What to do in such a situation?

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    Re: My boss is not allowing me to bring my 5 year old boy to my workplace, just for a few days

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Our maid , with whom I usually leave my boy, has taken leave for a week. Thus I requested my boss to bring my 5 year old boy to the office just for a week but he is not allowing me. This is not fair as I don’t have any other option. What to do in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    In fact,it is not allowed,because if the boy commits any mistake,your boss & yourself both will be held responsible.Since it is a matter of only one weeks,you can bring your boy & keep him with full care,not disturbing others & your official works.In this connection you should try to convince your boss by assuring him that there won't be any disturbance owing to my boy.If he agrees,it is alright otherwise meet your senior officer or manager HR & explain the problem.

    Since it is a matter of only one week,it can be allowed on the basis of humanity.If you are not allowed,you can either take leave for a week or you can leave your boy with some of your friends' or relative house.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: My boss is not allowing me to bring my 5 year old boy to my workplace, just for a few days

    Hi.

    Please do not take your boss's words otherwise as he just wants you to focus on your work at work place. Carrying your five year old child to work place would not only divert your attention from work but might not provide the best environment for your child.

    Henceforth, you must try looking for a crèche or some day care schools for your child. This would enable you to work in a better way with more concentration and also help your child to be with other children with would give him a better environment.

    In fact, you can always take help of you boss and request him to let you know about some nearby crèches or day care schools.

    You could even call any of your close relative for about a week to take care of your child. I suppose this would be the best option for you and for your child.

    So, dear, with a cool mind think of some good options as when God inflicts us with problems, he also guides us to solutions.

    Thanks.

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    Re: My boss is not allowing me to bring my 5 year old boy to my workplace, just for a few days

    Dear Friend


    To be very frank ,I would like to say that your boss is 100% right in this case due to the fact that when you will bring the five years old child in office ,it will surely divert your attention from your work and you may not be able to focus on work and hence you lose your efficiency.

    The second most important thing is that other employees may also get distracted by the activities of your child as he/she will not sit easily .

    It would be better for you to have some alternative as your maid is on leave like you can call your some closed relative at your home for taking care of your child .Or you may drop him at your relative house in the morning and then take him along with you in evening.


    Hope the information helps you as much as you expect .For any other assistance please do not forget to leave a message here .We will get back to you as soon as possible.


    Enjoy your life and all the best for your career.


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