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    My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    I am working in a software company. One of the colleagues, who is also my best friend, is making some secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one of the employees, whom he is jealous of. He has been hiding this even from me. What should I do to stop him from doing such a thing?

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    lekha207@sasi.ac.in Array
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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    Hi friend,.

    First of all i feel happy to have a friend of you for him.

    I don't know why he is making the secret plans try to stop him and convince him saying what the fact is.

    Also you should not be getting discourage when he says a word against him

    try to be convincable and situationally respond to the matter

    all the best

    lead him to a good path

    cheers honey

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    Hello Friend ,

    Nice to hear that you are very much concerned about feelings of other , well see you can tell your best friend not to do mischievous things that can harm other sentiment or

    you can tell straight away to your colleague that be careful ,as you will be facing mischievous soon ( you can warn your colleague before hand ) so that he can be mentally

    and physically be prepared and take action there only.

    THANK YOU !

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    Hi
    Making secret plans and that too for a wrong reason. For some other person's decline, its not at all a good thing to deal with. This kills the feelings of competence. And as you've mentioned that he is your best friend, therefore you're the only one who can save him from doing such kind of sin. Because if he'll do such kind of deed to a fellow companion, there might be chances that in the near future some other person would do the same thing to him also, and its better to give up such ideas rather than crying at your bad time when someone else would behave like the same way.

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    If your friend has been hiding this from you, then how come you are aware of such plan? Then you must have heard it from any source. First check out whether such fact is genuine or not. If its true, then simply go and talk to your friend , try to know why he is up to such plan? I have intense doubt on his friendship. In order to be a good friend, it is essential to be a good human being. A person who is good human, will never chock out this sort of revengeful plans. Try your best to convince him, so that he refrains from playing such nasty politics.

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    As you said that he is your best friend then you need to speak with him regarding the same that doing such things is not good for him and also for that employee.
    I dont know what is the reason behind that but i am sure that if he caught by any of the senioremployee doing this, then he will be in huge trouble and he might be terminated from the company and also the person he was trying to make the culprit , he will also not leave him.
    So try to explain it to him if he still dont listen to you then leave him in that position because these are the things that will never lasts for many days truth will come in front of everybody and he will get the punishment for that as well.
    He needs to concentrate in his work because by doing that things he is not doing his work and also he will see the result for the same.
    My point is clear if you do good things to others then others will be good with you.
    If you are rude with them then your hard time is about to start within some days.

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    Hi, Such activities should never be encouraged at work place. Now, when you know that your friend has some secret plans against one of your colleague, you should try your best to demotivate and convince your best friend not to think ill will for any of his colleague, rather focus on his work. In case he has some enmity or repurcussions against anyone, then ask him to prove himself exceptionally good at work as his work could bring others down. Also, tell him that such actions might throw him in a trap of unending enmity between the two employees at work place and it will result only in harming their career and disturbing them in life. You are his best friend and friends play a very important role in shaping ones personality. Please help your friend to overcome these personality disorders (like jealousy, anger, arrogance etc). I am sure you will be able to guide your friend and help him to walk on the right path. Thanks.

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    Re: My best friend is making secret plans which will lead to the downfall of one our colleagues

    hello,
    you first ask him what is the matter and why he is doing it and if he says its k then say him that it is not good on his part.
    next thing is you should ask him in front of every one and you should tell him the thing in front of others and you should give a good coating regarding this.
    say him that if he was jealous of him then its better show him in the work way rather than creating this non sense.
    tell him in a good way so that he listens and try to get rid of the situation.
    thank you............

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