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    Lack of confidence is making me feel ashamed of myself

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently my boss asked me take some decision on my own regarding some important project. But due to lack of confidence , I wasnít able to take the correct decision and thus messed up everything. Now I am feeling very ashamed of myself. What to do in such a situation?

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    practical Array
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    Re: Lack of confidence is making me feel ashamed of myself

    Hello my Dear Friend ...


    Kindly follow the below steps

    Then definitely you will get Confidence

    Identify your Successes

    Bounce back from your Mistakes

    Be thankful for what you have ,..

    Ba Positive ... even if you do not feel the same way

    Accept Compliments Gracefully

    Look in the mirror and Smile

    Stick to your Principles

    Help Others ....



    GOOD LUCK

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    shivagarwal Array
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    Re: Lack of confidence is making me feel ashamed of myself

    Dear, you might have taken such decisions thinking that you are not fit.
    Friend, why do you not trust your capabilities, you should be faithful to yourself. Don't ever think that any thing is beyond your reach.
    Now as have been messed up, thus try to solve the puzzle, ask your boss to help you in this.
    Have faith in you and work hard to sort it out.Your problem will be solved.

    best of luck.

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    Barnali Array
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    Re: Lack of confidence is making me feel ashamed of myself

    Hi,

    This issue is not new and it not only happens with you...many of us faces this issue and it impacts a lot in your carrear...
    You might be thinking that "My desion may be not correct, and will be scolded by my Boss"...
    First of all yiu have to be more positive minded...don't you think that all of us makes many many wrong decisions in our life...
    Every body is not perfect in all respect...not even your boss...
    Becoming a good manager you have to take decisions with your own...unless you fail, you will not get success....
    Let mistake happnes..and you will see, you are improving day after day...
    For growing confidence, you have to analyse your self first...ask questions....if another person can do, why not you...

    Beleive me you will success, when you make mistakes...
    keep on going with a goal in your mind...

    Best of luck.

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