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    I am very bored at official parties

    I don't like to go to official parties. I find them very boring and a drag. I am not interested in gossip. The only other talk that happens there is about work. I know I cannot get excused from office parties but how can I make them more interesting?

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Hi..Ya different people have different nature and ofcourse everyone cannot like the same thing..The hobbies and interests of different individuals are different so some may like these kind of parties and others may not..But ofcourse as you know you cant escape from such parties and you are bound to attend them to make a good impression on your boss..So ofcourse you have to attend them even if you dont like to..

    Now as you told that you dont like to indulge in gossip , so i think to make things more interesting for you i think you should yourself start some conversation with your colleagues, especially those who are closest to you, on a topic which interests you so that your interset is also maintained and you dont get bored..So having a good conversation with your close friends on a topic of your own interest is one way out of this..

    Another way is to make very good friends at the office with whom you can enjoy at the parties and discuss everything like movies, games, sports, about the country etc..Making good and helpful friends is certainly one way that will help you get through the parties..

    Also you can crack jokes and share some interesting anecdotes with your colleagues which will make things more interesting for you..

    Good luck friend..Try to mix up with people and you will surely have a blast

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    involve in party very much first try to know people first... try to grab attention on you and take charge in official party,make your views clear and loud,make them cheer up,convince them with your speech and make them joyfull be frank and tell to enjoy the party and tell them not to be very formal .. if they don't agree don't get dissapointed .. if your bored don't attend the official parties any more enjoy

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Hello ,
    Office parties everywhere are suppose to be boring and a non-escapist bond with you .
    However , you should get bored or try to miss them as its is a very good medium to interact with people
    you generally dont get a chance to interact during working works .
    Try to propose some new ideas so that the party is not always formal .

    You and your colleages can take the intiative to make few arrangemnets to spice up the party .


    • It would certainly bring you in the lime-lights and it would be something which everyone will enjoy .
    • Try with some small games or speechs / some jokes session .
    • You can contact the entertainment clubs from outside to keep some show for the party .


    • Some dance / singing talents within the work place can get to be on stage and perform .
    • Some funny incidents which keep happening in your work place can always lighten the mood of everyone .
    • You can always bring someone as your guest so that you are not alone and them as enjoy the office gathering .

    Thank you !

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Hello,

    You must enjoy the party in your own way. If you do not like to gossip then just sit and watch people.There may be some one like you in the party so you can talk to him about some interesting topic you like.
    If others are gossiping then you can bring your topic of interest and indulge in the chat.This will not bore you.
    You can also bring some one to your party to accompany you.
    Arrange for some mimics or comedy among your office colleagues which may entertain you.
    And it is okay if sometimes you do not attend official parties.

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Hello friend

    I think you don't have any good friend with whom you can share everything what happens in your life so you don't like to go to official parties.

    So instead of avoiding the parties you should make good friends because you also very well know that you can't avoid these kind of parties as your boss would angry.

    once you make good friend i am sure that you would start enjoying the parties .

    with your friend in the party you can start your own discussion .you can discuss your problem ,about your life ,about your family,current affairs or any thing that you and your frind like.

    in this way you would start enjoying it.

    there you have good chance to intract with your boss and other senior faculties and also other colleagues.

    here is the place where you can refresh youself.

    so make good friend and have ablst next time.

    all the best
    thank you.

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Generally official parties are hold by the company and remember that professional parties are not for enjoying personally because there is a secret behind parties is that employees could fee free and whatever the company wants to implement in the rules could be explained by the officials and mainly parties are conducted by higher authorities to clear all the issues related to business and future challenges in corporate sector and when employee will be in the mood of enjoy in party then manager can keep their argument to the employees while getting enjoyed in party and they take advantage of their party that is why remember always it

    If you feel boar in parties of the company then you should try to make it interesting so you could not fee boar and if you directly say not for the party then your boss may be disappointed so you have to manage both things at once that is why first of all you should cooperate with all the employees being in the party or choose some favorite colleagues before party and have a plan to make the party interesting in which you can arrange music systems and plan to crack jokes while being in the party and chance should be given to everyone in the party to share their personal experience and thoughts so I am sure that the party will not be so boring for you and you will feel well while being and enjoying and before that you should take approval of your manager so they allow you to manage this plan and your manager will also allow you to enjoy the party because you are making it interesting and in that party do not forget to talk over business issues where you should take most experienced person or highest authorities of your company and request them to give you some tips at the stage so you could follow with all colleagues so this will be good for all

    All the best

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    ya , its true official parties are boring many times. But as necessary as over work. you should try to focus on the positive points like meeting with other officials , talking to them and attain new ideas , knowledge .
    its a nature of many peoples that they feel bad when they are restricted . so , you should try to enjoy the party by enjoying the meeting new peoples. you should try to explore your self which would make you feel comfortable

    Thank you

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    hi...

    i don't know whether you are jolly person or strict person..first you should mention there.

    if you are a jolly person means you should enjoy the party.you can involve to others like speech,comedy,singing,jokes,dance,etc...

    if you not like to make happy means better you can sit and watch how to enjoying others..you can speak with some one like you..

    just make the time pass in that time by making some thing..better you can try to enjoy your party...

    thank you..

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I don't like to go to official parties. I find them very boring and a drag. I am not interested in gossip. The only other talk that happens there is about work. I know I cannot get excused from office parties but how can I make them more interesting?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It is possible in human life that all the persons are not equally interested in all the things.Some persons are all rounder & these types of persons can adjust any where,because they have little knowledge & interest in almost every field,Where as some persons are centralized in their profession & personal concerned & they always think & worry for the same.


    Being an employee,you should be cooperative & should have nature to adjust to some extent in every occasion other wise you will be set aside which is also not good.So try for the same.


    If at all you can not mingle in such occasion,you should pretend when you are invited for office party.You can say to inviter for some other reasons such as sickness,family problem,having some other works etc.

    So think & proceed further.


    Good luck.

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    hello dear,
    Everybody has its on like and dislike. there is nothing wrong in that.
    I would suggest following underline points.
    1.Make more friends.
    2.talk about politics,movies cricket other than office work.
    3.Eat whatever you want.
    4.if you are interested in drinking you may little bear. it will not harm you.
    5. if you girlfriend or wife than you may also invite them with you to attend party.
    Best of luck dude. I hope one day you love parties.

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I don't like to go to official parties. I find them very boring and a drag. I am not interested in gossip. The only other talk that happens there is about work. I know I cannot get excused from office parties but how can I make them more interesting?
    Hallo Friends....

    ...Definitely I will discuss about your topic.You asked that you are felling boared at official party.According to me it varies man to men,some person likes to attend this type of party some people are not.But I think you should not shows your feeling regarding this mater,it may effect your carrier.You should talk freely with your colleagues,and another menber.You should be jolly man in this case,you can eat what you are want,With this you can increased your interaction with your colleagues.Your dressing must be in well manner.You should give some speech ,funny jokes to your friends etc...I hope after this obviously You will enjoy your party.

    Hope this information will helps you in future..
    For further information please post here.
    Thanking you...
    Regards from you.....

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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Diverse people have different dynamics along with of course absolutely everyone won't be able to much like the exact thing..The likes and dislikes of various everyone is different and so many may well like these type of functions and others would possibly not Although of course everybody knows you cannot escape from this kind of functions and you are therefore certain to show up at them to create a excellent perception for your manager Consequently of course you will need to show up at them despite the fact that never just like to..

    Now as you instructed for you to never choose to take pleasure in rumor , well, i believe to create elements a lot more fascinating for you personally there's no doubt that you should on your own commence many talk with all your peers, in particular those people who are closest to you, with a subject matter that you are interested in settle down ! interset is usually maintained and you simply never get bored..So possessing an excellent talk with all your pals with a subject matter for yourself interest is an excellent method out from this.

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    If other people gossiping then you can bring a person's subject matter useful along with engage in the chat.This will likely not lose interest you.
    You can even carry someone to the social gathering to help go along with you.
    Organise for many imitates and also humor amongst your working environment peers which can entertain you.
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    Re: I am very bored at official parties

    Hi friend,

    I think you don't have any good friend with whom you can share everything what happens in your life so you don't like to go to official parties.
    So instead of avoiding the parties you should make good friends
    because you also very well know that you can't avoid these kind of parties as your boss would angry.

    Once you make good friend i am sure that you would start enjoying the parties .
    With your friend in the party you can start your own discussion .
    You can discuss your problem ,about your life ,about your family,current affairs or any thing that you and your friend like.
    In this way you would start enjoying it.
    There you have good chance to interact with your boss and other senior faculties and also other colleagues.

    Thanks!!!
    all the best.............


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