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    Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    I am working in a private firm. Recently one of the male colleagues had bought a new camera to the office. He wanted everyone to get their photos clicked. But some of the female employees objected to it but he forced them to get their photos clicked. He even misbehaved with them. I really want to tell about this to my boss. Will it be good to do so? Please guide me in the right direction.

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a private firm. Recently one of the male colleagues had bought a new camera to the office. He wanted everyone to get their photos clicked. But some of the female employees objected to it but he forced them to get their photos clicked. He even misbehaved with them. I really want to tell about this to my boss. Will it be good to do so? Please guide me in the right direction.
    Dear Aspirant,

    It is not a good news to hear.The allowing to click photo is a will & choice of the individual,but no one should force others to allow to click for photo by colleagues or others.it is highly objectionable with female candidates.

    In order to prevent it,first of all you should call him & convince him not to do in future.Also ask him to get execuse for the misbehaviour showed by him.He must be asked to express his regratness in writing.Tell him,if he does not give in writing,the mattter will be reported to the boss & be ready to face the consequences.He may be punished to any extent.He may be terminated on this ground.


    If he shows his abdomant,you must report the matter to the boss,because the way he has behaved with female employee is highly objectionable.

    Thanks & good luck.

    Ashok..

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    don't tolerate this ugly behavior and stupid nature of your male colleagues its very shameful to even hear this.. i think you need to really complain this matter to your manager if your manager is taking this lightly don't leave this matter report this to hr manager and also higher authorities as well these guys are surely required some basic manners how to respect women.. the lack some basic sense and are behaving like animals.. for safety reasons inform the matter to your family members also they would also be aware of what is going on and about the incident with you mam.. please warn them to mend their ways behave like human not like goons.. don't worry mam you need to be courageous in dealing these ugly people..take help of other male employees who are good not like these ugly people.. if you be silent this will encourage them in doing these stupid actions.. i am sure you will see through this matter.. all the best

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Hello ,
    I would suggest dont make a decision in a haste because they are your colleges .
    This may create a scene in the office environment .
    Although , this is not acceptable , go ypto them and tell them that whatever they do is
    not good and does not look professional .
    They should force anyone to get in the camera and specially with the ladies .
    Moreover , if they misbehavew with any of the female workers , they can be terminated from their jobs
    without giving any prior notice if any of the female colleegs report the case .
    Make them aware of all these facts .

    Although , if you think that they embarrassed the female colleges and crossed their lines , then you should talk with the
    female colleges and with thier support report this to the authorities as this kind of behavior is dangerous and lead
    to unwanted things in a office atmosphere .
    If the females agree that this should be reported , go ahead but if NOT then you dont try to report as this
    can actaully lead to removing them from the company .

    Although , any such further activities should not be tolerated and should be made very clear to them that from next time
    this will be reported and be ready to bear the consequences .


    Thank you !

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Hi friend

    You should definitely report this matter to your boss. Such people should realy be punished for behaving in such an uncivilized way with the female employees. They should realise their mistake and then only will they never repeat such a thing in the future. If they are not taught a lesson now, then they will never learn which will not be good for their future. You should teach them how to respect women like they respect their mothers and sisters. Behaving rudely with females is not a work of a chivalrous man and they better realise this as soon as possible.

    You , being an eyewitness to this incident should definitely i9nform your boss about it and should not be afraid to do so. You go to your boss's office and speak to him. Tell him that recently one of your colleagues bought a new camera to the office. He wanted everyone to get their photos clicked. But when some of the female employees objected to it he behaved rudely with them and forced them to get their photos clicked. In your opinion this action was uncalled for and he should have respected their feelings at that time. He should have behaved in a more dignified manner and should not have misbehaved with them in such a way. You hope that he should be taught a lesson for this so that he learns from his mistake and never indulges in such a behaviour in future. You hope that he will look into this matter and thus take the right action as soon as possible.

    I am sure your boss will do the needful and then your colleague will also learn his lesson. You on your part should not at all feel guily for getting him punished as this will be for the betterment of his future and will teach him how to become a better person in the society. I am sure down the years, when he will look back, he will surely thank you for this deed done to him. and then you too will never regret this action of yours.

    So friend do what you believe in. Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    well,that male colleague can't force you to do that.if he is misbehaving with you.just go to your boss's office and tell him everything or gather other female employees whom he did misbehave.
    that will put pressure on your boss.he has to take action against that employee.

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    hello employee
    there is no any rule in the company to forcing a female employee to force for accept your proposal.
    Accused employee should contact to her boss over this query and explain all matter.
    I hope boss will take prior action against the employees who are/is having illegal thinking im their mind.
    A working place may be secure only accepting tough and valid rules in the working environment.
    thanks

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Dear you are absolutely right and you must take an action against this but not alone because until the victim does not take any action, no one can do anything about any matter that is why you should make it sure again that those female candidates wants to give some photos to that person or not and if they are 100% against this then you should make all them understand that they should complain for the same and tell everything to the manager or boss of the company and if you will not raise your finger against this then it may happen with you again by any other one also that is why you must be aware about this type of activities in the office premises and you must get them trusted that you are also with all of them and will raise hands against that person who is forcing each one to provide photos and you all should together go to the boss and tell the complete situation and request them to take a very good and right action against that person and if possible then you should also go to that person before complaining to the boss and make him understand that if those female candidates does not wants to provide their photos then you should not force them for that and if he does not understand then you all should go to the boss

    All the best

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Dear guest,
    I believe that you are a professional. And you ha e to behave in professional gentle way. If any collegue is misbehaving with females its really not upto you to correct anyone. Its actually the duty and right of the female collegues. But still if such a thing is actually happening and you are rigid and want such immoral behaviour to be stopped then you are right in your own way. But I must warn you, In case you complain the incident to your boss and upon inquiry if the female collegues don't respond then you my friend are in soup. So think about it in a logical way. If the female collegues don't have and problem with the male colleguez behaviour then even you should not. As they are grown Ups and it is not at all your duty nor your right to correct them. You can in turn talk to your male collegue about it. You can have your HR manager have a talk organised on such a matter. You can suggest your boss about having cctv cameras in the office just I case you want such behaviour to be avoided. You can even talk to the female collegues about such an incident and ask them if they thought it was appropriate...

    good luck.

    Thank you...






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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    Hi friend,

    As you are saying that he misbehaved, so you have a right to definitely complain to your boss for his behavior.

    If you have got any objection with his behavior, and when concerned with others, ask them whether they really feel to complain or they really want to let it go.

    Because many of the females would let it go as they fear of some problems that might be occured if they complain.

    So if you are strong enough then give some inspiration to those girls by first complaining.

    Hope i have helped you in getting relevant information.

    All the best

    Thanking you...

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    dear aspirant,
    well this is rude if female colleagues are not interested to have their pic the male colleagues have to leave their way out respecting their interests.this may be encouraged if the meeting is of success of the company and want to save your memories.this is also should be kept in mind those who ask for the permission to take a snap are best ones to give a click than those who are forcing them to have one click out of enthusiasm can spoil your life.they can use your pics for other purposes if you are in good position in any organization.so please beware of this.you can simply avoid them by little smile.

    Thank u

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    It is not an honest news to listen to.The permitting to click icon may be a can & selection of the individual,but nobody ought to force others to permit to click for icon by colleagues or others.it is extremely objectionable with feminine candidates.

    So as to forestall it,first of all you must decision him & persuade him to not knock off future.Also raise him to urge execuse for the misbehaviour showed by him.He should be asked to precise his regratness in writing.Tell him,if he doesn't admit defeat writing,the matter are going to be reported to the boss & be able to face the results.He is also penalized to any extent.He is also terminated on this ground.


    If he shows his abdomant,you must report the come to the boss,because the means he has behaved with feminine worker is extremely objectionable.
    You should positively report this come to your boss. Such folks ought to realy be penalized for behaving in such associate degree barbaric means with the feminine workers. they ought to realise their mistake then solely can they ne'er repeat such a factor within the future. If they're not instructed a lesson currently, then they'll ne'er learn which can not be sensible for his or her future. you must teach them a way to respect girls like they respect their mothers and sisters. Behaving impolitely with females isn't a piece of a knightly man and that they higher realise this as before long as potential.

    You , being associate degree looker to the present incident ought to positively i9nform your boss concerning it and may not be afraid to try and do thus. You attend your boss's workplace and speak to him. Tell him that recently one in every of your colleagues bought a brand new camera to the workplace. He wished everybody to urge their photos clicked. however once a number of the feminine workers objected to that he behaved impolitely with them and compelled them to urge their photos clicked. In your opinion this action was uncalled for and he ought to have revered their feelings at that point. He ought to have behaved during a additional dignified manner and may not have misbehaved with them in such the way. You hope that he ought to be instructed a lesson for this so he learns from his mistake and ne'er indulges in such a behaviour in future. You hope that he can examine this matter and so take the proper action as before long as potential.

    i'm positive your boss can do the required then your colleague will learn his lesson. You on your half shouldn't the least bit feel guily for obtaining him penalized as this may be for the betterment of his future and can teach him a way to become a stronger person within the society. i'm positive down the years, once he can reminisce, he can for sure thanks for this deed done to him. then you too can ne'er regret this action of yours.

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    Re: Male colleagues forcing the female colleagues to get their photos clicked

    hii,
    well you should not complain about this without those female colleagues consent. if they want to complain about this they will do that for sure. you should not interfare in this matter. this might create a issue. so just make sure that you stay back.
    thanks

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