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    I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    I was fired from my previous job recently and had a very bitter experience working there. I could not adjust with the dirty politics being played there. Now I am really nervous of taking up new job offers as I donít want to suffer the way I did previously. How to regain my confidence in such a situation?

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    Hi,
    Dear first and formost think is that in most of the I.T companies, dirty politics are there. In some company more environment of politics and while on other different environment or you can say little politics. So just forgot the incidents which happen with you in past company and take experience/lesson in life so start a new journey. World is very large/big many incidents/problem happen with us in our day to day life. So best think is that take a separate bucket of good experience and also take bucket of bad experience and learn from bad experience.
    So do your best and go for new job with full off positive energy and also with some good attitude. Also think positive, may be god want to give you better opportunity.
    Hope for positive and you will get positive!!

    Thanks

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I was fired from my previous job recently and had a very bitter experience working there. I could not adjust with the dirty politics being played there. Now I am really nervous of taking up new job offers as I donít want to suffer the way I did previously. How to regain my confidence in such a situation?
    Dear Aspirant,

    Being human being,we have to face many situations & problems in life as life is full of struggles.So you are required to have confidence in yourself.Also you should know that failure is the path of success.Once you failed,it means you have learnt something which may be useful in life.Being failed means,there were some shortcomings for success,so next time,the same persons are careful not to repeat the same mistakes.Thus the persons get success next time.

    So you should think in the same manner.You should be concentrated on your works & behaviour.You should have list of works to be done daily & what strategy required to complete those works.Accordingly,you should complete the works.When you are update in works & behaviour,you can survive any where peacefully.If you are vexed unnecessarily,take help of police administration.You can report the matter to police station,if you are unnecessarily disturbed by any one.Changing job is not a major problem.

    Thanks & good luck.

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    Office politics have dominated the employees from a decade or more in the present generation of employment.. Never feel for what has happened with you i am sure you might be depressed for all the bad that has happened to you .. But in office there are cheap employees who always rely on bad ways of making witch hunt they try to make others victim for their selfish needs its important that you always maintain your bold and brave courage attitude .. The bad which has happened is past and don't think about the past.. You are a victim of office politics and you should admit it honestly.. Don't become a victim of office politics and you should never repeat the past in any case.. You should not expect that in any organisation that is free from all the politics every where from top level to clerk level to basic employee level there is politics in it the only thing you need to do is to deal it with all the smart and patient thinking and be cool and calm never react too much and never get annoyed on one's behavior .. In office you will be a victim if you loose your patience its because that you mishandled the bloody office politics played on you has made you the victim of it.. You should have given it back now your matured i ad mist that there is lot of pressure but you cannot resign each and every job where you find bad politics then you will remain unemployed for life.. Every where you can see partiality and non-sense activities played by the employees to tell bad of some employee on the back side and even tell and promote rumors about you and partial behavior of boss and bullying employee who are at entry level.. So ignore them give the employees who are playing office politics a damn and never care them you also play what others are applying you in return never be good nature to people who don't deserve it .. Be good to yourself save yourself in order never trouble yourself for self fish motives of others..

    All is in the mind i suggest you be brave and courage in dealing with stupid arrogant people..now its like dealing with snakes ..snakes are dangerous its doesn't mean that you eliminate every snake you should never do it you need to live with good people bad people cruel people and soft nature people this world is filled with all kinds of people the only thing you need to learn is to learn who to live with all the bad taking good and leaving the bad .. Never be sensitive i know that some of the nature is something you cannot change but it cannot be a weakness anymore you should develop your self defense abilities.. You should learn the way to counter moves of bad people before others make any bad against you be well prepared at your defense when you defend the office politics then only you can be strong.. Now that you have the experience of office politics try to face it and control all the abilities and use them to save yourself..

    You should have good network and never be isolated in office have a good network of friends and employee try to mingle with people and develop the ability to know others intentions firstly what others are thinking about you and who are good and differentiate what is what on office politics how to deal with wicked people these you should develop and be smart and don't fear of everything.. be diplomatic at work diplomacy has the power to control others with all the power never underestimate the power of diplomatic relations mind it all the best

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    Hi Dear,

    Every moment in our life is not rosy and we need to accept this fact. In fact, we should be prepared to face new challenges in life and keep moving ahead with fresh energy.

    I can understand that you had a very bad experience in your past job and this thought lowers your confidence and morale to take up your new job. However, you will have to build up your strength and confidence and erase the bitter past of your life, if you really wish to be successful in future.

    Remember that we are a product of choices we make. So decide to take up this new opportunity and forge ahead with fresh energy and enthusiasm.

    Wish you luck!
    Thanks.

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one


    Don't worry friend now a days the problem you have experienced is the similar with the other persons also.

    One must be very careful in handling such type of situations so, past is past and work hard from today because if you do work effectively then no body dares to come in your way and no politics can be played.


    So, be good do good and do not care of all those incidents.Just join in a new office and work effectively.


    Good Luck for your coming days.

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    Re: I had a very bitter experience at my previous job and thus am really very nervous of taking up a new one

    Dear Friend

    Life a challenge and its not so easy to handle .At each and every step your life you will come across some good or bad experience .So let it be and do not worry about the past .Live in present and care for your future .

    Try to take the challenge and give your best in order to face it .Refresh yourself and do not think so much go ahead with positive attitude ,energy and enthusiasm.



    Hope the information helps you as much as you expect .For any other assistance please do not forget to leave a message here .We will get back to you as soon as possible.


    Enjoy your life and all the best for your career.


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