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    I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    I am working in a government organisation. Recently some of my colleagues along with my boss have been misbehaving with me due to reasons best known to them. I am very badly hurt by this and thus am feeling very depressed due to this. What can be done in such a situation?

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Dear Sir,

    If you know the reason and they are professional reasons and if you are at the faulty end, then its better you improve such reasons.

    And if the reason belongs to your personal life or the reason refers to some thing you are not faulty, its better you first try to talk to your boss for his irrelevant behaviour and how much its effecting you. In case he seems inconsiderate to your problem, escalate him and report this to the higher officials.

    Thanks

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Hello,

    In life we have to come across many unwanted situations which we never expect to happen.You cannot expect that everything will be rosy.But yes, it really hurts when we find our closed ones behaving in such manner which we never expect,not even in our dream! It may bring depression,but the best thing to do in such cases is to take a lesson from it.It is important you identify those handful of people whom you can suppose as your true friend! One thing I have learnt from life is,mix with everyone,but dont be close to them.Open yourself only to those whom you can trust.Not all are trustworthy,as majority of them you will find are in search of opportunity to hit you below your belt.Its time to forget what has already happened and start afresh with a new vigour.

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    If these people are misbehaving without any reasons than you should ask them to stop such behaviour with immediate effect
    If they do not stop than you can always meet the senior managers and report to them.
    Also you can write a detailed mail complaining to the HR Manager of your office
    You should not let this happen.
    Behaving badly with anyone is not at allowed in any organization

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organisation. Recently some of my colleagues along with my boss have been misbehaving with me due to reasons best known to them. I am very badly hurt by this and thus am feeling very depressed due to this. What can be done in such a situation?
    Hello Aspirant,

    It seems you are faulty in some cases.That is why you have been misbehaved with your boss & your colleagues.Here you seem alone & your position seems very weak.Whatever the case may be.Since you have not disclosed the reason of misbehaviour,it is difficult to advice in your case.However,analyse the case.If you have committed any mistake for which proof & evidence is available with them,you should regret with your boss for the fault otherwise you can either forget the matter or you can report the matter to your boss's.If you have been insulted & misbehaved on the basis of caste or purposefully,you should not keep quite & should move to your boss's.If you get justice,it is alright otherwise you can move to police administration.But think well & then move.

    So see the case & then move.

    Good luck.

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Hi aspirant

    Your colleagues and especially your boss should not behave with you in such a manner. Your boss should not misuse his power in such a way and rather tell your colleagues also to stop behaving in such a way with you. You should definitely try to stop this injustice and not get depressed in this way. You should fight this injustice. Go and talk to your higher authorities and tell them what is in your mind.

    Tell your higher authorities that recently some of your colleagues along with your boss have been misbehaving with you for reasons best known to them. You have been depressed due to this . You hope that they will look into this matter and thus give you the necessary justice. You hope that they will teach them a lesson which they deserve so that they don't repeat such things again.

    I am sure that they will help you out . Good luck and thanks

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    This is really unprofessional that you have been hurt by your boss and some of your colleagues and you do not even know the reasons behind it.This sort of behaviour is really harmful and may put adverse effects not only on the work and the performance but also the health of any employee.It is the working environment which gives satisfaction to a individual and if this sort of working condition prevails it will be very difficult to work in that environment.

    You should not get depressed by the misbehaviour,rather you should get determined to achieve the good behaviour from your boss and the colleague.Be good to them and strive hard to get admiration.Leave no loopholes and no stone unturned between you and your success.You will automatically see that the misbehaviour has disappeared.

    -Try to analyze the reasons for such kind of behaviour.
    -Try to know what is the thing in you which is the root cause of this sort of behaviour.
    -If there is mistake from your side,you should definitely aim at improving it.
    -Try to work upon your weak points and maintain a cordial relation with them.
    -Aim at perfection and success and try to achieve them in consistent basis.
    -Automatically all such behaviour will disappear.
    -If still they do not improve,you should go for a switch over to some other company.

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Well dear it does hurt when persons in your organization misbehaves with you and if it is boss also then it is more frustrating.
    You can come out of this issue by concentrating on your work.if you work hard and make influence on others due to your work then everything that had happened in past will be hidden and you will get priority.so you should do work with responsibility and be punctual also.thank you

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I am working in a government organization. Recently some of my colleagues along with my boss have been misbehaving with me due to reasons best known to them. I am very badly hurt by this and thus am feeling very depressed due to this. What can be done in such a situation?
    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    I will be joining in the Software firm in a two months or so as a fresher, so before that I need to know what are the steps I can take to make myself prepared for everything? Can you please give me more insight on this by sharing your experience when you initially joined in company? What is required for a fresher before entering into the professional career?
    Hello Friend......



    If you know the reason and they are professional reasons and if you are at the faulty end, then its better you improve such reasons.

    And if the reason belongs to your personal life or the reason refers to some thing you are not faulty, its better you first try to talk to your boss for his irrelevant behaviour and how much its effecting you. In case he seems inconsiderate to your problem, escalate him and report this to the higher officials.

    Hope my suggestion will help you....
    Best of luck.....
    With regards from you@...
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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    hi, friend .

    >> This is personal things and you can give your best by your work .

    >> And let me tell you Boss Will not going to remember all this things he has so many work to do.

    >> and do some thing best that will increase your value in front that employee.

    >> just this is the best way.

    >> don't be tit for tat that will make your personality become low.

    >> i hope this will help you.

    >> all the very best

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    Re: I am badly hurt due to the misbehaviour of some of my colleagues along with my boss , towards me in the recent past

    In everyday life we have to run into a lot of undesired conditions which will many of us in no way be ready to happen.You can't expect to have of which everything will be rosy.But yes, it truly damages while look for your sealed types conducting in these approach which will many of us in no way expect to have,definitely not even your goal! That would bring major depression,however the most important in such cases is to take a class out of it.It is essential people identify all those couple of men and women whom you can think since your legitimate close friend! One thing I have got trained out of our life is,blend together with every person,however please don't always be all around them.
    Open yourself and then all those whom you can trust.Not they all are respected,while the vast majority advisors you'll find are searching for possibility hitting people using your belt.Its time for you to forget what's already transpired and initiate over with vigour.

    Seems like you are defective in most cases.That is the reason you've been misbehaved using your leader & your own colleagues.Here people seem to be alone & your posture seems incredibly weak.Whatever the truth may possibly be.Since you have never given away the rationale of misbehavior,it is not easy for you to assistance inside your case.However,analyze the particular case.If you may have committed any kind of slip-up is actually evidence & proof is accessible along with them,you ought to regret using your leader with the problem usually you may either forget the difficulty or survey the difficulty for a boss's.If you've been insulted & misbehaved judging by caste and also purposefully,you can't maintain fairly & need to move for a boss's.

    If you will get justice,the idea is fine or perhaps you can relocate to cops administration.But believe very well & and then move.

    A person's friends and particularly your manager shouldn't respond on hand in their normal manner. Your manager shouldn't incorrect use her strength such in addition to fairly tell your friends and avoid conducting such together with you. You should attempt to halt that injustice but not acquire discouraged with this way. You ought to attack that injustice. Get in addition to the decision larger professionals in addition to tell them what on earth is inside your mind.

    Educate larger professionals of which not long ago a number of your own friends together with your leader are actually misbehaving on hand pertaining to causes well known for you to them. You're discouraged for this.You wish that they're going to investigate that make any difference and therefore provide the necessary justice. You wish that they're going to train them your class which are entitled to so they really will not do it again things like this again.

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