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    My boss doesn’t want me to befriend a certain colleague

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently my boss called me to his cabin and told me to remain away from a certain colleague whom I was beginning to like and wanted to be friends with. But he told me that he is a bad influence on others. Now I am confused regarding what to do in such a situation. Please guide me in the right direction.

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    Sanswe Array
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    Re: My boss doesn’t want me to befriend a certain colleague

    Dear Aspirant,

    Well...your boss is no way wrong...and remember do not reject the suggestions you have got..!! Not only from your boss, you can accept any kind of suggestions from anybody..but all you need to do is, whatever you exactly feel like doing..!!

    But the most important thing is, everything depends on you..!! People always wait to take a chance..make sure that they are on their limits..Keep an eye on everybody.. (listen to everybody, but do whatever your heart feel like doing..!! -----It's an Hindi proverb..)

    Hope this will help you...

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    Re: My boss doesn’t want me to befriend a certain colleague

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Recently my boss called me to his cabin and told me to remain away from a certain colleague whom I was beginning to like and wanted to be friends with. But he told me that he is a bad influence on others. Now I am confused regarding what to do in such a situation. Please guide me in the right direction.
    Hello Aspirant,

    It happens usually in a working place whether in govt.organisations or in pvt.organisations.The reason behind it is the boss is not having good relation with all the employees,secondly the boss does want all the employees be together,thirdly some of the employees are really having enfluenced with some bad elements.So the possibility may be any of the above three or more.

    So what you should do that you have to see yourself.You should read the nature of people & accordingly develop friendship with others.Be in contact & known to all,but develop your friendship with only few after judging in all aspects.Also have intention to cooperate others in need, when you think it is necessary.You should concentrate more on your official works & have good realtion with your boss,but it does not that you should be away from others.

    Working efficiently & respecting others will pay to you much in your life.

    Good luck.

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