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    My boss insists me to work for long hours

    I am a female candidate and my performance in my office is up to the mark but when I didnít entertained my boss he blamed me for not working properly and he always insists me to work more than other staff when they leave. Sometimes I am scared. What would I do?

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    Barnali Array
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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Hi,

    This is a serious issue...Look for another job...where there is no good space for women in the workplace...the matter needs to be taken seriously...
    The matter needs to be informed to HR for future...
    But one thing you should do before taking any decision...discuss the late sitting issue with your boss and try to suggest the problem face if you sit late after office hour...

    But my suggession is to look for a change immediately.

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Hello friend .. I understand what you wantís to say .. if your boss are not satisfied with your job work then say to her/him that sir you can be compare me among to other youíll get the result. But donít be underestimate me because some time itís effect on my job work and also talk to on the matter on leaving issue . youíll just say to her/him that say time when I was went to home at late in the night it was create some problem.. which I am unable to talk on this problems.. just polite say to her/him that I am hard worker and working with full dedication in your company. After that if you have a problem with me I canít solve it I am a worker not a entertainerÖ.
    Thanking you hope you like my suggestionÖ..

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Hello,

    This are difficult situations. As a professional you need to work for long hours. You
    should complete your work with a professional manner. You should be honest and
    maintain a disciplined work ethics in your work place. In this way you will get notice
    by your boss and he will definately not ask you to saty for long hours. This should be
    your strategy.

    Bye,

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am a female candidate and my performance in my office is up to the mark but when I didnít entertained my boss he blamed me for not working properly and he always insists me to work more than other staff when they leave. Sometimes I am scared. What would I do?

    Hello Aspirant,

    Being a female employee,you must be careful in dealing with others even with your boss.The intimacy comes slowly but it goes off suddenly.You have been given employment to work for the office & not to entertain your boss.You should not give any room for him for entertainment.When you are in any special occasion in group,there may be entertainment for a while,but it should not be a routine work.

    For your future safeguard,you should leave your office in right time i.e 5.00PM & don't stay beyond it.Whenever you are asked by your boss to stay for more time,just tell your boss," I have to look after my home work,so I am unable to stay for more time."Need not scare at all.When you see your boss's intention is doubtful towards you,warn him politely & ask him to be in limit.Boss is not all in one.There are rules for protection of humanity.

    So be bold & work according to the schedule office time.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    hii madam, its very bad that your boss is insisting you to work after the working hours... DON"T COMPROMISE ON YOUR SECURITY.. its a matter of being safe, i can understand your feeling and your fear of working late.. your boss is lacking some manners and he needs to be decent i strongly tell to don't work after working hours as your performance is upto the mark don't fear for job if your safety is compromised...

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Hi aspirant

    You should definitely not sit quietly in this situation and should not withstand such injustice from your boss's side. He should definitely not misuse his power in such a way and should see to it that he treats all his employees equally. Such discrimination is not good for his company's good future and its better that he realises it as soon as possible.Its your duty to make him realise this and so you must not be afraid and speak to immediately to get this problem solved.

    You should tell your boss that you are very dejected as your performance in your office has always been upto the mark but recently he blamed you for not working properly. Also he insists you to work longer than others. You are surprised at such injustice from his side just because you didn't comply with some his wishes. You hope that he will not repeat such kind of behaviour again otherwise you will be forced to take this matter to the higher authorities.

    I am sure that your boss will be ashamed of himself and also scared that you might report him to the highere ups. He will not dare to do such a thing again. Good luck for your future

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Dear this is really critical problem for you but you should handle this issue easily because you are a female candidate and if you will go against the boss then you may get loss in the job and when you have mentioned the sometimes you scares because of working till late hours then this might create a negative problem for you that is why you should say to your boss that sir please let me go early everyday or at the time when every employee of the company leaves for their home and there are some problems that I can not share and that is why I may not stay till late hours in the office premises because you can see my work that I always complete my work on time and before time and you may also know about the performance and if you will insist me to stay for long hours then I would be unable to continue in this company but you should not say that you will resign and if you feel something terrible then you should start finding another job but do not share to anyone in the office and when you get the job then you should complete your month service in the company and get the salary then resign

    All the best

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    Re: My boss insists me to work for long hours

    Hi friends.

    I understand what you wantís to say.
    If your boss are not satisfied with your job work then say to her/him that sir you can be compare me among to other youíll get the result.
    But donít be underestimate me because some time itís effect on my job work and also talk to on the matter on leaving issue .
    youíll just say to her/him that say time when I was went to home at late in the night it was create some problem.
    which I am unable to talk on this problems.
    just polite say to her/him that I am hard worker and working with full dedication in your company.
    After that if you have a problem with me I canít solve it I am a worker not a entertainer.

    Thanks!!!
    ALL THE BEST..............

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