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    My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    I am working in a government organisation.One of my colleagues, who is also my friend, is being ill treated by our boss for no apparent reason. I donít think that he has done anything wrong and the boss should stop behaving with him in such a manner. What can be done to make him feel better?

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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation.One of my colleagues, who is also my friend, is being ill treated by our boss for no apparent reason. I donít think that he has done anything wrong and the boss should stop behaving with him in such a manner. What can be done to make him feel better?
    Dear Aspirant,

    If it is fact,it is not good,but if it is fact the concerned employee should not have tolerated it.Because there is a system of hierarchy in the administration.It means one is boss of another.If the boss is harassing the concerned employee without any proper reason,he should write the matter to boss's boss to look into matter & take measure for justice.Meanwhile,If you have union among yourselves,you can rise objection for this misconduct by reporting the matter to his boss's boss otherwise you should request alone to the boss not to harass your colleague.

    If the above steps are taken,the boss may realise the situation & may ask for excuse to his boss.But it a rare case to harass any one without any proper reason,because every one wants to be away from legal proceedings.

    Thanks & good luck.



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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    Hi,

    As a friend you can talk to him and make him feel better.
    Tell him not to consider the words of the boss seriously.

    Your boss is wrong , he should not behave in such a manner with the colleague without any reason.
    He should talk to your boss politely and ask for the reason of such behavior towards him.
    Ask him how can he make a good impression in front of his boss.
    Your boss will surely tell the reason for his behavior.
    And your colleague can improve on that point.

    Good luck

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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    If boss is treating you colleague in bad manner then you should not worry for him as its his problem and better for him to handle this situation because he is not a kid he know how to handle such situation, he should go to boss and clarify all the problem that he feels not going well for him , if he has not did anything wrong then he can directly challenge the boss that he cannot do the things with him like that, as he is getting the punishment of the thing that he never did so, it will be better for him if he opens his mouth , if he not do that then just see what happen in future. It will be always painful when there is a problem like this exist.

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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    Dear Friend,

    The things are not exactly like that as you were told by your friend. Every one is caring about their friends. Doesn't mean you will trust your friend 100% and have blind faith in them. First try to understand whats the reason behind this matter. Is there any history about that before or the relation between your friend and your boss is fine or not.

    Your boss is ill treating your colleague doesn't mean your boss is wrong. After all your boss is a senior member/employee/owner responsible for the proper functioning of company in which you are working. So no point that your boss is ill treating your friend without any reason.

    Its better for you not to indulge your self in this matter because without reason you are in trouble if your boss notice your involvement. Even you can try to make your friend understand to be cool. There is no result if you try to protest against your boss. So be cool and do your work properly which is more beneficial for you.

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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation.One of my colleagues, who is also my friend, is being ill treated by our boss for no apparent reason. I donít think that he has done anything wrong and the boss should stop behaving with him in such a manner. What can be done to make him feel better?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It is not good to hear such situations with your colleague.But be sure of your colleague for being innocent.You can ask your boss as to what mistake he has committed to receive such punishment.Definitely you will be told something for which you must enquire of your colleague for which he may not be agree.In such situation you should ask your colleague to report the matter to still senior officer & request for justice.

    If your colleague is innocent,he will dare to write to the still senior officer otherwise he won't dare.So see the situation & think for others.Why your boss will punish your colleague without doing any mistake.
    Definitely there must be some reason behind it.So see to it.

    Good luck.

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    Re: My boss is ill treating one of my colleagues even when he hasnít done anything wrong

    hello,
    directly ask your boss about the ill treatement with him and ask him what is the mistake he done and ask him for the remedy and assure him that he will repeat his mistake and say you friend to keep a promise regarding it so that he wont it repeat it again.
    say your boss that if he continues then it is his responsibility and say him that he will take action regarding it if he repeats it again.
    thank you...........

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