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    I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    I work in a College as an assistant to one of the professor. In our department there is one of my colleagues who is senior to me and also relatives of the Dean of college. He harasses almost all his junior colleague including me. We cannot complain against him because of his relation to dean. Is there any other way we can teach lesson to this person? Please suggest.

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I work in a College as an assistant to one of the professor. In our department there is one of my colleagues who is senior to me and also relatives of the Dean of college. He harasses almost all his junior colleague including me. We cannot complain against him because of his relation to dean. Is there any other way we can teach lesson to this person? Please suggest.
    Dear Aspirant,

    Your senior is a relative of the dean of the college & He is harassing you all.The persons whoevever it may be,are not above the law.If all of you have unity,you can teach him a lession.IWith consult of higher official,you can get him transfer elsewhere.If it is not possible,don't care him.But it not good.Start giving regars to him accept him senior,then you won't have any problem.In order to teach him a lession,you can take up any illegal steps otherwise you all may have another sorts of problems.

    Thanks.


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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    dear,always remember you are the only assistant of the senior professor neither the senior colleague nor the dean.so you should concentrate to the duty of your own,i,e, to the professor.always try to help one of your senior professor.

    The person who is harassing you should not hear his unlawful order,always show you and other disinterest to the senior/relative of the dean.always remember when you fall in trouble only helper is your senior professor.your dean's relative can not save/help you at all, so always show disinterest(silently) about him.this is the only medicine to treat him.

    Thank you,

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    Ofcourse you can make him pay for his doings he has no right to harass a co-worker just because he is a senior, actually harassing workers in an institute or organisation is punishable. You should complain to the dean or the higher authority i believe they(he) won't turn a deaf ear to your complaints, if the authority stands in favour of your senior then try to give him a competition in every possible way it will make him sweat. You can also seek the help of higher authorities outside the institute, most probably the authority which undertakes or controls the functioning of such institutes in your region, I'am sure they won't tolerate such harassments. All the best

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Dear..

    This is so bad to hear that you are being harassed at your own working place. As you said that your senior colleague is harassing you then you can do few things to teach him a lesson.

    First of all tell your immediate professor that you are facing such kind of difficulty and because of this you are not able to work properly and tell him the reason for this also, If that does not work then you should go and talk to the dean. Though you said that he is dean's relative but that does not mean at all that the dean is supporting him. you should go and tell talk to him to get the real things.

    If this also does not work then you should stop listening and talking to that senior apart from official talks and tell your other friends also to do the same. This will surely make him realize that he is doing wrong to you guys. You can also take help from any employee union available in your city.

    Hope it will help

    Cheers...!!!

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    hello siri can understand your feelings and pain.you should take an appropirate action agsinst him.as you can search another job to leaving the current.because nobody can hurt to any presone without any spcific reason

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    Dear Friend,

    Being the relative of the dean doesnot give your seniour any such rights. You may contact your Director for the problem solution along with some proof and with the support of other employees who are being harrased by him.

    In case all this doesnt work out, you may lodge a complaint against him in labor court but ensure you have a support group of some proofs that can help you to say word against him.

    Thanks

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Hi friend,

    I too faced this type of problem with my senior in my company.Do the below things when he harased you immediately.

    ---> Give the complaint to head of the company like your team manager or company manager.

    ---> Give the police complaint about him.

    ---> Don't talk with him when he is harased you and go away from him.

    ---> Leave or resign your company and search new company.

    ---> If he is more harased immediately take him to police station.


    All the best.........

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Hi.. I think you should certainly take some strict action against this colleague of yours and not sit quietly just because he's the relative of Dean..

    You should all gather together whoever are harassed by him and go together and complain about him to your senior authorities.. Tell everything to them and give all the facts and dont try to hide anything from the seniors staff..

    Dont be afraid to complain as such people should certainly be taught a lesson and not left spotfree..

    If you are still afraid or no action is taken against him then you all get together and try to harass him in some way or the other.. He certainly will not be able to do anything in front of your majority and you will certainly teach him a lesson..

    Best of luck.. Thanks

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    hi friend,

    you should be bold in the activities

    before complaining to your faculty think that you won't repeat the mistake in the future by harassing your juniors and more over think that you should not spoil the lives of other students.

    think before you act.

    go for a wise decision whether to complain or not.

    all the best
    regards srilekha

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Hello Friend,

    Like That Peoples Which Are Using The Position For Wrong Work, So That Is Our Duty To Give The Lesson Of Respect "How To Behave With Our Colleges And Relative".

    But In That Time Dont Give Any Lesson Of That Person, Only Concentrate In Your Work.

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Your senior may be a relative of the dean of the faculty & he's harassing you all.The persons whoevever it should be,are not higher than the law.If all of you've got unity,you can teach him a lession.IWith consult of upper official,you can get him transfer elsewhere.If it's unattainable,don't care him.But it not sensible.Start giving regars to him settle for him senior,then you will not have any downside.In order to show him a lession,you can take up any nonlegal steps otherwise you all could have another kinds of issues.

    This is thus unhealthy to listen to that you simply square measure being annoyed at your own operating place. As you same that your senior colleague is harassing you then you'll be able to do few things to show him a lesson.

    initial of all tell your immediate academic that you simply face such quite issue and since of this you're unable to figure properly and tell him the explanation for this additionally, If that doesn't work then you must go and refer to the dean. although you same that he's dean's relative however that doesn't mean the least bit that the dean is supporting him. you must go and tell refer to him to urge the important things.

    If this additionally doesn't work then you must stop listening and lecture that senior excluding official talks and tell your alternative friends additionally to try to to identical. this may for certain create him understand that he's doing wrong to you guys. you'll be able to additionally take facilitate from any worker union obtainable in your town.

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    Hi,

    The person is harassing you and he is in relation to the dean, so you cannot complain about him.
    This is absolutely wrong.
    You should complain about him, it is the legal way to teach him lesson.
    Since, he is relative of the dean, he will feel shameful in front of him.
    Mistakes should not be hidden, which may harm you.

    You and other colleagues should start ignoring him to teach him a lesson.
    Do not give a due attention to his words.
    This will surely help him understand his mistake.

    If he is alone and you colleagues are many, then you must say it in front him that he is doing wrong.

    Good luck

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    Re: I am getting harassed by my senior colleague

    hello friend

    it is very sad to hear that you and other junior students are being harassed by the seniors.

    see personally you can't do any thing as all the seniors will become enemy of yours so you should deal the situation wisely.

    first of all you should talk to the juniors and encourge them to gather the courage so that they might all together go to the dean and complain to the dean .

    i am sure dean will listen to your problem and take any action.

    all the best
    thank you.

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