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    My best friend refusing to help me during my difficult times

    I am working in a government organisation. One of my colleagues here has been my best friend for a long time now. Now I am going through a very bad time in my personal life and I want his help badly in terms of money.but he is refusing to help me now when I need his help the most. I am really very shocked at his behaviour. What to do in such a situation?

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    bonomali Array
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    Re: My best friend refusing to help me during my difficult times

    Hello,

    How can you call such a person your best friend if he does not
    provide you help in your hour of need. Your choice of friend was
    wrong and there is nothing you can do it is hard to judge a man
    based on behaviours. Don't worry time will pass your time will
    come and you should start avoiding people like your friend. You
    need to find out a solution to your problem.

    Bye,

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    shivagarwal Array
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    Re: My best friend refusing to help me during my difficult times

    Dear,
    If your friend is not willingly helping you out in your bad times then you should know that he is not your friend. He is an opportunist, who had made you as his friend for only using you.
    But if he wants to help you and there is something which refrain him from doing so then you should understand his problem also.
    You should not blame him.To understand him, keep yourself in his place then you will realise his probe.

    Try to understand every aspect and then only come across any decision.

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