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    I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    I am a Hostel Warden at Government Working Women hostel. I am very much worried form last some days as the girls have started returning hostel late and even some girls donít return in night also. I have warned them several times but they ignore everything. There is so much unity in girls and that's why they are behaving like that. If I complain for this issue to UIT, I may get transferred from here, which I donít want. What to do then?

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    Smile Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    haI,



    _)_Sorry For your Critical Situation Facing Over There Just Try My Tips Below_)_




    • Try Implementing Some Strict Rules,
    • Warn Every Individuals with Severe Punishments & Penalties,
    • Just Forward a Complaint To your Senior Level Management which brings a Smooth Solution for your Issues,
    • If the Problem goes over your Head it is Advisable To Transfer or Quit the Current Location.



    )(_Thanks_)(_

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    hi.... i think --
    1. you should act strictly with them !!!
    2.you should complain in written telling your problem you are facing due to their misbehaviour and a good reason in case they compel you to be transferred OR
    3.make those girls know that they are under you ,you should make them fear by telling them that you can even inform their parents about their deeds.
    thank you!!!

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    You should be very strick with the girls who are returning late in the hostel or you can contact their parents and can give information about their children ,you should discuss this problem with your senior management,may be they can find the solution for this problem.you should give punishment to the girls who are not listening to you,be very strick with those girls.hope this will solve your problem otherwise you can ask your head for transfer.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel



    Implement strong rules. And punish if any one not follow the rules.

    Complaint to their parents then you are not able to control them.

    Complaint to the senior level management they will take care them.

    Do not give freedom to them . Do not allow them in to hostel if they came at late night.

    Thank you

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello Madam,
    First of all you take strike action against them like : 1.In night no one moving outside the hostel.
    2.Make a fixed time at which you take attendance of every one of girl If any girl is not present at time of attendance then you call the parents of that girl.
    3.If girl is not come night you have submit a latter to the parents of that girl.
    4.If any girl is taken live from you then first you ask form parents then you give the live to the girl.
    5.At the last day of month you take the survey of each and every one and make a report which is handal over the higher authority as well as parents

    If any girl does not follow the of rules of hostel then you take some proof against them and this is handal over the higher authority as well as parents.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hi guest, As a warden of the girls hostel, you are given a responsibility to make students follow the rules of the hostel. For that, you must be very strict. If the girls are not listening to you, then you must send a notice to the parents of that girls stating therein the behaviour of the girls in the hostel. Apart from it, you must prepare a monthly behaviour report of girls in the hostel, handover it to the higher officials and the parents. The security of girls is very necessary. You must take immediately necessary action. Thanx

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Dear madam...

    your problem is common problem....

    you know how the ''new'' generation is!!!!!!!

    you may go to management and harden the some rules,,,
    you can complain to parenets of the girls,,,

    Hope this will help you
    thank you for asking us

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Better you do one thing you go individualy to all the girls room and suggest them that this is not good if you will come late night in the hostel i will get some problem and you all are educated you try to understand me say like this.if they dont understand complain to UIT.and say i tried so many time but they dont follow..and also take daily attandane...do not worry be honest about your job..whether they will transfered may be some girl get some problem who will be responsible you only! so do everything whatever comes under rule regulation of the hostel follow that..

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello dear, i think this type of problem arise with almost every working women's hostel.If the girls are not obeying you you should complain about them to the higher management authority of the hostel administration.

    You can also complain to the parrents of the girls who are not returning in night and you should be very strict to the girls otherwise they will keep doing like this.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    ~Hi~

    You need not worry as there is problem,there is solution.

    You should bring the things to the notice of the head of the college.

    Frame some strick rules with the permission of the head.

    Put a notice on the notice board and also get it signed by the girls who are staying in hostel so that they may be full aware of the newly framed rules and regulations.

    There must be a fine of certain amount for violating a particular rule.

    Send notice to parents of the concerned ward.

    I hope the above points will help you to come over the problems.



    Thanks and best of luck.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    HELLO SIR............

    you do one thing you go individualy to all the girls room and suggest them that this is not good if you will come late night in the hostel i will get some problem and you all are educated you try to understand me say like this.if they dont understand complain to UIT.and say i tried so many time but they dont follow..and also take daily attandane...do not worry be honest about your job You should be very strick with the girls who are returning late in the hostel or you can contact their parents and can give information about their children ,you should discuss this problem with your senior management,may be they can find the solution for this problem.you should give punishment to the girls who are not listening to you,be very strick with those girls.hope this will solve your problem otherwise you can ask your head for transfer.

    ALL THE BEST...

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    I understand your concern regarding girls security and privacy. As there is very much unity among girls so I suggest you to change their partners or shift half of them to other building of the hostel. Be strict with them and made some new and strict policies like fine, punishment etc. Also forward this complain to your seniors regarding security. If the situation is still out of control them forward this complain to their parents, then it might be under some control.Implement some rules regarding going out and coming in at hostel gate.Just be strict and do your job.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hi,
    your problem is quite usual..I Suggest to maintain decorum by follwing strict rules.
    Follow these..
    1. Every gang will have a leading
    personality, who deceives or forces others to join them.. catch them and handle seperately
    2. Bring the problem to the knowledge of higher officials informing that you cant be responsible if any problem occurs, and try to get the powet to manage them
    3.Fire the girls who abscond for nights without proper reasons.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Madam you problem is not a new problem in today's generation this is a common problem faced by every warden.Mam follow the following rules which may helpful to you:
    1) Make a strong rules and punish if any one is not following the rules.
    2) If any girl not following your rule send a letter to their parents. 3)you must prepare a daily behavior report of girls and report it to higher authority and their parents.
    4) Do your job honestly dont worry about your transferred.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    itz really pathetic situation but don't wrry itz not immpossible to manage those girls even impossible says " I M POSSIBLE" be strict to those girls who comes late at night or those who are not return in night.........if they are ignoring you complain to their parents......you should maintain a register for those girls who are going out of the hostel.........be there and tell them to write everything where they are going and at what time they will return in full details......if they will not come in exact time then ask reasons if they are valid then itz ok otherwise you should charges some penalty amount or fine to them.............then i am foresure they start regarding you and and will start follow your instructions.........i hope so everything will be fine

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    HELLO ASPIRANTS,
    Dear, sir
    You dont worry i give some smooth solution like you
    complene their parents you told your children not follow
    rules and i warned many but they ignore me so i will you
    confirm you if any one not follow rule i will complene
    senior mangement and restriced this hostel and we are
    not responsible.Do not allow late night came in hostel.
    You work honestly your jobs.
    GOOD LUCK

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    As a law officer of the females hostel, you are given a responsibility to generate students follow the foundations of the hostel. For that, you require to be terribly strict. If the females don't appear to be taking note of you, then you require to send a notice to the parents of that females stating therein the behavior of the females within the hostel. excluding it, you require to prepare a every month behavior document of ladies within the hostel, relinquishing it to the upper officers & also the parents. the safety of ladies is brilliantly necessary.

    you require to take in actual time necessary action.

    You ought to be terribly smitten with the females World Health Organization square measure returning late within the hostel otherwise you will contact their parents & may offer knowledge concerning their kids ,you ought to discuss this downside together together with your senior management, could even be they will notice the answer for this downside. you must offer penalization to the females World Health Organization don't appear to be taking note of you, be terribly smitten with those females. hope this can solve your downside otherwise you'll raise your head for transfer.

    Better you factor you go singly to any or all the females area & recommend them that this can be not sensible in case you may return late night within the hostel i will be able to get some downside & you all are educated you are trying to grasp me say like this. in the event that they don‚��t perceive complain to UIT.and say i tried such lots of time however they don‚��t follow..and conjointly take every day group action...do not worry be honest concerning your job. whether or not they can transferred could even be there fore me woman get some downside World Health Organization are going to be accountable you only! so do everything no matter comes beneath rule regulation of the hostel follow that..

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello ,

    You are a hostel warden so first of all you need to learn to be strict.
    If you be liberal then no one will listen to you.
    As a warden you have the responsibility and you need to maintain the discipline.
    The girls who are coming late to the hostel write their name and give a warning.
    even if they dont listen ,Call their parents and raise the issue infront of them.
    and ask them to tell to their child to follow the rules .
    If the issue doesnot settle the complain to the authority and ask them to take a serious action against the late comers.

    Thank you

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hi,

    I can understand your situation but if you want to handle this issue first of all you should get strict with the girls.
    You can arrange a meeting in the hostel hall, and give a warning to all girls that if any one among you will not follow the rules of Hostel, then firstly will send the complaint letter to your parents. After taking this action, if still anyone will not be serious about it we will take a strict and serious action against her.

    You can also discuss this issue with your senior management who are in the hostel committee, and with the help of them make some new rules for the girls and get it signed by all girls.
    In those rules you can mention that if any one will go against the rules, then that girl will not stay in the hostel any more.

    To talk them is not the option to handle them, only the rules, on which you will take a sign of all, will work out.

    Also if there are some genuine girls who work in their organization till late hours as per the project requirement, then you can give her a pass for 2 hrs for that day, but that would be for 2 or 3 times in a month.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hi madam,

    In simple way you can get the girls into you hand.

    +++ Tips for wardens :

    ---> Put the rules very strictly.

    ---> Don't send them out from hostel after 8'O Clock in night.

    ---> Tell them to put the mobile phone with you at the night.

    ---> When joining the new members you should take the aggreement from them above hostel rules.

    ---> If they miss lead the rules of hostel.Send them out of hostel immediately.

    ---> Keep the food properly to girls.Definitely they will listen your words.

    ---> Provide the all facilities to them otherwise they won't listen your words.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hi..You surely have a big problem here ..As a warden your main duty is to maintain discipline but you are not being able to do that due to various reasons...Dont be afraid..Go and talk to the girls and speak your mind..Call them together at one place and then tell them what you think about their ridiculous behaviour and their breaking all the rules of the hostel..Tell thenm that should be ashamed of themselves and should be more responsible at this age..

    Reprimand them and give them your peace of mind...Dont leave them until they apologize to you..Tell them if they were interested in such things as coming to hostel late at night , then they should certainly not have joined the hostel at first place..I am sure after such severe scolding they will certainly obey you and follow your orders..Hoping they learn from their mistakes and dont repeat them again..

    But if they still dont listen warn them that you will complain to the head and then i am sure they will not disobey you again..Good luck and Thanks

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello,
    Sorry for the situation faced by you.To control the activities of these girls implement new strategies to bring them in your control( i.e inform their parents).
    be strict towards them and As you are the warden you have right and power to control them.You can control them by ordering that if they continue in the same way you will send them out of the HOSTEL.You can also proceed this problem to higher authorities.
    Hope you will soon get the control of the students.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello madam i understand the problem which you are facing... Report the problem to their parents only they can find solution for this problem if you have told them several times...

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello Friend,

    Issue The New Rules For The Hostel Girls And If They Not Follow These Rules Than Give Some Punishment.......
    And If They Not Follow The Instruction Again And Not Come To Hostel Timing Than Please Informed The Parents Of Girls And Give All Info To Parents....
    Than They Sure Follow Your Rules.......

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    Cool Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    being a girls hostel warden what you are to do to obey rules by the girls:-


    1.first give notice normally and take signatures on the copy of notice.

    2.notice content should be depicted normally about the rules to obey by the girls.

    3.girls should see the penalties to be done by the warden in case they fail to obey guidelines.

    4.a breach of guidelines can create unavoidable circumstances if any unlawful activities happen.

    5.warden must give notice to the guardian of indisciplined girls'.

    6.in case of late attendance /arrival in the hostel premises by any girl should inform to the nearest police station.

    I think if a hostel warden take above steps the girls bound to obey all rules of hostel.

    Thank you,


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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    To control the situation as a hostel warden you are to take few stringent actions against the girls who are not obeying the hostel rules beside they are destroying hostel culture as well motivating other girls.

    1.ISSUE NOTICES TO ALL REGARDING OBEYING HOSTEL RULES AND TAKE ALL GIRLS' SIGNATURES ON THE NOTICE PAPER AS A PROVE.(YOU HAVE SEEN THE NOTICE).

    2.TAKE ACTIONS WHO DID NOT ACCOMPANY YOU ISSUE MEMO.

    3.IF THEY BREAK AGAIN AND AGAIN THEN SEND ULTIMATUM TO THE GUARDIAN MENTIONING ALL.

    4.IF ANY GIRL DELAY'S TO REACH IN HOSTEL BEYOND THE SHEDULE TIME GIVE/ISSUE MEMO.

    5.LASTLY IF ANY GIRL REMAIN ABSENT WITHOUT NOTICE/INFORMATION, IN THE HOSTEL DO FIR IN THE NEAREST POLICE STATION TO KEEP YOURSELF WHITE.

    THANK YOU,


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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    hello madam,

    its very difficult to stay with the girls in the hostel.

    hostel girls sometimes go on with the rash behaviour too.

    so as they do wrong

    give them punishment

    report to the higher authorities.

    report to their parents about their behaviour in the hostel.

    when anyone teach good it will not get to the others mind.they themselves should understand the situations.

    they are thinking about the temporary happiness but not permanent which lasts long.

    happy to know about a good woman like you who have a high responsbility and care of your students.

    all the best
    regards srilekha

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Hello Friend,

    This usually happains with students of younger age . they prefer to disobey the rules but unless until it is harmful please dont get angry them.rather befriendly with them such that they will like you and obey you.second thing you should keep track of those girls who dont obey and do mischiefs repeatedly and bring it to the superitends notice such that they can notify their parents .
    make some rules for overall girls not specific girl such that she wont think that any partiality you are doing with her so follow these thing they will start obey you.

    Thank you.

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    Re: I am a girls hostel warden but girls donít follow the rules of hostel

    Madam as a warden you should never backtract on your duties at any cost when you have witnessed these activities immediately call for a meeting with the hostel authorities and parents report that these king of activities should never be entertained if girls don't return hostel some return late how can this be rules its more or less pub not hostel.. Madam i don't understand why you fear that you will be transferred i don't think if your transferred for doing your duty then then there is a fixing and understanding between the girls and management take some points from this matter when something which is not supposed to happen happens you will face police problem and other enquiry you will fall in legal trouble that time hostel girls, management will not come to your rescue i am warning you severely hence you take this matter serious don,t fall in to moods of chill these things are common i condemn this behavior girls or boys no matter what gender they belong if they don't feel responsible in coming early its better you don't care them but you should do your duty thank you all the best

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